'If gays don't like it, they can choose another pasta': Barilla pasta faces global boycott after chairman says brand would never feature a homosexual

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I was at the store buying pasta today. I saw Barilla, they now have increased name recognition for me. Bought their product, which was on sale, by the way. 😃
 
What dichotomy? I’m opposed to and complain about any group who vilifies the Catholic Church. So are most Catholics. 🤷
What I mean is that I rarely see Catholics generalize Protestants as anti-Catholic or vicious towards the Faith, yet I hear much worse comments much more often from Protestants than I do the LGBT community, which is frequently described as anti-Catholic or anti-Faith. I do not mean you, but rather the overall community as large. Can you honestly say you see the generalizations of Protestant religious as negative and anti-Catholic on this forum on even equal footing, let alone worse footing, than LGBT communities?
It is interesting, isn’t it? Can you show me something from the Popes or the USCCB that would cause that? Is there some justification for the nastiness spewed at the Pope and Catholics, in general?
I think it’s a misunderstanding of why the Church opposes SS’M,’ again not helped by the extreme Protestants who just yell out “IT’S IN THE BIBLE” or violent insults at gay people.
 
What I mean is that I rarely see Catholics generalize Protestants as anti-Catholic or vicious towards the Faith,
You don’t? :confused:
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yet I hear much worse comments much more often from Protestants than I do the LGBT community, which is frequently described as anti-Catholic or anti-Faith. I do not mean you, but rather the overall community as large. Can you honestly say you see the generalizations of Protestant religious as negative and anti-Catholic on this forum on even equal footing, let alone worse footing, than LGBT communities?
Equal? I don’t know…I haven’t kept a tally. Maybe you spend more time on gay-related threads?
 
I think it’s a misunderstanding of why the Church opposes SS’M,’ again not helped by the extreme Protestants who just yell out “IT’S IN THE BIBLE” or violent insults at gay people.
I agree. And, like all people who want their particular sin to be okay, they take offense at the Church daring to call their activity sin and lash out.
 
That’s why I’m frequently able to walk into a gay community that knows my position on gay “marriage” with very few cold stares and no foul language directed my way.

In reality, the “gay lobby,” as you call it, represents an extraordinarily small amount of gay people, and it should not be extrapolated to the community as a whole.
I agree. The “gay lobby” is small. I notice that the far left allies itself with the cause of LGBT issues, etc. All social issues are wrapped up into one big secular left movement. I sometimes wonder what the motives of the left are in co-opting the gay rights movement. Perhaps their target is the Catholic church as that is the main obstacle to the implementation of the goals of the secular left.
I’ve heard 10x nastier things from Protestants about the Catholic Church than I’ve ever heard in the gay community. Heck, I’ve heard much worse things from straight radical feminists. I don’t know why LGBT communities get such a rap for being anti-religious. That doesn’t represent my (quite large) personal experience with them at all, both from my own conversion and in context with other highly religious friends. I do agree that Catholics are attacked constantly and quite horrendously. I just disagree that it’s from mainstream LGBT people.
No, I wasn’t talking about hearing those things from the gay community - about the Catholic church. I was talking about hearing (or overhearing) them said by what might be considered “everyday folks.”

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It is interesting, isn’t it? Can you show me something from the Popes or the USCCB that would cause that?
I think there are a number of reasons for this. If I had to name a few off the top of my head it would be bishops wading into the media to talk about same-sex marriage with insulting hyperbole, bishops in Uganda supporting a bill calling for the execution of LGBT persons, the prohibition of gay priests, firing of gay teachers, etc. To be honest, none of the gay Catholics I know have expressed a problem with the teaching of the Church, but with being placed under the microscope for arguably uncharitable lecturing while the crickets sound on, for example, heterosexual divorce. They’ve expressed problems with the people who make it their purpose in life to vilify them. In my experience, their faith is a more personal and private experience and whatever issues they may have are best left to the confessional; not manufactured into fodder for the busybodies. Its difficult to distinguish between anti-gay diocese in Uganda or a few bad apples in a parish vs the Church when you’re essentially marketing yourselves as “One holy catholic and apostolic church.”
 
