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My mother was raised Catholic but says that she claims the Southern Baptist Faith is the right religion. She claims that Catholics teach false teachings and they are all going to hell. I have tried to discuss this with her but she is so emotional and I am so uneducated about religion, I need some help. Please help… 🙂 What verses can I point to that shows the Catholic faith is correct and the baptist faith is false. Please let me know.
 
My mother was raised Catholic but says that she claims the Southern Baptist Faith is the right religion. She claims that Catholics teach false teachings and they are all going to hell. I have tried to discuss this with her but she is so emotional and I am so uneducated about religion, I need some help. Please help… 🙂 What verses can I point to that shows the Catholic faith is correct and the baptist faith is false. Please let me know.
Since the Bible doesn’t mention Catholics by name (or any Protestant denominations either) you will have a tough time using the Bible to prove that the Catholic Church is the Church that Christ established through Peter. However, logic should be used here…

If what your mother says is true, that “the Southern Baptist Faith” is the true church and that Catholics are all hell bound, then can you imagine all the poor souls who missed out between the time of Christ and 1845 when the Southern Baptist Church came into being? Perhaps what she meant was the Baptist faith rather than the Southern Baptist… well, that would still mean that Christ withheld the “true” Church until 1609 when John Symth founded the Baptist Church. Does that mean that everyone from 33AD to 1609AD were left to their own evil demise? When Christ gave us a Church, did He say, “Oh, by the way, I’m going to give man the Church but not for another 1,600 years. Until then… best of luck.”

Nah. That simply isn’t logical. Even if what she meant was that God’s Church was some other Protestant Church (and not the Catholic Church), she’d be very wrong… or God would be very cruel…
The Orthodox Church came into being in 1054
The Lutheran Church came into being in 1517
The Anabaptist Church came into being in 1521
The Anglican Church came into being in 1534
etc.
etc.
etc.

My point is that there was only one Church established by Christ through the Apostles. That Church officially came into being in approx 33AD and its name is Catholic.
 
My mother was raised Catholic but says that she claims the Southern Baptist Faith is the right religion. She claims that Catholics teach false teachings and they are all going to hell. I have tried to discuss this with her but she is so emotional and I am so uneducated about religion, I need some help. Please help… 🙂 What verses can I point to that shows the Catholic faith is correct and the baptist faith is false. Please let me know.
Scripture quoting will not get you far if you are unprepared to discuss context, history and reason. It’s hard enough to be prepared in those aspects and still have a reasonably mature and charitable discussion with an emotional person, let alone an anti-Catholic.

I have anti-Catholic Southern Baptists in my family as well, and although they are not emotionally aggressive (anymore) about condemning Catholicism, they are biased toward their own interpretation of scripture, which is really an absorbed acceptance of dozens of various “teachers” of scripture over the course of several decades. So, scripture verses without the primacy of context, history and reason are futile discussions, in my experience.

My advice: learn your faith, learn it well. Read your Catechism, take a good Catholic Bible study course (like The Great Adventure), watch EWTN, read any of these books, explore Catholic Answers and other abundant Catholic sites, ask questions - lots of them.

Do that for about a year or so, and leave your dear mother alone. In the meantime, continue to pray, for yourself and for her, for guidance, wisdom, strength, and an increase in faith and love.

Then, when you feel ready, handle her objections one at a time, using all aspects of your learned faith…scripture, tradition, history, reason, context…and slowly begin to unravel her arguments one strand at a time. You will find taking the time off to first learn your faith well will give you a much clearer road map and strategy for conversing with your mom, and understanding what exactly it is she objects to.

Of course, if you don’t like any of this advice, and just want scripture stuff now, then go here.
 
A very boring and unpopular (but effective) method: I suggest that you start with prayer on her behalf. Before our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament if possible. No one on earth can convince her of the truth - not even Benedict XVI. But, just let the Holy Spirit get hold of her and things will begin to happen.

Get a copy of Catholicism for Dummies and learn your faith. You cannot properly defend what you do not sufficiently know.

