Several points need to be made:
- God is the owner of everything in the cosmos. That means that no family “owns” a child; the child is not “theirs,” it is God’s since he made it. God, as the owner of every molecule of the cosmos, lays claim to every molecule of the cosmos. “Your child,” is no more “your child” than the planet Neptune is your planet. All is owned by the Creator.
- God will undo all evil, which solves the problem of evil (as already stated in my previous post on this thread)
- If you’re referring to the Egyptian mothers of the Exodus then something very important needs to be remembered:
“8 Now a new king arose over Egypt, who did not know Joseph. 9 He said to his people, “Look, the Israelite people are more numerous and more powerful than we. 10 Come, let us deal shrewdly with them, or they will increase and, in the event of war, join our enemies and fight against us and escape from the land.” 11
Therefore they set taskmasters over them to oppress them with forced labor. They built supply cities, Pithom and Rameses, for Pharaoh. 12 But the more they were oppressed, the more they multiplied and spread, so that the Egyptians came to dread the Israelites.
13 The Egyptians became ruthless in imposing tasks on the Israelites, 14 and made their lives bitter with hard service in mortar and brick and in every kind of field labor. They were ruthless in all the tasks that they imposed on them.
15 The king of Egypt said to the Hebrew midwives, one of whom was named Shiphrah and the other Puah, 16 “When you act as midwives to the Hebrew women, and see them on the birthstool,** if it is a boy, kill him; but if it is a girl, she shall live**.” 17 But the midwives feared God; they did not do as the king of Egypt commanded them, but they let the boys live. 18 So the king of Egypt summoned the midwives and said to them, “Why have you done this, and allowed the boys to live?” 19 The midwives said to Pharaoh, “Because the Hebrew women are not like the Egyptian women; for they are vigorous and give birth before the midwife comes to them.” 20 So God dealt well with the midwives; and the people multiplied and became very strong. 21 And because the midwives feared God, he gave them families. 22 **Then Pharaoh commanded all his people, “Every boy that is born to the Hebrews[a] you shall throw into the Nile, but you shall let every girl live.”” **Ex. 1:8-22 (NRSV)
You seem to be forgetting that the Egyptians were obsessed with killing and enslaving Israelites. This is something that seems to be usually forgotten by those that believe that the God of the Exodus is “unjust.”
- Evil said/done by God in Scripture is your opinion from your own point of view. The Bible offers a theology that justifies every single action/statement made by God in Scripture. Clearly the vast majority of the human race has not accepted that theology, but that doesn’t mean it’s not true.
- The early church fathers did not “choose” the books of the New Testament. If you look at the New Testament and who it was written by you will see the reason why it was canonized and why no other writings even came close. There’s not a matter of “choice” here, there’s only a matter of acknowledgement.
Depends on what you mean by “killing children.” If you mean physical death then I would think that it’s obvious that God would have to be involved in some way, as God is ultimately responsible for everything that happens in the universe. If you’re referring to various injunctions in the Old Testament to wipe out civilizations, then a very good reason could be that those civilizations were simply so evil and corrupt that they had to be totally destroyed (like the global flood civilization).
An interesting analogy might be the U.S. in WWII. In order to end WWII the U.S. had to drop a nuclear bomb on Hiroshima/Nagasaki, killing/burning alive many men, women, children, and infants. The U.S. did this because they had no other choice; in the same way, God may have to exterminate a civilization because he has no other choice: in other words, they will keep being evil and attacking/antagonizing the people of God until they’re all dead.