I think there are a number of reasons for this. If I had to name a few off the top of my head it would be bishops wading into the media to talk about same-sex marriage with insulting hyperbole, bishops in Uganda supporting a bill calling for the execution of LGBT persons, the prohibition of gay priests, firing of gay teachers, etc. To be honest, none of the gay Catholics I know have expressed a problem with the teaching of the Church, but with being placed under the microscope for arguably uncharitable lecturing while the crickets sound on, for example, heterosexual divorce. They’ve expressed problems with the people who make it their purpose in life to vilify them. In my experience, their faith is a more personal and private experience and whatever issues they may have are best left to the confessional; not manufactured into fodder for the busybodies.
What “insulting hyperbole” did the bishops use? :confused:

As far as heterosexual divorce, it isn’t the same sort of issue. Divorce and remarriage (without an annulment) is a sin. However, a divorced person who confesses and doesn’t remarry is no longer sinning. Ditto for a person with same sex attraction who confesses and doesn’t engage in homosexuality again.

I’ve found that the parishes that never say a word about homosexuality are the same parishes that never say a word about divorce/remarriage, contraception, etc. Parishes I’ve attended who speak about abortion and gay “marriage,” also tend to point out contraception and divorce/remarriage as an issue.

EDIT ADD: Oh, and it also has to do with current societal change. When divorce laws were loosened back in the day, I’m sure the Church was more vocal about divorce and barely mentioned homosexuality. Today, homosexual “marriage” and abortion are current legislative/societal battles. The Church is going to address current legislative/societal battles.
 
You don’t? :confused:

Equal? I don’t know…I haven’t kept a tally. Maybe you spend more time on gay-related threads?
No, I’ve never heard a Catholic insult a Protestant in my life, other than playful jesting at sola scriptura, etc. But never a “why are they so anti-Catholic, etc.”

Also, I guess it is true that there’s rarely threads in the World News section on Protestantism, so maybe that’s part of it. I tend to take part in a lot of different World News topics (health care, LGBT issues, abortion, economy, etc.), but not much outside this forum.
I agree. And, like all people who want their particular sin to be okay, they take offense at the Church daring to call their activity sin and lash out.
I don’t know about that. Let me give you an example I had from today. I was visiting a heavily LGBT area in Maryland, and this girl and I start talking. She’s wearing a cross, so I’m open from the get go about being a Theology student, etc.

But as soon as she finds out I’m studying Catholic theology, she gives me this crazy look and asks me “Is Catholicism okay with being gay?” (in other words, can you be an active lesbian and be a practicing Catholic)

I immediately respond with “No, no, no, not at all. But if you are completely gay, they just ask that you be celibate and refrain from dating.” Her response: “Oh, so it’s the ACTING on gay feelings that’s not allowed in the Church.”

I affirmed her, so then she asks me “well, why did you join Catholicism when there are many, many Christian churches that focus on stuff like liberation theology and social justice and don’t worry about stuff like that?”

I respond that I had known my whole college years I needed to be Catholic, and when I finally tested my feelings in my junior year by attending a Mass, God just let me know that I was in the right place. After that, it was about following His law, even if it meant sacrificing certain things I might want otherwise.

Her response? “Oh, well it sounds like the Lord has good things planned for you!” and she smiled. We then changed topics.

^ is a much, much more common occurrence I have in the LGBT community than any sort of antagonistic response. Note how she didn’t even know basic differences between the extreme Protestant and Catholic religions on SSAs either (e.g. SSA are considered morally neutral in Catholicism and evil in extreme Protestantism). I think we need to do a much better public education process on Catholic teachings.
 
I agree with that approach, and I would like to see it from other side, as well. The national discourse has become very nasty, and both sides of every argument point at the other accusing them of being the nasty ones.