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Since the Bible doesn’t mention Catholics by name (or any Protestant denominations either) you will have a tough time using the Bible to prove that the Catholic Church is the Church that Christ established through Peter. However, logic should be used here…

If what your mother says is true, that “the Southern Baptist Faith” is the true church and that Catholics are all hell bound, then can you imagine all the poor souls who missed out between the time of Christ and 1845 when the Southern Baptist Church came into being? Perhaps what she meant was the Baptist faith rather than the Southern Baptist… well, that would still mean that Christ withheld the “true” Church until 1609 when John Symth founded the Baptist Church. Does that mean that everyone from 33AD to 1609AD were left to their own evil demise? When Christ gave us a Church, did He say, “Oh, by the way, I’m going to give man the Church but not for another 1,600 years. Until then… best of luck.”

Nah. That simply isn’t logical. Even if what she meant was that God’s Church was some other Protestant Church (and not the Catholic Church), she’d be very wrong… or God would be very cruel…
The Orthodox Church came into being in 1054
The Lutheran Church came into being in 1517
The Anabaptist Church came into being in 1521
The Anglican Church came into being in 1534
etc.
etc.
etc.

My point is that there was only one Church established by Christ through the Apostles. That Church officially came into being in approx 33AD and its name is Catholic.
Very nice reply. Thanks… Good points made
 
I sent my mother this “The basic difference is that the Catholic Church is the mystical Body of Our Blessed Lord and was founded by Him to save all men bringing them to God. It is God’s dispensation for man’s salvation. The Baptist religion is an heretical breakaway from Catholicsm which started over fifteen centuries after Our Blessed Lord left us the Catholic Church and is based on individual’s who disagreed with how Our Blessed Lord went about trying to save us. The Baptist religion thus redefines everything that Our Blessed Lord left us, including denying books of the Bible and all the traditions which were not written down in the books of the Bible that they do accept. Catholics Christians believe that you only have one choice in life, whether to follow Our Blessed Lord or not. You have to make that choice over and over again until you die, but it is your only choice. Baptists believe that you can decided HOW you want to follow Our Blessed Lord.”

AND SHE REPLIED THIS

"The Protestant Reformation came about because of the errors and heresy of the Catholic
Church. The breakaway was necessary; to go back to what Jesus intended for His church;
and this was started by Martin Luther centuries ago. During this period of time; the Catholic
Church KILLED all people; whom were protesting and leaving the Catholic Church; and this
is referred to as the Christian Crusades.

Thus, there is only one simple way; to be saved; and it is NOT through mother Mary, or anyone else…ONLY THROUGH JESUS CHRIST, THE LORD! It is idolatry to pray to this
person or anyone else, except Jesus. For those whom have been cleansed, by the blood of
Jesus; and are sanctified by His Grace; are considered saints. Not to be prayed to; but to
be grafted into the family of God. The Baptist Church goes strictly by the Bible; and is
without error; because God’s Word is truly without error. The Catholic Church has added
to their religion things that are NOT Biblical…praying to mother Mary; and other saints to
get healed, saved, or to have certain prayers answered. Plus having to pay money for the
remission of one’s sins (penance); etc. We can only pray to the Trinity; that is God, the Father, Jesus, the Son, and the Holy Spirit; all of which are three persons one of the same. The Catholic Church adopted 13 additional books of the Bible, as their own; which theologians have determined that are really not the pertinent Words of God; that needed to be included, in the world wide acceptance of the now known living Word of God; mainly the King James Version of the Bible. They are so very many things Christ accomplished on
earth…miracles, etc.; that there are not enough books in the world to contain everything. Thus, just the most important writings are mandatory.

This priest is saying things that are NOT true; such as, we do traditions that are not in the
Bible; which is a lie. Also, once one is saved; by putting their lives and trust in Lord Jesus;
and following Him in accordance to His Holy Word; then that person is saved for eternity.
They don’t have to say it over and over again. But, their live style must reflect a “changed
Born-Again position”; and they need to obey Jesus and His teachings faithfully. Baptists
don’t decide on their own how they are to follow Jesus. This is NOT true! True believers
do what God desires in the Bible; and don’t decide how they are going to live independently
from Christ’s will.

Survivors of the Titanic chose to take a life boat to safety; instead remaining on the ship;
because it was the biggest thing around; and they thought, that it wouldn’t sink. Many
people perished unnecessary. Are you going to take that chance too? Yes, there could be a few Born-Again Christians in the Catholic Church; staying there why I don’t know. Probably just to socialize; or to appease family/friends. But, I won’t risk my eternal destiny on something that isn’t totally and completely agreeable with God. I suggest that you do the
same. Sure you have the right to go and do what you want, at this age; but a loving son
would do what their parents say; because they are much wiser (usually) than the child; and
know which avenue to go down safely; especially when it comes to their eternally destiny. "
 
Perhaps this is just me, but this order of discernment seems backwards. It doesn’t seem to me that you have good reasons for being Catholic instead of Southern Baptist, and thus aren’t looking for the truth per se but are trying to preserve your belief.

