Gay Marriage: The Death Knell of Christiany

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edwest211:
There are those with SSA who don’t want to engage in homosexual activity but when trying to seek counseling, they were denied by law.
How? Why? What would make the law do such a thing?
Ed is grossly misinformed. Counseling and/or therapy to help people, even minors, with SSA are available from legitimate mental health professionals.

Several states have passed laws that deny “conversion therapy” to minors. Why would a state deny "conversions therapy for minors? Precisely, for the facts it doens’t work and it can cause harm.
While peer-reviewed evidence for the efficacy of precisely therapies was lacking, a growing body of scientific studies indicated that it was not effective in altering subjects’ sexual orientations and was potentially harmful. (The main study cited in support of conversion therapy was conducted by Robert L. Spitzer, who later apologized and admitted his data was tainted, unreliable, and misinterpreted.)
It gets worse.
While science was discrediting conversion therapy, high-profile ex-gay leaders were either apologizing and defecting to the other side or being exposed as frauds. John Paulk, a man who had been a vocal and visible supporter of gay conversion for more than a decade and claimed to be happily married to a former lesbian, was photographed in a Washington, D.C., gay bar in 2000. Three years later, it was discovered that Michael Johnston, founder of “National Coming Out of Homosexuality Day,” was having unprotected sex with men he’d met online despite being HIV-positive. In 2006, Ted Haggard, a fiery opponent of gay rights and then president of the National Association of Evangelicals, admitted to having gay sex with a male prostitute after unsuccessful attempts to change his orientation through counseling. A few years later, John Smid, former executive director of the ex-gay advocacy group “Love in Action,” apologized and said he “never met a man who experienced a change from homosexual to heterosexual.” These names are only a sampling.
The Death-knell
But the death-knell sounded in July of 2013 when Alan Chambers, president of Exodus International, America’s largest ex-gay Christian ministry apologized to the LGBT community and shuttered his organization. Chambers once claimed he knew “tens of thousands of people who have successfully changed their sexual orientation.” But last week, he told me “99.9 percent of people I met through Exodus’ ministries had not experienced a change in orientation.”
 
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Several states have passed laws that deny “conversion therapy” to minors. Why would a state deny "conversions therapy for minors? Precisely, for the facts it doens’t work and it can cause harm.

While peer-reviewed evidence for the efficacy of precisely therapies was lacking, a growing body of scientific studies indicated that it was not effective in altering subjects’ sexual orientations and was potentially harmful. (The main study cited in support of conversion therapy was conducted by Robert L. Spitzer, who later apologized and admitted his data was tainted, unreliable, and misinterpreted.)

It gets worse.

While science was discrediting conversion therapy, high-profile ex-gay leaders were either apologizing and defecting to the other side or being exposed as frauds. John Paulk, a man who had been a vocal and visible supporter of gay conversion for more than a decade and claimed to be happily married to a former lesbian, was photographed in a Washington, D.C., gay bar in 2000. Three years later, it was discovered that Michael Johnston, founder of “National Coming Out of Homosexuality Day,” was having unprotected sex with men he’d met online despite being HIV-positive. In 2006, Ted Haggard, a fiery opponent of gay rights and then president of the National Association of Evangelicals, admitted to having gay sex with a male prostitute after unsuccessful attempts to change his orientation through counseling. A few years later, John Smid, former executive director of the ex-gay advocacy group “Love in Action,” apologized and said he “never met a man who experienced a change from homosexual to heterosexual.” These names are only a sampling.

The Death-knell

But the death-knell sounded in July of 2013 when Alan Chambers, president of Exodus International, America’s largest ex-gay Christian ministry apologized to the LGBT community and shuttered his organization. Chambers once claimed he knew “tens of thousands of people who have successfully changed their sexual orientation.” But last week, he told me “99.9 percent of people I met through Exodus’ ministries had not experienced a change in orientation.”
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How Christians Turned Against Gay Conversion Therapy

Obama’s call to ban the practice reflects a tectonic shift within the community that once championed it.
I see. It makes sense that they would ban something that doesn’t work and could harm someone. A while ago I thought that I should go seek conversion therapy. However I didn’t because I thought it was just not possible.
 
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Interesting. So “gay conversion therapy” was forced on anyone?
Do you see that a medical professional promoting a therapy that is generally held to be ineffective and in some case harmful is not a good thing?
 
Was “gay conversion therapy” forced on anyone?
The states have a right to protect minors and those states that banned the therapy reasoned that some parents and minors would seek conversion therapy on advice of an advocate without first doing due diligence and therefore not have full knowledge that it doesn’t work or the potential to harm the minor.
 
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edwest211:
Was “gay conversion therapy” forced on anyone?
Is nothing a wrong unless it is forced upon the innocent? Was anyone forced to invest with Madoff?
The jurisdictions that are banning this quackery are banning it for minors. In most jurisdictions, minors cannot give consent, and thus it is their parents or guardians who have been putting them into this therapy, so, by definition, yes people have been forced into this fake therapy. An adult is certainly free to choose any therapy they’d like; power crystals, hypnotism, joining a cult, whatever they may like, but most governments assert at least some right to protect the rights, health and safety of minors, so in this case, banning this fakery from being used on minors is within a state’s right.
 
most governments assert at least some right to protect the rights, health and safety of minors,
Yes, though not just minors. All those where there is an imbalance in power (includes knowledge) or a vulnerability of some kind.
 