And, again, people who don’t use inflammatory language get lumped in together as being “unloving” because they call a sin a sin. That is just as uncharitable IMNSHO.
I agree with must attempt to evangelize as best we can, but don’t ever expect the same courtesy from those who disagree with the Church.

They clamor for tolerance, empathy, and softer language, but are the first to use terms like hateful and bigoted anytime you take any stand to defend the Church or against things like changing the definition of marriage. The calls for softer language need to go two ways to actually have a dialogue.
 
I think there are a number of reasons for this. If I had to name a few off the top of my head it would be bishops wading into the media to talk about same-sex marriage with insulting hyperbole, bishops in Uganda supporting a bill calling for the execution of LGBT persons, the prohibition of gay priests, firing of gay teachers, etc. To be honest, none of the gay Catholics I know have expressed a problem with the teaching of the Church, but with being placed under the microscope for arguably uncharitable lecturing while the crickets sound on, for example, heterosexual divorce. They’ve expressed problems with the people who make it their purpose in life to vilify them. In my experience, their faith is a more personal and private experience and whatever issues they may have are best left to the confessional; not manufactured into fodder for the busybodies. Its difficult to distinguish between anti-gay diocese in Uganda or a few bad apples in a parish vs the Church when you’re essentially marketing yourselves as “One holy catholic and apostolic church.”
This is a problem on the other end of the spectrum too, with priests excommunicating themselves by supporting SS’M’, female ordination, etc. Priestly (and even papal to an extent!) behavior is not infallible in any way, but it’s hard to make this point to an audience that isn’t well aware of the nuances in your teachings.
 
No, I’ve never heard a Catholic insult a Protestant in my life, other than playful jesting at sola scriptura, etc. But never a “why are they so anti-Catholic, etc.”

Also, I guess it is true that there’s rarely threads in the World News section on Protestantism, so maybe that’s part of it.** I tend to take part in a lot of different World News topics (health care, LGBT issues, abortion, economy, etc.), but not much outside this forum**.
Well, there you go. As a former Protestant, I can tell you that there are a lot of very, very anti-Catholic Protestants (again, including my relatives), and I’ve seen it pointed out more than once.
I don’t know about that. Let me give you an example I had from today. I was visiting a heavily LGBT area in Maryland, and this girl and I start talking. She’s wearing a cross, so I’m open from the get go about being a Theology student, etc.

But as soon as she finds out I’m studying Catholic theology, she gives me this crazy look and asks me “Is Catholicism okay with being gay?” (in other words, can you be an active lesbian and be a practicing Catholic)

I immediately respond with “No, no, no, not at all. But if you are completely gay, they just ask that you be celibate and refrain from dating.” Her response: “Oh, so it’s the ACTING on gay feelings that’s not allowed in the Church.”

I affirmed her, so then she asks me “well, why did you join Catholicism when there are many, many Christian churches that focus on stuff like liberation theology and social justice and don’t worry about stuff like that?”

I respond that I had known my whole college years I needed to be Catholic, and when I finally tested my feelings in my junior year by attending a Mass, God just let me know that I was in the right place. After that, it was about following His law, even if it meant sacrificing certain things I might want otherwise.

Her response? “Oh, well it sounds like the Lord has good things planned for you!” and she smiled. We then changed topics.

^ is a much, much more common occurrence I have in the LGBT community than any sort of antagonistic response. Note how she didn’t even know basic differences between the extreme Protestant and Catholic religions on SSAs either (e.g. SSA are considered morally neutral in Catholicism and evil in extreme Protestantism). I think we need to do a much better public education process on Catholic teachings.
Great job. Generally, my discussions with homosexuals tend to be very, very sour at the very moment they find out I’m Catholic. I got the same from many co-workers who were also anti-religious in general, but said particularly nasty things about the Church. And, liberal friends, whom I had to de-friend on Facebook after their extremely nasty anti-Catholic, anti-Pope posts. Should I go on?

Again, I’m glad you have had nicer experiences. I’ve run into anti-Catholicism quite a bit. I haven’t not found the alphabet soup community any better than other anti-Catholics. 🤷
 
I agree with must attempt to evangelize as best we can, but don’t ever expect the same courtesy from those who disagree with the Church.

They clamor for tolerance, empathy, and softer language, but are the first to use terms like hateful and bigoted anytime you take any stand to defend the Church or against things like changing the definition of marriage. The calls for softer language need to go two ways to actually have a dialogue.
Exactly. They are generally okay with liberal Catholics though, but, then, a lot of liberal Catholics can be just as nasty about Catholics as non-Catholics…
 
Well, there you go. As a former Protestant, I can tell you that there are a lot of very, very anti-Catholic Protestants (again, including my relatives), and I’ve seen it pointed out more than once.

Great job. Generally, my discussions with homosexuals tend to be very, very sour at the very moment they find out I’m Catholic. I got the same from many co-workers who were also anti-religious in general, but said particularly nasty things about the Church. And, liberal friends, whom I had to de-friend on Facebook after their extremely nasty anti-Catholic, anti-Pope posts. Should I go on?

Again, I’m glad you have had nicer experiences. I’ve run into anti-Catholicism quite a bit. I haven’t not found the alphabet soup community any better than other anti-Catholics. 🤷
Well, I haven’t meant to discount your own personal experience by any means. The situations also seem different if I’m reading your posts correctly (e.g. your experience is in-house with family and close friends, whereas most of my experience is with randa-people at big events), so that might alter it somewhat. My LGBT close friends were about 90/10 in that 90% had an “i know your position, you know mine” attitude towards me and we got along great, while 10% were the…inflammatory type, but I don’t have any LGBT family, so there’s no way I can compare on that front.

Again, I haven’t meant to imply you by any means in my discussion here; I just feel like, even in my real world experiences, that active gays are targeted for being anti-Catholic even if they aren’t, and Protestants are given slaps on the wrist when they make inflammatory statements about Catholicism and viewed as isolated cases.
 
What “insulting hyperbole” did the bishops use? :confused:
I don’t want to risk getting dinged for discussing that again so let me pose this question to you. If your husband or wife walked up to you one day and said something along the lines of “Your cooking is disgusting.” then walked away, how would you feel?
 
In reality, the “gay lobby,” as you call it, represents an extraordinarily small amount of gay people, and it should not be extrapolated to the community as a whole.
It’s similar to the “Islamic terrorist” problem, though: The “extremists” make the headlines and shape perception, but this “moderate majority” never utters a peep of protest against them. But in the case of the “gay community”, it’s carried beyond silence into taking advantage of the actions of the “extremists”. 20 years ago, the push for same-sex “marriage” was purely the domain of the “extremists” in the “gay community”. Today, even most of my straight friends and family view me as some kind of reactionary bigot with a bible in one hand and a noose in the other simply because I oppose same-sex “marriage”. If the rest of the “gay community” is honest about the most vocal not actually representing them, then they need to speak up about it and stop following where people like Dan Savage lead.
 
I don’t want to risk getting dinged for discussing this again so let me pose this question to you. If your husband or wife walked up to you one day and said something along the lines of “Your cooking is disgusting.” then walked away, how would you feel?
I fail to see how this applies to the bishops, and it sounds like you don’t want to discuss it. I guess we’ll just have to drop it as an unsubstantiated claim.

Oh…and my cooking is disgusting. Except for my grilled cheese sandwiches. I make a mean grilled cheese sandwich. The secret is in the buttering process, burner level and the cheese - Tillamook Medium Cheddar. If you would like full instructions, I can forward them to you.
 
I fail to see how this applies to the bishops, and it sounds like you don’t want to discuss it. I guess we’ll just have to drop it as an unsubstantiated claim.
I think you know it is not an unsubstantiated claim. I brought out tons of examples in a previous discussion on this issue and received an infraction for criticizing bishops. You’re welcome to google.
 
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