I can tell you the Southern Baptists have excellent replies to the pro-Catholic arguments advanced here, especially those concerning Church history. So, while you might find arguments capable of sustaining your beliefs from those objections provided by your family, the debate rages on far beyond these simple replies.

I don’t say any of this to discourage you, rather I hope you take the challenge and search out the best objections to Catholicism, standing them on their strongest legs, and then take your stand on whether it’s the true faith.
 
I hope you take the challenge and search out the best objections to Catholicism, standing them on their strongest legs, and then take your stand on whether it’s the true faith.
I agree with you on this one. Know your faith from top to bottom! I suggest reading church history, especially the reformation and the early church fathers. Also, its good to arm yourself on controversial topics such as the inquisition and the crusades! Know these and you can converse with any protestant. That’s what I did and I could say with utmost certainty that the RCC is the one true religion. 👍
I can tell you the Southern Baptists have excellent replies to the pro-Catholic arguments advanced here
Oh come on bro! :rolleyes:
 
The Protestant Reformation came about because of the errors and heresy of the Catholic
Church.
Actually what lit the fuse was Luther’s misconceptions on indulgences. While there were certainly abuses within the Church (as there are in anything that man has a part in) Luther’s ninety-five theses concentrated on HIS opinions (not heresy on the part of the Church since Luther was not the discerner of such matters, he was simply a troubled priest unable or unwilling to recognize authroity outside of himself).
The breakaway was necessary; to go back to what Jesus intended for His church;
and this was started by Martin Luther centuries ago. During this period of time; the Catholic
Church KILLED all people; whom were protesting and leaving the Catholic Church; and this
is referred to as the Christian Crusades.
There were nine Crusades. The 1st Crusade began in 1095. The 9th Crusade ended in 1272. I would respectfully explain to your mom that the crusades were long over by the time the reformation took place. In addition, the crusades, as I understand, involved defending and retaking the Holyland. However, perhaps your mother was speaking of the inquisitions. If that is the case, I would suggest that both you and her read up on these as the truth of the matter is that CIVIL (not ecclesiastical) courts were the weilders of death in cases involving heresy during this time.
Thus, there is only one simple way; to be saved; and it is NOT through mother Mary, or anyone else…ONLY THROUGH JESUS CHRIST, THE LORD!
Agreed. Respectfully, your mother is misinformed as Catholics do not seek salvation through Mary.
It is idolatry to pray to this person or anyone else, except Jesus. For those whom have been cleansed, by the blood of Jesus; and are sanctified by His Grace; are considered saints. Not to be prayed to; but to be grafted into the family of God.
The word “pray” does not equal the word “worship”. The word “pray” simply means “request.” When Catholics pray to a saint, they are making a request of him/her, NOT worshiping the saint. Think back to those old english movies or novels where you can here someone say, “I pray you kind sir, where might I find an inn for the night?” Was the character of the novel seen as worshiping this stranger? No. That is silly. So, if Catholics understand that “to pray” is simply “to request” it should clear up the confusion. However, no matter how many times this is explained, the argument continues to come up. Let me ask you something… does your mom ever “ask” (request) people at her Church to pray to God on her behave? If she does, then she takes part in the exact same thing that Catholics do. We ask (request) others to pray to God on our behave too. Not only do we ask living breathing Catholics to do this, we also ask our family of God who have passed on and are now in the presence of our Lord… the Saints. Since we cannot simply call these saints up on the phone and ask them to pray for us, we pray (request) to them and ask that they make our petition before the Lord. In that they are standing right next to Him, they see Him, and our in Heaven with Him, is it really so strange to request (pray) that they do this? If so, then I would suggest that it is even more strange that Protestants ask those not in God’s presence, who don’t see Him, who aren’t standing next to His throne, but are instead sitting in a pew next to them in Church to go to God on their behalf.
The Baptist Church goes strictly by the Bible; and is without error; because God’s Word is truly without error. The Catholic Church has added to their religion things that are NOT Biblical…praying to mother Mary; and other saints to get healed, saved, or to have certain prayers answered. Plus having to pay money for the remission of one’s sins (penance); etc.
The Catholic Church also goes by the Bible. We recognize that it is without error as well. We too call it “the Word of God.” So I am glad that both the Southern Baptists and the Catholics have the same overall common view of the Bible. Now… Catholics actually have more to say concerning the Bible, since the Catholic Church is the one that God used to give It to the world. In 393 AD (Council of Hippo) and then again in 397 AD (Council of Carthage) the Church determined and approved the 46 books of the Bible. For 16 centuries both the Holy Spirit, which we know guards the Church and God’s Word, and the world itself accepted this. Then in 1529, Martin Luther proposed the Palestinian Canon of only 39 books (removing 7 OT books). Why? And more importantly, why would God allow the Alexandrian Canon to be the one and only error-free Bible of the world for 1600 years and then suddenly here comes Luther saying, “no no… this Bible is in error… here, let me present this new version which I promise is without error” and so many went off and followed him and his bible? To me that is the real question.
Again, your mother is mistaken. Respectfully, attempt to explain to her that Catholics do not “pay money for the remission of… sin.” I have been a Catholic my entire life, a long time by the way, and never once have I written a check, paid cash, or used a credit card in a confessional. This would be like me saying, “Southern Baptists make human sacrifices.” I would never do that because it would be a lie to say such a thing. So, I will assume that your mother doesn’t realize that what she is saying is a lie and not take offense, but to me both her statement and my example above are equally silly.

