Grace,peace, and mercy to you. I am new to Catholic Answes, but lifelong Catholic. Might I share. “Blatant, disrespectful” is a cultural determinative.
Might I guide you to Youtube–Gambia and the Catholic Church (Or any African country and the Catholic Church, or Pacific rim and the Catholic church, and you will see our masses (those in the African diaspora) are filled with a joyful noise, and powerful emotional worship of God.
Howsoever, the quietude appears to be a function of the European heritaged, and by all means worship Father God and Son, Yeshua in the manner that befits you and your culture. You can do nothing more. But if you celebrate outside the United States (or that idiom) get ready for a powerful extension of the Holy Spirit in worship. (It is said that St. Augustine the African bishop of Hippo Regus danced down the aisle (as did David) in worship.(Excuse any arthritic) typos. Humbly submitted…
Pax Christi