I wasn’t speaking of the love of God. I was noting a fact of human love.
In the matters of faith and morals, which the Church teaches infallibly because it is guided by the Holy Spirit, our love is a love given to us by God and guided by the Holy Spirit. St. Paul himself talks of this love which is guided by the Holy Spirit, and is even specifically talking of the lusts of the flesh:
"16 I say then, walk in the spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lusts of the flesh. 17 For the flesh lusteth against the spirit: and the spirit against the flesh; for these are contrary one to another: so that you do not the things that you would. 18 But if you are led by the spirit, you are not under the law. 19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are fornication, uncleanness, immodesty, luxury, 20 Idolatry, witchcrafts, enmities, contentions, emulations, wraths, quarrels, dissensions, sects,
21 Envies, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like. Of the which I foretell you, as I have foretold to you, that they who do such things shall not obtain the kingdom of God. 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is, charity, joy, peace, patience, benignity, goodness, longanimity, 23 Mildness, faith, modesty, continency, chastity. Against such there is no law. 24 And they that are Christ’s, have crucified their flesh, with the vices and concupiscences. 25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit."
If you truly know of the nature of God’s love, they you will realize that our love is God’s love. If we abide by His will we will be guided by the Holy Spirit and recieve the “fruit of the Spirit.” A holy and righteous person has love that is the same as God’s, for both neither love sin, and also because God himself is existent in both the person and God.