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We can only pray to the Trinity; that is God, the Father, Jesus, the Son, and the Holy Spirit; all of which are three persons one of the same. The Catholic Church adopted 13 additional books of the Bible, as their own; which theologians have determined that are really not the pertinent Words of God; that needed to be included, in the world wide acceptance of the now known living Word of God; mainly the King James Version of the Bible.
Catholics too recognize the Trinity. This proves only that her religion and ours is not completely without common ground. Now… as for the Catholic Church adopting 13 additional books… First, what jumps out immediately is that not even your mother’s Southern Baptist minister would make such a statement against the Catholic Church. His Bible (I assume that it’s the KJV since this is the one that your mother quoted above) only have 7 less books in it than the Catholic Bible. While it is true that Martin Luther attempted to throw out the book of James, he was advised by his counterparts that this would be going too far and so he left it in place. Still, that would have only been an 8 book difference and certainly not 13. Oh… and you may want to pass on to your mom that the original KJV actually did contain the 7 books in question. Additionally, here is a quote from Luther concerning the Church and the Bible that your mom may want to verify and then contemplate upon…
“We are obliged to yield many things to the Papists [Catholics] that they possess the Word of God which we received from them, otherwise we should have known nothing at all about it.”
They are so very many things Christ accomplished on
earth…miracles, etc.; that there are not enough books in the world to contain everything. Thus, just the most important writings are mandatory.
This is true and the Bible itself says that… except for the last line.
This priest is saying things that are NOT true; such as, we do traditions that are not in the
Bible; which is a lie. Also, once one is saved; by putting their lives and trust in Lord Jesus;
and following Him in accordance to His Holy Word; then that person is saved for eternity.
First, there is nothing wrong with traditions (also nothing wrong with Traditions). Obviously, this must be something that you and her discussed and I cannot comment on it since I don’t know what it relates to. As to the Onced Saved Always Saved (OSAS) topic, that belief goes against what the Bible teaches. Matt. 12:30-32 - Jesus says that he who is not with Him is against Him, therefore (the Greek for “therefore” is “dia toutos” which means “through this”) blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. This means that failing to persevere in Jesus’ grace to the end is the unforgivable sin against the Spirit. We must persevere in faith to the end of our lives. Luke 15:11-32 – in the parable of the prodigal son, we learn that we can be genuine sons of the Father, then leave home and die, then return and be described as “alive again.” Rom. 11:20-23 – in expounding on Jesus’ teaching in John 15, Paul teaches that the Jews (the natural branches) were broken off by lack of faith (v.20), but says that the Romans stand fast through faith (v. 21). So the Romans are justified. However, Paul then says that the Romans can also be cut off if they don’t persevere in faith and kindness (v. 22-23). Hence, those justified before God can fall away from the faith and lose their salvation (be “cut off”). Paul also says that those who are cut off can be grafted back in if they do not persist in their unbelief, for God has the power to graft them in again (v.23). There are MANY MANY more verses that refute the OSAS belief.
They don’t have to say it over and over again. But, their live style must reflect a “changed
Born-Again position”; and they need to obey Jesus and His teachings faithfully. Baptists
don’t decide on their own how they are to follow Jesus. This is NOT true! True believers
do what God desires in the Bible; and don’t decide how they are going to live independently from Christ’s will.
I would ask your mom if it is possible for a born-again Christian who was saved at age 12 and is now 20 years old and has gone off to college, stopped going to church, is using drugs and drinking, etc, etc. Will that person go to Heaven if he/she dies while in this state? Would he/she have gone to Heaven if they had died at 16 while still living the faith?
 
