I was saddened to read Fr Corapi’s statement on his website. I’m in RCIA and will be joining the Church this Easter. I’ve learned a lot from Fr. Corapi and he is one of the reasons I’m becoming a Catholic.
It’s tough being a priest and always has been. There are dozens of Russian proverbs referring to drunken priests, lecherous priests, etc. One account of a corrupt priest sounds like it was written a few years ago: it was actually written in ancient Babylon! No, it’s not easy being a priest.
For one thing, we hold these men to much higher standards than we hold to others or to ourselves. Even for protestant ministers and their families, they have to be “holier than thou.” Ministers have a divorce rate of close to 50%. I bet one of the reasons for divorce is that their spouse is tired of being judged…
Priests are human beings and like us, they are flawed. There’s this pesky thing called human nature. They are sinners which is why they have to take the Eucharist first before they give it to us because they need to be forgiven of their sins.
The Church recognizes that we all are flawed. That’s why there’s the Sacrament of Reconciliation. We confess our sins, repent, do penance; we’re forgiven.
Now I would like to believe that Fr. Corapi is innocent and hope that he is. As he is being tested, he is being drawn closer to the Lord. And I would like to think that Fr. is turning his suffering over to God. He’s being like Christ, carrying his cross. He’s gathering new material for future talks…assuming these allegations are baseless.
But what if he isn’t? Or what if they’re partially accurate, just a little grain of truth? Then what? What’s in it for the accuser? Short of a full recanting by her or it turns out she has a history of making false allegations; is mentally ill, or the 2nd woman says she has no knowledge of any of this, etc, no matter how this plays out, Fr. Corapi still has this in his record. If the woman recants, some will say, “she’s been paid off,” or some secret society is threatening her family or whatever fiction people want to believe. He’ll never completely clear his name. There was always be this cloud.
If he is guilty we should recognize that he is a sinner like the rest of us; that he should be forgiven. He has the Sacrament of Reconciliation that we all do; we should forgive him and encourage him to continue his work. I will keep listening to his talks and learning from him. He can still teach me about the catechism or about our Blessed Mother, or the principles of spiritual warfare.
May God Bless You, Father Corapi. You are in my prayers.