Then I would say that you have been very blessed over those 50 years. In my 9 years, I have
never been so fortunate, even when
I entered the Church. I pray that catechesis in my area may be brought to such a high level as in yours. (I am
not being sarcastic when I say that!)
50 years! 50 years! 50 years!?!:bigyikes:
Okay sorry, but I am only 40 years old. And I do not think we have a high level, but on this one issue at least we have reserved clapping for special occassions. ( I mean please, everyone holds hands during the Our Father in my parish

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Sorry, but the whole birthday thing is how I entered this thread. I honestly fail to see why a birthday is far less significant than many other events that have been widely considered “special circumstances”. After all, it is through God’s grace that the individual has made it through another year. For all I know, that is how the pastor of my local parish justifies its special recognition. Again, I am not trying to be a smart-aleck; I just do not know where the line gets drawn.
Since everyone has a birthday, it would be special to that person but not a special occassion for the parish. As well as, the Church celebrates feast days on the day a person died instead of when born. It is should be a greater celebration when we become present with the Lord instead of being born.
I see a huge difference between a birthday and First Communion. Or marriage. Or funerals. Everyone has a birthday,God’s Grace may have allowed them to live another year but what did they do with that year and Grace given? Not everyone has Catholic cermonies of the later kind. Where should the line be drawn? The pastor should help in that. Clearly some are failing in that duty.
In Christ,
Michael
God Bless,
Maria