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Quote from ImmaculataFides: Emphasizing the similarities waters down the differences, which are incredibly important. Personally, the best way of converting them would be to insist they need to become Catholic, and give them reasons. When they ask, tell them their religion is full of errors and give reasons. Also, pray for them. That is my opinion.
KATHRYN ANN’S REPLY: Thank you for your kind and thoughtful replies!
I like your idea here about stating the truth and praying for people. I was simply surprised with all the ecumenical acts of our Church leaders of late. This doesn’t mean the hierarchy is watering down the Faith. I think that after centuries of Crusades, rebellions, etc, we must show both the truth and the love behind that truth. I like your example of telling people when their religion is full of errors, but having the grace and the compassion to pray for them. That is the kind of balance I was seeking! .
They must be part of the Catholic Church in order to be saved, period. None of this “Well they are nice people…” or “They seem to love others”.
KATHRYN ANN’S REPLY: In my most recent statement, I was trying to connect the peaceful actions of our Holy Father in recognizing the good found in people of all faiths, with the opposite approach, which seems to me to continue emphasizing their being outside the Church, which they are. I tend, as a new convert, to want to be rather legalistic. That is why I was very inspired to see the Pope visiting mosques and emphasizing working in unity for a better world.
For new converts like me, this balance is hard. Some tend to feel so superior for awhile, now that we have the Truth. But I sensed my attitude was at fault when I saw how our Pope was interacting in the world.
If what you are saying is that we should show love to others with the intention of bringing them into the Catholic Church in order to be saved, then you would be correct. But, I am finding what you are saying difficult to understand. Church dogma and doctrine is very legalistic. It sounds a bit like you are saying that if we embrace them in the love of Christ they will somehow be apart of the Church. That would be heretical and wrong. You must be a member of the Catholic Church.
KATHRYN ANN’S REPLY:* You are so right, intent is everything*. Just loving people is fine, but I see in the actions of our Pope that as the Vicar of Christ in this world, he obviously stands for all of the Church’s historic teachings, and at the same time, he can actively work to bring those outside the faith to the knowledge of Christ’s Church by examples of loving actions, respect, kindness and prayer.
As a new convert, I’ve been concerned with what example to follow. If I have a friend who is a staunch Muslim or Protestant I need to let him know why I am a Catholic and that his/her teachings are in error. * Yet, to leave it simply at that might never be a witness at all.*
I can show what I stand for by reaching out if I see these people in need. They need salvation through the Church. I simply wouldn’t want to keep them from inquiring by failing in any way to show respect and kindness.
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I really think you are so right about praying for them while telling the truth in love.** That seems to me the best and most gracious way to be a witness for our Church and for Christ.
… I’ll just say: people that are told that their religion is not that different to the true one; told that they will probably be saved anyway; and told that they don’t have to believe true doctrine; won’t become a Catholic. Why would they? So, showing others love and opening dialogue with them as long as doctrine and truth is not compromised or scandalized, is fine. Conveniently ‘forgetting’ the differences and telling people they don’t have to convert in order to be saved, is error.
KATHRYN ANN’S REPLY: You are perfectly correct here: John 3:16 proclaims that “For God so loved the world that He gave His Only Begotten Son so that whosoever believes in Him shall have eternal life.”
I believe that when a new convert like myself sees all the new ecumenism, it gives us pause, makes us think a moment how we are to live out our faith in truth. We cannot fail in our allegiance to Christ and His Holy Church. So it may come down to simply this: When we do see that someone is outside of the Ark of the Church, does our heart go out to them and does our love for them make us want to reconcile them to the true Faith? We cannot pretend that all is well when they are outside the Church.
Do we simply declare “I’m right, you’re wrong,” and point to the direction they’re headed as if it doesn’t concern us? Of course not. I think you are very correct in that intent is everything. If our intent is to pretend there is no difference at all in our beliefs and if we fail to bring the Church teachings to them, we are wrong. That is an excellent point.
If our hearts grieve for them, and if we want to bring them into the One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church, then we must be strong in our faith, in all truth, and the only part of us that can remain tender and “soft” must be our inner heart. Praying for people outside of the Ark of the Church will help greatly to strengthen us when our hearts break for them.
You have really helped me clarify many things here. Truth is truth. Our intent is to stand strong for that truth, while deeply caring, praying, and helping to bring people to that truth.
I really appreciate all the help I’ve always found on these forums. It seems a safe place to inquire when questions arise.
Thank you so much!
Kathryn Ann:heaven: