I Know Why I Hate Everything

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Rascalking said:
I’m with you Rence! Nothing makes me happier than my dog. My cow, on the other hand, can be a grump.

Moo.
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I think happy people tend to create an atmosphere that is happy around them and draw what makes them happy to them. I think you and I do that.

To the OP, I hope you get to learn what makes you happy, and draw those things to you, so that you are more at peace with your surroundings than not.
 
Rascalking said:
Spoken like someone who is defending the author of a thread called, “I know why I hate everything…”
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Defending against lack of charity, is all. Not defending “hating everything”.
Read my posts in the forums. If you think I’m unhappy, and you really feel that way your not just saying it to agree with someone else, than fine. Your entitled to your opinion.
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Not saying you’re not happy. I believe you are. To what extent that happiness reveals itself through your demeanor and tact (inasmuch as I’ve personally observed) is what I question.

And yes, I’ve seen some of your posts in other threads…
 
SteveGC said:
Defending against lack of charity, is all. Not defending “hating everything”.
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Ok, cool. My “lack of charity” is also “stating the truth”. People claim it’s a lack of charity just because they disagree with what someone is saying.
 
Rence said:
I think happy people tend to create an atmosphere that is happy around them and draw what makes them happy to them. I think you and I do that.

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That’s why we should get married, Rence.

Everyone on CAF is invited!

SteveGC. you can be the best man.
 
Ok, cool. My “lack of charity” is also “stating the truth”. People claim it’s a lack of charity just because they disagree with what someone is saying.
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It’s far from empirically “true”, Rascal. It’s certainly an opinion, to which I’m not suggesting you’re not entitled. I just question your delivery.
Rascalking said:
That’s why we should get married, Rence.

Everyone on CAF is invited!

SteveGC. you can be the best man.
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Sure…

And Flavius can give the first toast. 😉
 
I haven’t read any of the thread , but just like everyone else, I’ll just jump in with my opinion. Haters.👍
 
Spoken like someone who is defending the author of a thread called, “I know why I hate everything…”
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I made this thread days ago in the worst emotional state I’ve felt and pondered why I felt that way and then needed to get others support or advice- so pardon me if its not the most tact title…
While some people might focus on feeling guilty for five years for a ‘sin’ or a ‘mistake’
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It’s not a sin, it’s a collection of sin gathered together. I care because I’d rather not have it seem like I’m panicking for 5 years over something I did in the past, its a series of problems still going on that I feel I haven’t mastered yet and thus don’t feel ready to confess.
 
Flavius,

I have been down, in a deep depression, wishing the world would go away all day every day for months at a time, incapable of doing anything. I know how disabling a feeling of helplessness or guilt or whatever it is can be. I’m not taking it lightly, but I haven’t come up with anything really useful so far so I haven’t jumped in with it.

Alan
 
Rascalking said:
Ok, cool. My “lack of charity” is also “stating the truth”. People claim it’s a lack of charity just because they disagree with what someone is saying.
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No, it’s because you are being uncharitable. . And hijacking the thread. I’m not sure because I haven’t been here that long, but I think they have rules against it. I might be wrong, so I’ll go check.
 
Flavius_Aetius said:
It’s not a sin, it’s a collection of sin gathered together. I care because I’d rather not have it seem like I’m panicking for 5 years over something I did in the past, its a series of problems still going on that I feel I haven’t mastered yet and thus don’t feel ready to confess.
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Just keep in mind that you are probably going to need lots of help from the Holy Spirit to deal with this sin. We are helpless without God. Reconciliation means you form intent not to sin. They have it every week because we fail.

Whenever you are ready, God will be delighted. I think He likes that you are here.
 
Hello Flavious, I just caught your thread. I k ow what the dark night is like as I have been suffering from it for the last 2 years and at one point I needed to spend most of my time in the tub trying to soothe away the stress pains(my struggle was against scrupulosity and intrusive thoughts about gods existence). I am on meds and therapy.

