Reformed, do you realize how many times we as Catholics have to go over and over this?.
We do not worship Mary. The Catholic church does not teach worship of Mary. Yet people like you insist on telling us what we think, feel and do in regards to Mary because you think it appears as if we do. You do not understand the teachings of the Church, Sacred Tradition, the Magisterium, and therefore you will probably never understand it. Good heavens, we ought to know if we are worshipping or not, wouldn’t you think?
I’m not saying that you may not have run in to some people that seem to take Marian devotion to the extreme. That is more prevalent in some cultures than others. But if they are truly devout and practicing Catholics they DO NOT WORSHIP Mary. Mary ALWAYS leads to Jesus, however, as a Catholic one is **not **required to have a certain amount of Marian devotion. Honor and respect, yes. If you never want to say a rosary, you don’t have to. You can take the direct route with no problem whatsoever.
You are stuck on sola scriptura. We have Sacred Scripture and Sacred Tradition. What do you think people were taught with before the bible? Who do you think compiled the bible? And btw, Mary was not the major problem for Martin Luther.