How is the Church going to spring it on them that she views this kind of behavior as problematic?
Seems like lgbtqq people might be more upset at the bait and switch tactic?
I think I might be.
I think many faithful have a highly reductive way of looking at the « rules ». You need a relationship with Christ first, recognizing that communion with this perfect man and Lord is a desirable state of being. As such the teachings of the Church become an ideal to strive for, not a set of rules to follow. The Church does have a duty to present to us the Christian ideal, in a loving manner, and exposing the tool to reach it: sacramental grace and always reinforcing God’s love for us, even when we fail. It is only when we love someone that we feel remorse for falling short of being loving.
Too many Catholics seem to want people to perfect themselves before entering the Church.
Imagine for an instant that the Church said being left-handed was a disorder, and writing with your left hand was a sin. (Sadly, it was the case for a long time in schools! My father was left-handed and was caned for writing with his left hand in school).
Imagine if we said, “sorry, you need to rid yourself of your left-handed writing before joining; it’s not a sin to have this disorder, but it’s a grave sin to write with your left hand”. How many southpaws would want to join the Church? The Church will have been reduced to an exclusive club for the already righteous. How many LGBGQT would want to join if we reduce the Church to a private club requiring adhesion to a difficult set of rules upon joining
Now if instead the Church said “it’s the ideal to be right handed as the natural order of the world is geared to right-handedness. If you’re left-handed, come anyway! We’ll teach you about Christ, and through his sacraments you will gradually become better at writing with your right hand. Even on days you have trouble and revert to your left hand, through Christ’s representative, the priest, you will be encouraged to keep trying and perfect your right-hand writing skills”.
Christian perfection may never be attained, but it’s something to strive for.