Anyways, I saw that when you first posted you said that you didn’t have any talents at all, but throughout your posts I have sensed one great talent you have, and that’s the gift of empathy. You genuinely care about the world and the plight of the hopeless. To me that’s a very rare gift in this very corrupt age. You also said that there is something that urging you to want to know God better. Sounds to me like you allready have the seed planted deep in you.

You also said that you had to practically push your parents to take you to church. Can’t you see how much faith that takes to do as opposed to some of us when we were younger had no choice in the matter but to go with our parents. I don’t know about you, but what you just said screams of faith. Do you think that maybe sometimes you don’t really see how special you really are and how much God really loves you.
I also know what it was like being the third wheel in conversations, but from these struggles you have been given a good heart with great empathy for your fellow man.

As far as porn addiction I was there also for many years, but it was the dark night of the soul and scrupulosity that made me quite my porn addiction almost cold turkey. I always felt my porn addiction was from some of my frustrations elsewhere (at least that’s how it started out).

You are my brother in Christ so if you ever need to talk u can shoot me off a pm.

Remember that mother Teresa suffered from
 
Remember that saintly mother Teresa suffered from the dark night of the soul for over 50 years . Remember also when Jesus was being tortured and crucified he still asked the father to forgive them. If he still loves them, imagine how much more he loves you.

Sorry for the 2 posts but I’m on my iPod lol

Anyways, god bless you bro, I will put you in my prayers
 
Dear Flavius_Aetius, please find a holy priest to be your spiritual director/confessor so you can work on the problems that you feel you “haven’t mastered” which are keeping you from confession. My friend, you do not have to master your problems to go to confession, you just have to repent of your sins with imperfect or perfect contrition, while seeking help for any addictions. I’m afraid you are ruining things for yourself by keeping away from the sacraments. You are depriving yourself of what you truly need for healing: sancifying grace! You may feel you have a good reason to keep from confession, but you actually don’t have one because we are called to go to confession in the messiness of our sinful lives; we most certainly should not wait to go until we feel we have mastery over our passions, sins, problems, etc… Just be sure to seek help for any addictive behavior you have and go to the sacrament of reconciliation at the same time - and let the priest know you are seeking help so he knows you are trying your best to keep from sinning.

This world is a “vale of tears” and can make us sad, but please don’t ever let yourself hate people (if you truly do)… just hate their sins. Remember to “love the sinner and hate the sin.” May our Lord give you healing and peace. I’m sorry you are suffering such pain. Please make sure to offer it up. God bless!
 
And whatever you do, friend, do please do not hate God. This is very seriously wrong.
 
but please don’t ever let yourself hate people (if you truly do)
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I do, and its one of the main reasons I’m cannot follow God piously. God loves humans, for the most part humanity disgusts me and makes me grit my teeth in anger. Even if I went straight to God, had confession done and went back to Mass I’d probably still hate God’s Man, and because of that all my prayer and attempts to feel his Grace are pointless.

If anything I can only hope God is willing enough to give me a corner of Hell where I don’t have to hear or see any other people. Of course since I don’t deserve that he’ll lead me to the most populated part of Hell where I’ll be with the kind of people I hate most for eternity.

Considering I’ll never stop suffering, it’s enough to make me wish I could just forget about God and look forward to nothingness…
 
Dear friend, can’t you allow yourself to forgive people mercifully, like Jesus forgave the people who were putting him to death? He said, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.” I understand you are very angry that men are so sinful, but can’t you try to pity them for what they are doing to their souls and pray for them? Sometimes I feel myself getting angry at certain persons for their persisting in their sins but then I see I can’t let myself do this - I see I must rather continue to pray for them and see the good in them - even if they have their share of bad in them. Can’t you give this a try? You are right when you say that God loves men - and we both know he wants us to love men as well, so why don’t you tell God you will love men out of love for Him and then pray and do good things for these people you used to hate?
 
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