Hi all!
I’ll add the following:
While our Sages certainly do not downplay either the attempted homosexual gang-rape of Lot’s angelic visitors (the people of Sodom could hardly have known that they were angels) or the Torah’s ban on homosexual acts (the Torah does not refer to “homosexuality” per se; the wording of Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13 are very precise - it is homosexual
ACTS which are a banned abomination) most of our Sages agree that the “sin of Sodom” was a combination of extreme stinginess, inhospitality and uncharitableness; our Sages cite Ezekiel 16:49 in this regard.
Note the sequence of the text. We find out about God’s cognizance of the “sin of Sodom and Gomorrah” in Genesis 18:20, BEFORE the attempted gang-rape in Genesis 19:5. Abraham seems to understand right away, in Genesis 18:23, that God intends to destroy Sodom & Gomorrah.
We (orthodox Jews) certainly oppose the legalization of homosexual marriage in the USA (see
ou.org/public/statements/2004/nate9.htm &
thejewishweek.com/top/editletcontent.php3?artid=3346). As Rabbi Weinreb writes in the second article:
While tolerance for individuals who manifest homosexual tendencies is certainly a Jewish value, and consistent with some of the core values to which Rabbi Ellenson refers, there is a great difference between tolerance for an individual and recognition of a movement which wishes to turn something clearly wrong by Jewish standards into something not only tolerated but normative.
I was recently (honorably!) discharged from the Israel Defense Force reserves after 11 years’ service. I am/was a medic. Back in the spring of 1991, I did the 13-week medics’ course. It was no secret that the commander of the IDF Medical Corps at the time was a homosexual. However, since he was a first-class doctor & officer, who kept his private life private and never let it interfere with his military & medical service, his sexual preferences were not an issue. He recently died (not from AIDS) & his long-time partner was forced to sue to receive the same benefits as the spouse of a widowed IDF veteran would receive. Unfortunately (I say), the (secular) civil courts here awarded him the benefits. While I do not think that it is right that he be penalized or discriminated against for his sexual preferences (so long as he didn’t let them interfere with his IDF duties, which he didn’t), I also don’t think that it’s right that he, in effect, be rewarded for them either. By choosing the way of life that he did, I think that he forfeited any claim to spousal benefits which, after all, are for
spouses, which his partner was not. But, as I mentioned, the courts here ruled otherwise. Recently, several Israeli homosexuals were “married” in Ontario & have announced that they will try to have their “marriages” recognized here. I see another big court fight coming on.
Be well!
ssv
