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Oh I get it. I am that way naturally. It’s just here, at the moment…I feel like I actually have a pretty good handle on what I need to do, I just have to get through it. It’s like, if one of the major steps is “find a new job” - well, I’m looking, but I can’t exactly just go and decide that I’m getting hired tomorrow. I have to apply and wait just like everyone else (and to make it worse, a lot of these jobs aren’t very upfront, so I might not know in advance if it’s worth taking).
And with a parent, even if you move out it’s not like it’s going to stop hurting. You can’t force someone else to come around, but they never stop being your parents. It’s very like mourning in that regard - not for the person themselves, but for the relationship.
And with a parent, even if you move out it’s not like it’s going to stop hurting. You can’t force someone else to come around, but they never stop being your parents. It’s very like mourning in that regard - not for the person themselves, but for the relationship.