I’ll be charitable and state your opinion is based on ignorance. If you are an honest person, at this point you would admit that your opinion is baseless, and abandon it.
I will take up that opinion though. I looked through a random list of serial killers to see if their sexual preferences in victims were homosexual or heterosexual. It was somewhere between an half and a third were homosexual, sufficient for me to hold that opinion, though it is not something I would use to persuade others.

However, when it comes to sin, I prefer theology over psychology, as I have found it more reliable over the years. Sin numbs one to sin, not only the same sin, but similar sin, and to a lesser extent, all sin. I find no surprise that homosexual activity increases the chance that one would be willing to take the lives of others, or for that matter, one’s own life, as does other sexually indulgent sins.
 
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The jurisdictions that are banning this quackery are banning it for minors. In most jurisdictions, minors cannot give consent, and thus it is their parents or guardians who have been putting them into this therapy, so, by definition, yes people have been forced into this fake therapy. An adult is certainly free to choose any therapy they’d like; power crystals, hypnotism, joining a cult, whatever they may like, but most governments assert at least some right to protect the rights, health and safety of minors, so in this case, banning this fakery from being used on minors is within a state’s right.
It’s a shame the same logic doesn’t extend to minors switching or deciding genders, to have abortions or consensual sex.
 
When you can figure out how to prevent teenagers from having sex, you let me know. 2000 years of Christianity haven’t done this.
 
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niceatheist:
I’ll be charitable and state your opinion is based on ignorance. If you are an honest person, at this point you would admit that your opinion is baseless, and abandon it.
I will take up that opinion though. I looked through a random list of serial killers to see if their sexual preferences in victims were homosexual or heterosexual. It was somewhere between an half and a third were homosexual, sufficient for me to hold that opinion, though it is not something I would use to persuade others.

However, when it comes to sin, I prefer theology over psychology, as I have found it more reliable over the years. Sin numbs one to sin, not only the same sin, but similar sin, and to a lesser extent, all sin. I find no surprise that homosexual activity increases the chance that one would be willing to take the lives of others, or for that matter, one’s own life, as does other sexually indulgent sins.
And you have actual data(and no, flimsy anecdotal observations is not data) to back up your claim homosexual activity increases the likelihood of being a murderer, right?
 
And you have actual data(and no, flimsy anecdotal observations is not data) to back up your claim homosexual activity increases the likelihood of being a murderer, right?
I do not need data, for I do not think anyone will ever study this in our political climate. My own observations are sufficient for me. “Flimsy” is a matter of opinion.

I had thought I made this clear.
 
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However, when it comes to sin, I prefer theology over psychology, as I have found it more reliable over the years. Sin numbs one to sin, not only the same sin, but similar sin, and to a lesser extent, all sin. I find no surprise that homosexual activity increases the chance that one would be willing to take the lives of others, or for that matter, one’s own life, as does other sexually indulgent sins.
This should not be controversial, right? Any sin inclines is to more sin. Of course a more grave sin will incline us even more to sin, particularly by other grave sins. We are on a path in life. Each choice takes us in a direction. We are either moving towards holiness or towards corruption.
I do not need data, for I do not think anyone will ever study this in our political climate. My own observations are sufficient for me. “Flimsy” is a matter of opinion.
I thought the same but I actually did find a study of this which I linked in an earlier post.
 
In other words, your opinion is completely baseless.
It has a better base than you do for that inaccurate paraphrase. You really should not attempt “in other words,” not that I have ever seen anyone use that phrase with accuracy.

You also should use a dictionary to look up the word “completely” and “baseless”. I stated what I did specifically. You obviously have your own opinion. Is there any “evidence” for your opinion?

Anyone can do what I did. Just pull up a list of serial killers and scroll down those for whom there was a sexual component, reading whether the victims were same sex or not.
 
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The jurisdictions that are banning this quackery are banning it for minors. In most jurisdictions, minors cannot give consent, and thus it is their parents or guardians who have been putting them into this therapy, so, by definition, yes people have been forced into this fake therapy. An adult is certainly free to choose any therapy they’d like; power crystals, hypnotism, joining a cult, whatever they may like, but most governments assert at least some right to protect the rights, health and safety of minors, so in this case, banning this fakery from being used on minors is within a state’s right.
Like most Liberal nanny-state advocates, you don’t seem to recognize the hypocrisy of your statement. For example, in the United States, these “minors” that you wish to protect are murdered by the thousands every year by abortion. You are entirely OK with giving parents the authority to make the decision to have their own children murdered, but not to allow them to enroll their children in psychological therapy treatments for a legitimate disorder. The state has the authority to ensure the common good of its citizens. This NEVER entails permitting the murder of its own unborn. It does entail ensuring that parents have the right to exercise legitimate authority over their own children, including seeking psychological therapy for them.
 
Not even the Church views SSA as a disorder. Conversion therapy is a fraud, and this has nothing to do with abortion. You do not own your child, and that child has inalienable rights, one of them being not to b psychologically abused by quacks.
 
You do not own your child, and that child has inalienable rights, one of them being not to b psychologically abused by quacks.
So would you also agree that parents should not engage in seeking them to find alternate genders, or explore homosexuality?
 
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