Help Advice about Finding good catholic Men!

[chicago]

Personally I think rock, paper, scissors will do ! No really I know how to settle this! Who can dance? Who ever can may have my hand! But please numb it before you cut it off! lol

Kas

I lindyhop a little. Actually, I mostly just hop.

 

[tkdnick]

I lindyhop a little. Actually, I mostly just hop.

Ha! I have you now! I can swing, merengue, and waltz. I can also do the twist, the shopping cart, the sprinkler, the swim, and the lawnmower. Plus I can do all the stuff Kevin James does in the movie Hitch! :whacky:

You shall be vanquished my noble opponent and I shall have her hand. I’ll take the left one please…

 

[Kasi]

Ha! I have you now! I can swing, merengue, and waltz. I can also do the twist, the shopping cart, the sprinkler, the swim, and the lawnmower. Plus I can do all the stuff Kevin James does in the movie Hitch! :whacky:

You shall be vanquished my noble opponent and I shall have her hand. I’ll take the left one please…

You can dance like Kevin James? lol Fun!
I think we have a winner ladies and gents! My left had is yours!!!
… What did you bring to chop it off with?
lol

 

[tkdnick]

You can dance like Kevin James? lol Fun!
I think we have a winner ladies and gents! My left had is yours!!!
… What did you bring to chop it off with?
lol

Oh…umm checks pockets Well, I have some car keys I could try. I could use my business cards and try to paper cut it off. I don’t really have anything else. I guess I could gnaw on it until it fell off…

 

[chicago]

Can I try to catch the banana bouquet at the reception, at least. Always a bridesmaid, never a groom.

 

[tkdnick]

Can I try to catch the banana bouquet at the reception, at least. Always a bridesmaid, never a groom.

Since you handled yourself so well in our duel, I have a compromise - let’s all convert to some wierd fringe religion and then we can both marry her. :whacky:

 

[Julianna]

Kasi, I married young and I give my blessings to anyone who chooses that path in life if they are mature enough to take it seriously. However, my hubby and I dated for 2 years before getting engaged, and it took us another year to plan the wedding. Even if you met Mr. Wonderful today, marriage would still be years away. Use that time wisely.

Is college for everyone? Nope. But don’t base that decision on wanting to be a stay home mom. Life doesn’t always go as planned. My sister didn’t plan on being a single mom until her hubby of 9 years left her and their daughter for his long term g/f. She had to figure out a way to support herself. Afterall, she is Catholic. She couldn’t go looking for another man to marry or play house with. In the eyes of the Church, she is still married. The sacrifices she had to make were unbelievable. A degree would have improved the quality of her life immensely.

One of my best friends was a SAHM with a loving Catholic husband and two beautiful sons. They lived a charmed life until tragedy made her a widow at 32. Her college degree (nursing) allowed her to find a well paying job with a flexible schedule. She was able to remain in their home, continue home schooling their sons and devote all of her energy into her family, not some boss who only cared about the bottom line.

Another of my friends is a SAHM. Her hubby was laid off and has been unable to secure a comparable job. They had to move from their beautiful home to a tiny 2 bedroom apartment in the bad part of town. Talk about humbling. Now that all of her children are in school during the day, she has decided to use her degree and become a substitute teacher. That way she can supplement their income, be on the same schedule the children are and not have to worry about bringing work home with her. God willing her hubby will be able to find a good job soon. Until then she will be able to help pay the bills and set aside some savings so they aren’t stuck in that terrible place indefinitely.

Think a devout Catholic SAHM doesn’t “need” an education? Think again. Go to school. Expand your horizons. Learn as much as you can about the world around you. You’ll discover much about yourself in the process. Pray for the life you do want, but prepare for the life you don’t. That way you can handle anything life throws at you, “for better and for worse.” It will make you a better person, a better wife and a better mother to all those beautiful Catholic babies you plan on blessing the world with.

Very Good advice…hope she heeds it, after she stops flirting with the guys on here…

 

[Kasi]

Education is very important to me. I don’t need to go to college to get it however. I know how it will better me. I just think perhaps it’s a waste of time for me. I understand how some of you were bettered by going to college. Neither of my parents went to college and they don’t regret it. I am from a military family and If I was a man I would enlist. I thank you all for the advice. I am listening and considering going to college next year but right now I will just pray about it and leave it up to God.

 

[chicago]

Since you handled yourself so well in our duel, I have a compromise - let’s all convert to some wierd fringe religion and then we can both marry her. :whacky:

We can hold the ceremony on the banana boat!

For vows, we shall shout, “DAY-O, DAYAYAY-O!”

But when daylight come, I will wanna go home.

 

[tkdnick]

We can hold the ceremony on the banana boat!

For vows, we shall shout, “DAY-O, DAYAYAY-O!”

But when daylight come, I will wanna go home.

 

[Catholic90]

People do judge you by your spelling and how you write.

Kasi, you might want to at least correct the spelling in your signature!

(maybe take a spelling course at your local college…)

It just doesn’t look good when you argue against education and then have most of your posts full of spelling and grammatical errors.

How do you plan to help your future kids with their spelling homework???

 

[chicago]

People do judge you by your spelling and how you write.

Kasi, you might want to at least correct the spelling in your signature!

