Fist of all, I did answer the question, of course not the way you want it answered. I told you my marriage would have ended because my husband did not want anymore children, did not want to do NFP (as we did it to try to have children() and would not tolerate abstaining, but it was still MY choice, he did not force me. I said I had a decision to make and I did. You can judge me all you want and feel good about!
To people like you( the “we” you indicated) there is not justification, so there no good answers but yours and when you don’t get it, you get ugly and lie, how very Christian of you. If you don’t want to engage me than don’t tell lies, counting on that a poster hasn’t read all the post. Stop and end it!!!
Suslar brought up the fact that I brought my marriage into but I did to better clarify my situation. She said I implied that my children were a financial drain on me, which I found repulsive at best. Was I open to having another child of my own no? Any more children that I have will be adopted, not because I don’t want to be pregnant again ( I loved being pregnant, morning sickness and all) but because their are way too many children already alive that desperately need homes and families. Now I bet you are thinking I am not a good enough person to do that because I don’t agree with this ONE point of the Catholic church. You can think anything you want about me, but I am going to defend myself when you post lies.
There are people like you judging others, call it helping, guiding, kindness, niceness, spin into any pretty little thing you want, it is JUDGING. The OP asked a question and what you didn’t like was that someone answered it in a way YOU didn’t like. I am not promoting or encouraging my opinion or saying the catholic church is wrong in any way at all. The moderators on this site are very good and if I had they would have closed the post already. This is a huge issue in the Catholic church and one I have no idea how they should handle. People are living over issues like this; married couples that have been in the church all their lives. Women are having abortions over using BC.
Let me ask you, the world is never going to be the way you want it and you can judge and preach all all day long, but have you ever held a new born addicted to crack, who will be a drug addict all their life? Have you ever seen or read reports on a child sexually and physically abused at the hands of there parents, or the ones that are killed by there parents? Have you ever met a mother that accidentally got pregnant using I NFP when she couldn’t handle anymore children only to become an alcoholic or mentally ill only to destroy the entire family? My husband works in the crime lab or one of the nations worst crime cities, so I have!
Those who only go to “pure movies”, they don’t watch TV or they only watch wholesome shows, and they only associate with others just like themselves. You know what that tells me? It tell me those people are not coming down off their high horse and going out and helping the really troubled people in this world, hookers, drug addicts, criminals, that what it tells me. Some people should not be parents! At least if we want children to stop being murdered!