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Survivors of the Titanic chose to take a life boat to safety; instead remaining on the ship;
because it was the biggest thing around; and they thought, that it wouldn’t sink. Many
people perished unnecessary. Are you going to take that chance too? Yes, there could be a few Born-Again Christians in the Catholic Church; staying there why I don’t know. Probably just to socialize; or to appease family/friends. But, I won’t risk my eternal destiny on something that isn’t totally and completely agreeable with God. I suggest that you do the
same. Sure you have the right to go and do what you want, at this age; but a loving son
would do what their parents say; because they are much wiser (usually) than the child; and
know which avenue to go down safely; especially when it comes to their eternally destiny. "
I can honestly see that your mother loves and cares for you a great deal. So, please make sure that when you have these conversations with her that you remember that and are respectful. This last statement, says to me that she does not understand the Church or the history of Christianity. For her, it all started between the 16th and 17th century. She knows Christ came 2000 years ago and she knows who Christ is but Luther divided the Church and those who followed him, then went on continuing to divide things up because this is what their master did. When you disagree with something you leave and start a new Church. How many Baptist Churches are there these days? I’m not a numbers guy when it comes to other Churches but off the top of my head there are Baptists, Free will Baptists, Reformed Baptists, Southern Baptists, American Baptists, Independent Baptists, and many more that I cannot recall. Now how many Protestant Churches are there? Thousands. Why is this? Doesn’t the Holy Spirit protect the Church as the Bible says? How can there be so many different beliefs between denominations if the same Holy Spirit is present? The Catholic Church has stood since 33 AD (approximately). It doesn’t split apart and form newer denominations when problems arise. The reasons why Catholics remain Catholic, isn’t “just to socialize.” In fact, many Protestants will tell you that we are the least social people of all Christian Churches.
 
My mother was raised Catholic but says that she claims the Southern Baptist Faith is the right religion. She claims that Catholics teach false teachings and they are all going to hell. I have tried to discuss this with her but she is so emotional and I am so uneducated about religion, I need some help. Please help… 🙂 What verses can I point to that shows the Catholic faith is correct and the baptist faith is false. Please let me know.
I’m sorry that you’re going through such a tough time with your mother. Just remember that deep down she loves you quite a bit. It’s probably why she’s so aggresive.

Now, you said your mother believes that the Southern Baptist Faith is the right religion. That statement is completely against what Southern Baptists believe. It sounds as if your mother has an imperfect understanding of scripture as well as Christianity.

Southern Baptists do not believe we are the one true church and that only we are going to heaven. We DO believe that we are part of the larger Church that includes ALL Christians, including Roman Catholics!

If your mother truly believes the things you’ve posted I wonder if her church is actually Southern Baptist. Are you sure it doesn’t just have baptist in the name?
 
If your mother’s church is SBC affiliated I recommend you immediately call their church office and set up an appointment with the minister to discuss your mother’s behavior (make sure you’re doing this in love).

Ask one of your church’s deacons (or maybe the priest?) to go with you if you have concerns about going to the church.

Your predicament goes beyond the boundries of Southern Baptist and Roman Catholic bickering over tradition and needs to be addressed to preserve family.
 
My mother was raised Catholic but says that she claims the Southern Baptist Faith is the right religion. She claims that Catholics teach false teachings and they are all going to hell. I have tried to discuss this with her but she is so emotional and I am so uneducated about religion, I need some help. Please help… 🙂 What verses can I point to that shows the Catholic faith is correct and the baptist faith is false. Please let me know.
Well, first of all, I would try to reassure you not to get yourself all worked up about this.

Second, I have a book called Tradition and the Church by Msgr George Agius. This book is about 300 pages, but he carefully lays out the argument FOR the Catholic Church and Tradition (handing on of faith verbally, as opposed to a “bible only” approach which I think the Baptists have). He probably takes 150 pages of the 300 pages to make a complete argument. He also explicitly points out errors of Protestants.