(maybe take a spelling course at your local college…)

It just doesn’t look good when you argue against education and then have most of your posts full of spelling and grammatical errors.

How do you plan to help your future kids with their spelling homework???

Ifa u bin tinkin… dat she been awink in, wit zat binklin, en er eyre, den sis bam boom and dere rubber room, ya hey deer; WATCH OUT FOR THE DEER, dear! No, wait zayre’s only a store, not 2 a dem, or doooya reefer reeepublican? Or hat repo man, perhaps a ya hey. Hey, holy mackeral, no doubt about it. It’s a beautiful day for a ballgame, so lettuce raizin a hallaballoo. A baloo is a bear. Bear down! Let ev’ry play lead the way to, da DITKA!

(Ida been hiyard to tutor the chillen,}

 

[santaro75]

People do judge you by your spelling and how you write.

Kasi, you might want to at least correct the spelling in your signature!

(maybe take a spelling course at your local college…)

It just doesn’t look good when you argue against education and then have most of your posts full of spelling and grammatical errors.

How do you plan to help your future kids with their spelling homework???

this is an internet chat room not a term paper. i happen to have one of those ejication things and i still can’t spell for **** with out a spell chekcer.

every chat room as a spelling nazi

 

[Catholic90]

this is an internet chat room not a term paper. i happen to have one of those ejication things and i still can’t spell for **** with out a spell chekcer.

every chat room as a spelling nazi

In a SIGNATURE the spelling should be correct!! On-line spell checkers are FREE and GOOD.

I don’t necessarily care about the text. Many of us type very fast, but our thoughts are flying quicker.

But a signature…It’s like misspelling your name on a paper. (I’ve had 5th grade students do this).

 

[Kasi]

HA! This is supposed to be a catholic board and all you feminests are eating me alive! I don’t care If i spell properly What does spelling tell something about me? lol I am proud of who I am and I am quiting this form! I came on here to be able to conect with catholic because there aren’t any around here and I get treated as if you all are better than me! It’s obvious that I am getting judged cause I have a different Idea about the way I live my life that you people do!

I even forgive you for treating me in this terrible way, Jesus I am sure is saddend by your treatment of me!

 

[Mirdath]

You came here asking for advice. You have received some excellent, compassionate, thoughtful guidance from experienced people who really are trying to take you seriously (and honey, it ain’t easy).

And now you are slinging what you seem to think are insults at those people, who have taken the time to share their best with you. (Not only is ‘feminist’ not an insult - you should learn how to spell insults properly at the very least. Poorly-used invective is even more gauche than misspelling your sig, and possibly your own name. Tsk.)

From your posts on this forum, you are a child, and not even a particularly charming one. Grow up, learn some manners, and perhaps how not to end every sentence with an exclamation point. Your parents want you to go to college, and maybe you ought. You still need whatever guidance you can get - and that’s no insult by the way, since believe me, you will miss that guidance when it’s gone (not to mention the free room and board, should your miracle-marriage involving loads of money and no real responsibility somehow not come to pass).

But no, poor you…you’re being treat sooooo terribly. There are places on the net for you to find the kind of sympathy you want, like Myspace.

 

[OldAgeGuru]

How do I get a miracle marriage with no responsibility and and boatload of money. Where does the line start?? I’ll be tossing people outta line left and right. OOOHHHH shoes. And Manicures. And vacations oh my!

People telling her that one should always be prepared for the worst possible scenarios. Telling her that education isn’t ever a bad thing. Telling her to grow up and learn about herself as an adult, and be a little independent makes all of us women here horrible people.

She’s 17 and acting like a petulant child. I’m choosing to ignore her.

PS. Being a feminist. In the way it’s actually defined, is not a bad thing Kasi. I believe that it’s a good thing that women have self determination. Whether it’s to stay at home, or be a surgeon. To receive equal pay for equal work. To pay the same for dry cleaning as a guy. That words like sl*t are derogatory.

You have a LOT of maturing to do.

 

[Shellie]

It’s obvious that I am getting judged cause I have a different Idea about the way I live my life that you people do!

((Kasi)) Hang in there. It sounds to me like you have a great handle on where you’re going. With your parents advice, support and love, I’m sure you’ll do just fine.

From a very well educated household, I encourage you in your pursuit of marriage and in thinking through whether or not college is best for you.

God bless and keep you. I’ll be praying for you.

 

[Belgarion]

ok
The way I see it is that Kasi here is a wonderful catholic girl, who sticks to her faith and wants to find a guy who not only does the same, but brings her closer to God than she already is.
Right?
Well, good for you Kasi, keep it up and one of those…bannana dueling guys… will be knocking at your door in no time

and about college…it isn’t for everyone, it is helpful in some cases, and in others it isn’t
My father did not go to college, my mother went to medical school and became a podiatrist
who makes more money?
my dad,
surprised?
He is now ( I believe, though I could be mistaken as to what its called) the regional sales manager and makes WAY more money than my doctor mom does
and like I said, she went to college AND medical school

now, like I said, in some cases it would be reversed. It just depends on the situation.

But if you DO go to college, go to a good catholic one, so you can find those awesome catholic guys
-Belgarion

 

[Kasi]

Well Thanks,
I am actully looking for a good catholic college. I Don’t know Which ones are traditional though? I have been praying about it and College might be the way to go!

THanks