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Sounds like a one size, fits all, answer to me!
Yes. That’s the way it is with intrinsic evil. Intrinsically evil acts are always and everywhere wrong.

There are no circumstance under which homosexual acts are ever permitted. Just like there are no circumstances where intentional abortion (or other murder of the innocent) is permitted, and there are no circumstances where adultery is permitted.

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Yes. That’s the way it is with intrinsic evil. Intrinsically evil acts are always and everywhere wrong.

There are no circumstance under which homosexual acts are ever permitted. Just like there are no circumstances where intentional abortion (or other murder of the innocent) is permitted, and there are no circumstances where adultery is permitted.

God Bless
Here more from the Catechism (see full quote and more above):

"Basing itself on Sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity,140 tradition has always declared that "homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered.“141 They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved.”
 
Here more from the Catechism (see full quote and more above):

"Basing itself on Sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity,140 tradition has always declared that "homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered.“141 They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved.”
Fortunately we also know that any finite ideas of God are infinitely less than God. If attendance at a homosexual marriage ceremony is a sin then I’m sure Catholic parents of homosexual children would sooner leave the church then be told their unconditional love for their child is a gateway to hell.
 
Wrong, either God is everywhere or God is nowhere. He will be there.
Why would you say that? What would possibly compel God to be present if He chose not to?

He would still be aware of the events, obviously. But, God can clearly withhold His presence from people. That’s the main deprivation of Hell, after all; complete exclusion from the presence of God.

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Why would you say that? What would possibly compel God to be present if He chose not to?

He would still be aware of the events, obviously. But, God can clearly withhold His presence from people. That’s the main deprivation of Hell, after all; complete exclusion from the presence of God.

God Bless
God never withholds his presence from us. It is we that withhold our presence from God.
 
God never withholds his presence from us. It is we that withhold our presence from God.
Well then, people who are engaging in, or supporting an intrinsically evil act are certainly withholding their presence from God.

God Bless
 
God won’t be at the gay wedding, so neither will I.
God never withholds his presence from us. It is we that withhold our presence from God.
Both are correct in different ways.

God does not “show up” as if it were an actual wedding or a good act. He is not approving of this event -he is not creating any bond --he is not causing any wedding to happen -he is not blessing such an event -there is no Sacrament - there is no natural marriage --there is no union. No approval of God. He loves each of the persons – but he does not approve the action or the event -he does not “show up” in that way.

But yes he is present as he is to all that happens in creation.

God permits that which is not good to happen - but he does not approve it. He desires their good instead.
 
By attending the wedding you are giving your approval to a sin. By approving of the sin you are scandalizing souls by your example. By scandalizing souls you yourself are sinning. This is how I see it. It wouldn’t be a sin if you admonish the couple and the guests. But then every one will hate you.
 
Attending a Homosexual ‘Wedding’ would make you sinful by complicity.

Attendence = moral support
 
How is it out of context to always consider the individual? One size, fits all, answers are the very diabolical nature of evil itself
Ok, Go ahead. Construct a situation in which a Catholic SHOULD attend a gay wedding.

I can’t wait for this!
 
Ok, Go ahead. Construct a situation in which a Catholic SHOULD attend a gay wedding.

I can’t wait for this!
Assume A and his married friends B1 and B2 are invited to a homosexual wedding. B1 and B2 have small children, age 3, 5 and 7 and unfortunately although not yet alcoholics have the habit of drinking far too much, the last festivity B1 and B2 attended with their children ended with B1 and B2 passing out around 1 am in the morning and their 7-year old child managing to call A via selecting his name on the parents mobile. A of course at once drove to the festivity and picked up the shivering, horribly tired and frightened children who did not understand why mommy and daddy fell asleep without going home first.

Of course A suggests leaving the children with him, but B1 and B2 decline this, claiming that one of them will drink only a little bit, so they can make it home safe. A is rather uncertain about the reliability of this promise. Torn between informing authorities (maybe a too drastic step, it happen once and they promised it would not happen again), risking that this time the 7-year old might fail to make the call and showing support for the homosexual wedding in attending and not telling anybody (maybe except B1 and B2) he is only there to protect the B’s children from harm (which of course would be deeply shameful for B1 and B2 and might lead to loosening them as friends and any possibility to help them), A decides that while his outward posture of willingly and without grave reason attending the homosexual marriage might be reason for scandal, his actual intent of protecting the children makes attending the homosexual wedding the least problematic course of action and formally accepts the invitation, attends the wedding and is

a) sinning
b) not sinning
c) a ridicolous unrealistic scenario far beyond being even remotely possible and should therefore not be even discussed (I select c, but this was just to show that there are few things for which “construct a scenario” challenge cannot be met)
 
Cardinal Burke resigned his chairmanship of a hospital just for the hospital hosting a charity concert with a pro-abortion singer. Scandal is a serious sin and it speaks to our collective responsibility for the salvation of our brothers and sisters in the human family - a collective responsibility that is reflected in the mystery of the fall.
 
Now a more realistic scenario, A1 and A2 are married at least in respect to performing the outward actions in respect to church teaching (wedding in church etc.), three children. A1 and A2 were if to be put in a box agnostic prior wedding and some time afterwards with A1 having been raised as cafeteria catholic. Children not baptised.
A1 decides one day “Upps, being an agnostic is such a stupid error, realy sorry for that mistake, better try being a catholic”. A2, considering the catholic church to be a misogynic, child-abusing, hate-filled criminal organization being guilty of fighting enlightnment, women’s right and modenernity with torture and murder, is somewhat displeased at the decision. After some nice discussions spanning over a few months covering interesting topics like divorce, “you are endangering my children by taking them there” (meaning mass), “why cant it be protestants? they are not that criminal”, “they brainwashed you, but they will not have my children in their evil claws”, “And what about my brother and your sister? They are evil now for you?” (both being homosexual), “you hurt me so much by going to church” a somewhat unstable armistice about the issues is formed with A1 sometimes gaining permission to attend mass with the children (though baptism is still a no-go area).