I can’t possibly boil that down into one post here. There are, IN FACT, a whole bunch of verses of New Testament that support the Catholic Church view of sacred tradition.

Agius goes so far as to say that we wouldn’t even need the Bible to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ, because the Bible was not put together in its present form for hundreds of years. AND, the gospel was being spread with “oral transmission” rather than in a written form.

but, I can give you one verse that sticks in my head: Jesus said, “He who hears YOU hears ME.” So, there’s nothing about a Bible in that statement, and it shows how Jesus intended the gospel to be spread. But the IMPORTANT thing about this verse is that the oral transmission of the gospel WAS AUTHORITATIVE. Many protestants, especially evangelicals, in contrast, will say things like this: The Bible ALONE and in its entirety is the word of God – meaning that it alone is the final authority.

Protestants will argue that that changed or that the Catholic Church was in error for centuries, etc. blah blah blah. Those statements are outside the Bible, plain and simple. Protestants have their own verses to quote, of course. But, those verses don’t just simply blow the other verses out of the water, so to speak. They just don’t.

Agius has quotations from the early Church. There are those who point out the obvious, that what do you do when you have two groups of people quoting scripture and arguing? Well, it is the Church itself which is the final authority on interpretation of scripture. That is true logically, and it is true historically, as Agius points out.
 
I am a former southern baptist myself. The main thing is being loving and understanding. Learning your faith as well as possible is very important, and this situation is a good means to be motivated to study your faith. But I have learned by experience that unless the one you are discussing your faith with is open to Catholicism and willing to listen and even embrace truth when it means admitting that they are wrong, then no matter how good you know your faith and articulate it and prove them wrong, they will reject it until they are ready. Seems like most of the time our own family is the hardest to change, and it usually takes somebody other than close family to really say the right things. Jesus said a prophet is not accepted in his own hometown.

When I was coming into the Church my wife opposed me hard. I could answer any question with Scripture and the Church Fathers and win every debate with her. But it being me and not one of her friends, she was unwilling to accept it. I have learned that love, compassion, and holiness is greater than knowledge!
 
My mother was raised Catholic but says that she claims the Southern Baptist Faith is the right religion. She claims that Catholics teach false teachings and they are all going to hell. I have tried to discuss this with her but she is so emotional and I am so uneducated about religion, I need some help. Please help… 🙂 What verses can I point to that shows the Catholic faith is correct and the baptist faith is false. Please let me know.
Sorry to hear. So all Catholics are going to Hell? No offense but your mother is now standing in the place of God to make such a claim?
 
My mother was raised Catholic but says that she claims the Southern Baptist Faith is the right religion. She claims that Catholics teach false teachings and they are all going to hell. I have tried to discuss this with her but she is so emotional and I am so uneducated about religion, I need some help. Please help… 🙂 What verses can I point to that shows the Catholic faith is correct and the baptist faith is false. Please let me know.
High emotions are a major feature of the Southern Baptist worship. Basically it is an old basic Protestant preaching trick where the preacher builds up high energy emotions in his preaching so that when he condemns the Catholic Church his followers feel as if it is God who is doing the condeming.

Therefore, the very first step is to get your mother to discuss religion without emotions. Listen to her and talk with her as if you are talking about the weather. Ask her about church services in a neutral sounding way. Let her read the Bible to you, then tell her you like the Book of James, which makes very short work of the very false “By Faith Alone” concept. After she reads it then ask her to explain how the Book of James supports her believes. See if you will allow you to talk about how the Book of James supports Faith and Good Works. And if you don’t know how it does then this will get you into learning more about the Catholic faith. Mix in talk of the weather, relatives, etc., as needed to keep the emotions down.

Remember, the one thing not to do is preach at your mother. Your mother’s Southern Baptist preacher is without doubt much better at putting on a show then are you.

Ran
 
Thank you everyone for the amazing replies and links. I am reading them and going to build my knowledge. I am attending RCIA classes and I am reading the book titles Basics of the Catholic Faith and This is our Faith. I am going to try and comply a response back to her email from all the responses I got here and see what happens. I will post my reply to her as well as her reply back… I am really trying to get to the bottom of this. I am exploring faith as I have been a Atheist for so many years. I want to make the right choice and it seems that God has me headed to the Catholic church and not to any other church.
 
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