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Or if you have never been a woman.Maybe if you’ve never left the house past 9pm
Or if you have never been a woman.Maybe if you’ve never left the house past 9pm
‘Toxic Masculinity’ is a term being pushed by social justice advocates.No, it is a term for a certain segment of men, for some reason it is growing in popularity. I don’t understand it, but, it is appealing to some men.
As Social Justice is a doctrine of the Church, I will proudly pick up that label and wear it with honor.social justice advocates
There are many types of SJ advocates.As Social Justice is a doctrine of the Church, I will proudly pick up that label and wear it with honor.
I found it interesting that the people that responded to the video on Facebook tended to respond in a different way.o matter, though. Of those who voted at all, nearly 2/3 voted it down. The video is outrageous. I don’t need to be preached to by Gillette.
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LOL, I assume you knew Facebook doesn’t have a ‘dislike’ or ‘thumbs down’ button, yet you still present it as valid data.On Facebook the video has 9.4 million views. The distribution of those that responded with one of the emojis looks like this:
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There were a couple of undercurrents in the Gillette ad that suggested feminist influence — the term “toxic masculinity” should itself be toxic — but overall the ad is pretty tame, even valuable. I have no idea if it’s the best way to sell razors, but as social commentary, it’s not offensive. “The Best Men Can Be” begins by showing men looking the other way as boys fight, shrugging “boys will be boys.” It shows men laughing at a comedy portraying a lout pantomiming a lunge at a woman’s behind. It shows kids teasing a boy for being a “freak” or a “sissy.” These are followed by more-uplifting images of men breaking up fights, interfering with men who are harassing women, and being loving fathers to daughters. We hear a quote from former NFL star Terry Crews, saying “Men need to hold other men accountable.” These images didn’t strike me as a reproof of masculinity per se but rather as a critique of bullying, boorishness, and sexual misconduct.
As I’ve written many times, the Me Too movement may conceive of itself as a protest of “traditional masculinity,” but that’s only because memories are short. It’s actually a protest against the libertine culture the sexual revolution ushered in. Some men are behaving really badly — harassing women, bullying each other, and failing in their family responsibilities. Some women are too, though the Me Too movement doesn’t acknowledge that aspect of things. But these behaviors are not “traditional.” They’ve always existed, of course, but they went mainstream with the counterculture, which is now the culture. In any case, everyone, left and right, who values decent behavior should be able to agree that encouraging men to be non-violent, polite, and respectful is not anti-male. It’s just civilized.
The ad was confused in clearly identifying it’s target. Yes it targets some norms that flowed out of the sexual revolution but it also referenced Toxic Masculinity, which is normally portrayed to cover a much broader set of traditional male behaviors. With some tweaking, it could have been a great non-controversial PSA against bullying and for respect.As I’ve written many times, the Me Too movement may conceive of itself as a protest of “traditional masculinity,” but that’s only because memories are short. It’s actually a protest against the libertine culture the sexual revolution ushered in.