If the brother of A2 would now decide to “marry” his homosexual partner of many years, how should A1 deal with the problem that saying to A2 “Sorry, you can go, but i won’t and the children shouldn’t attend either” might be interpreted by A2 as a new declaration of war with the consequence of a new round of interesting discussions? With more or less silent dissent attending the farce, especially the permission to take the children to church sometimes would not be endangered.
 
St John of the Cross (Catholic Mystic):

"Sometimes God favors advanced souls through what they hear, see, or understand - and sometimes independently of this - with sublime knowledge by which they receive understanding or experience of the height and grandeur of God. Their experience of God in this favor is so lofty that they understand clearly that everything remains to be understood. This understand and experience that the divinity is so immense as to surpass complete understanding is indeed a sublime knowledge.

One of the outstanding favors God grants briefly in this life is an understanding and experience of himself so lucid and lofty that one comes to know clearly that God cannot be completely understood or experienced. This understanding is somewhat like that of the Blessed in heaven: Those who understand God more understand more distinctly the infinitude that remains to be understood; those who see less of him do not realize so clearly what remains to be seen."
Do you understand what St. John is saying here or are you just reading your own things into his words as you seem to be doing with the pope? He says that we can never comprehend God, no matter how much we come to know him. There will always be an infinite more that we will never know…about God! It is a fundamental truth found not just among all the mystics but in the infallible teaching of the church. St. John there speaks regarding ***God’***s nature, which is infinite and incomprehensible by us. This quote has nothing to do with our own nature which is what the universal moral law is about. This quote says nothing of the moral law God has given us to obey as it is written into the natural design he has given us but an entirely different truth of our faith. Which mystic ever said that their understanding of God caused them to change the laws he had given to men? You seem to be implying this. Did st. John ever say that the moral law was different according to each person? That’s a lie whispered into the rebellious hearts of modern men by the devil. It is as far from the truths taught by the mystics as one can go–they, who utterly subjected their personal will to God and gave their complete obedience to the church to their very ends.
 
As the mystics say…To few it is given to understand that EVERYTHING remains to be understood.
You are misunderstanding or misrepresenting St. John. It is clear from your own quote that the “EVERYTHING” st John refers to is the Divinity, the nature of God, “the understanding of himself”.

"Their experience of God in this favor is so lofty that they understand clearly that everything remains to be understood. This understand and experience that the divinity is so immense as to surpass complete understanding is indeed a sublime knowledge.

One of the outstanding favors God grants briefly in this life is an understanding and experience of himself so lucid and lofty that
one comes to know clearly that God cannot be completely understood or experienced."

This “EVERYTHING” does not include mankind, other creatures or the laws God that has given them to obey. Unless you think that st. John was a pantheist who believed that creatures are part of God, in which case you would be most seriously mistaken. Even if they (mankind and creatures and the moral law) were to be further understood by the church, the fundamental decrees about them would never change as God does not lie nor is he ever mistaken in his decrees. You are implying that st. John of the Cross taught heresy here and you are way off in so doing.
 
I do not question that THE TRUTH does not change. I do question any assertion or certitude that a particular or present understanding is in fact THE ENTIRE TRUTH. This type of certainty is the opposite of faith.
No one here has claimed that this or any other teaching is the entire truth. However, it still the truth. You are trying to say that it may not be the truth for some people. This is a lie. It’s another way of saying that everybody gets to make up their own right and wrong, not God. Or that everybody can free themselves from God’s laws according to their personal judgement. Both are lies.

As to the gay wedding, the church has already taught that it is evil. Attending it is no different than attending any other ceremony declared so by the church, like a free-mason service.
 
Ok, Go ahead. Construct a situation in which a Catholic SHOULD attend a gay wedding.

I can’t wait for this!
God will be at the gay wedding…loving the participants into the moment and using each and every situation in their lives to call them into his Love. Those who love them, eg. their parents, siblings, relatives and friends, Catholic or not, should in joy celebrate the love they have found for each other and gladly attend. By loving the couple as they are and where they are those that attend will plant the seeds that point to a love that is unconditional and always present in their lives.

That which is true must be true always, everywhere, and for all people. Just because you don’t endorse Gay marriage doesn’t make that truth. It is clear that people are born Gay and so we get to love them as they are instead of how, in our finite selves, we “believe” they should be. Loving them includes granting them access to medical services, visitation rights and all other benefits granted in society to people in committed, legal relationship. In civilized society this is done via legal marriage - whether blessed by the church or not.

You can choose to maintain oppositional energy…however all over the world Gay marriage is being accepted and made legal to defuse hatred, discrimination and the evil sentiment in those that would claim to know the mind of God.
 
No one here has claimed that this or any other teaching is the entire truth. However, it still the truth. You are trying to say that it may not be the truth for some people. This is a lie. It’s another way of saying that everybody gets to make up their own right and wrong, not God. Or that everybody can free themselves from God’s laws according to their personal judgement. Both are lies.

As to the gay wedding, the church has already taught that it is evil. Attending it is no different than attending any other ceremony declared so by the church, like a free-mason service.
People choose to be free-mason’s. People are born Gay. Even Church herself admits that the “Psychological origins” are unknown…that’s the truth.
 
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