Just to get you thinking even harder, what if they come out with hard reserach that some men have brains that are hard-wired to pedophilia? What if pedophiles are predisposed in their genetic makeup or in their brains, etc. to rape little kids? Would that diminish the sinfulness? Whether or not we all have predispositions IMO isn’t the point. The Scriptures tell us that we all have the ability to overcome our demons through Christ. He gives us the strength and the way out. There’s always a way out given by God. It’s a cop-out to just surrender to nature and do what feels good as per the secular religion we’re being shoveled…I’d think long and hard before commiting to TEC…real long!
gurneyhalleck1,
I’ve only had a few conversations with you on the forums. I do appreciate your direct responses–blunt at times–but nothing wrong with blunt.
The same sex affection issue is tough, any way you look at it. I would not advocate “surrendering to nature” to just “do what feels good.” Agreed, secular religion abounds in our society. We are bombarded with “feel good” religion and “gospels” of prosperity. The Baptist Church I left, has more than 12,000 members; and Sunday worship services are more like a spectator sport than actual worship. I’m all for praising God with our voices and talents; but the entertainment factor, in these services, is off the charts–and seems to be part of an epidemic in mega churches in Texas.
Sorry for digressing. Back to the topic. Pedophilia, whether perpetrated by homosexuals or heterosexuals is a destructive abomination. I am a survivor of childhood sexual assault–the perpetrator being a married heterosexual–a “friend” of the family. At age 55, I still deal with the issues of that assault, which lasted for about a year and a half around the age of 5 to 6 years old. I recently went back into counseling; because the “night terrors” returned, yet again. So, I can’t image that anyone would more more sensitive to this issue than myself.
I think the problem we face as Christians is how to minister to the homosexual community.
If we turn them away, how will they find the testimony of Christ?
If we embrace them, what effect will that have on the life of a Church?
How will their presence affect our children?
The safety of our children is a great concern; and it should be.
Keeping our children away from those of “same sex affection,” may protect them from the small percentage of homosexual pedophiles. Yet, keeping homosexuals out of our churches does not protect our children from heterosexual pedophiles. Pedophiles are often the last person you would suspect–usually a family member or a friend of the family (which was the case for me.)
As for the Episcopal Church; I am studying and asking many, many questions. I attended a 4-hour “Exploration” class, today—getting better acquainted with the Priest/Rector, Staff, and beliefs of the Church.
There were about 10 of us in the class. I was the only one to ask about the “same sex affection” issue. The Priest, who has been Rector at this particular Episcopal Church for the last 5 years, said that he believes Christ is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. He said he welcomes all to the Church; but would never agree to the Ordination of those of same-sex affection, nor would he perform a same-sex marriage. He said he made it very clear to this Episcopal Church, before he became Rector, that he will never change his mind on this issue. I was very relieved to hear this.
I’m too new to the congregation to know whether or not those of “same sex affection” are attending this Episcopal Church. I think there are probably far more liberal churches in the area, in which they would feel more comfortable.
Tough issue: keeping the message of Christ intact, while ministering to the lost and misguided.
Anna