Well, it goes a bit further than that, doesn’t it? Would it not also include being able to bring one’s “friend” to social events and, thereat, act in the same way heterosexual couples might? Would it not, ultimately, apply to base housing? To spousal benefits? Would it not allow homosexuals in the military to wear their uniforms at gay parades? And does anybody really doubt that government affirmation of homosexuality as “normal”; just an “alternative relationship” will have no effect in other areas of society such as marriage? I can hear the arguments now “Well, if the military thinks gay couples are okay, why does anybody oppose gay marriage?” I am sure there are many potential permutations on that theme.
In reality, it will be the federal government’s first affirmation, for the nation, of homosexuality as simply another life choice like any other. For some, this is exactly what they think the government should be doing. But is it, when a substantial portion of the public does not agree with that affirmation? Is it so very different from the government affirming multiple marriages or bestiality? Is it really different from the government affirming public nudity as “natural”? After all, some would promote that. To me, promotion of homosexuality is not what the government should be doing.
One poster stated that some 10-15% of persons in the military would leave if DADT is reversed. No one has challenged that, so at this point, we have to accept it as true. Now, what about those who might otherwise join the military but would choose not to do it if homosexuality is openly flaunted as part of the official nature of the military. Would it be as little as 10-15%? Knowing traditional Catholics, evangelicals, mormons, fundamentalists, and a very substantial percentage of Hispanics as I think perhaps I do, and knowing how homosexuality is regarded among them, I’ll wager that the number of people who simply pass the military up in the future after repeal of DADT is a great deal more than 10-15% of the otherwise likely prospects.
Of course, this government is beholding to homosexual lobbies, so it will repeal DADT sooner or later; likely as soon as the final decision to get out of the Middle East is made. No sense adding yet another target to service members backs, at least not yet.
And we would be doing this for what tangible nationally important objective? So homosexuals, who can already serve in the military, can announce in every they choose to do it, what their sexual proclivities are? Somehow, the great importance of that to the nation does not seem obvious to me.