I’ll address this, but I’m veering totally OT. First, take a look at CCC 1825, wherein the Apostle Paul’s definition of love (charity) is cited:
1825 Christ died out of love for us, while we were still "enemies."100
The Lord asks us to love as he does, even our enemies, to make ourselves the neighbor of those farthest away, and to love children and the poor as Christ himself.101
The Apostle Paul has given an incomparable depiction of charity: "
charity is patient and kind, charity is not jealous or boastful;
it is not arrogant or rude. Charity does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Charity bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."102
Is name-calling a way of loving others as Jesus loves us? I doubt it.
Now, you say that sw85’s epithets do not “lack charity” because Ms. Fluke is deemed to be promoting contraception and “illicit sexual activity” (“sleeping around”?) which are “evil”. I am inferring that, if you perceive someone to be a sinner, “anything goes” in an attempt to warn them that their soul is in peril. Is that correct? I refer you to an article by Fr. Andrew Apostoli on
CatholicCulture.org:
catholicculture.org/culture/library/view.cfm?id=8158&cfid=36820235&cftoken=75597183
A few pertinent quotes from same:
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To admonish the sinner begins by admonishing one’s self. After all, we are all sinners.
Humility is the virtue by which we recognize our sinfulness and our weakness, thus realizing that we ourselves depend upon God’s mercy to forgive us our sins and upon His grace to strengthen us to resist sin in the future.”
“To admonish others effectively, there are two other points we must keep in mind. First, we must practice what we preach. In other words,
we have to be working at striving for holiness and avoiding sin in our own lives if we expect others to do the same. It has been said, ‘I can’t hear what you are saying because of what you are doing!’ The approach, ‘Do what I say and not what I do,’ will never work.
The second point is to avoid the terrible attitude of self righteousness with its judgmental view of others. Self-righteousness puts a person into the mindset of the Pharisees who were quick to condemn sin in others but overlooked it in themselves.”
Finally, if one feels compelled to “admonish the sinner”, then knowing the state of someone’s soul is assumed. And one more quote about judging someone’s words:
*Matthew *12:36
36 “I tell you, on the day of judgment men will render account for every careless **word ** they utter; 37 for by your **words ** you will be justified, and by your **words ** you will be condemned."
I hope this settles the question.