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“Even though there is a modicum of pleasure to be had, it is really an act of love…and there is no sin in that. Where the wrongfulness takes over is when it is or has become nothing more than a “physical pursuit” for personal satisfaction…”
Right. Having a purely physical pursuit like that does add up in my mind as using someone as an object. You may love that person who you objectifyed, but then you have a blurry image of what true love is I think.
I guess its easy for me to say all this, when I can’t medically have any more children. But, I can say that I would have to face the facts on this at some point if I could. The end question I would have to ask myself, is I am willing to just get what I want out of life, or what God intended for me? I bet he has a better plan than I do.
Life begins at conception, and marriage is the place God meant for it to happen. Simple. He did not give anyone any reason to think otherwise. As far as chemical methods to prevent conception, one can see it has side effects. If one is catholic, they see another dimension to it. I am going to try to get through Theology of the Body to get a handle on it, but I think its going to be in that document from just googling around and searching here.
I guess its a trust matter. I let myself decide what was best nearly my entire life. I need a vacation, and I will let God take over now.
Right. Having a purely physical pursuit like that does add up in my mind as using someone as an object. You may love that person who you objectifyed, but then you have a blurry image of what true love is I think.
I guess its easy for me to say all this, when I can’t medically have any more children. But, I can say that I would have to face the facts on this at some point if I could. The end question I would have to ask myself, is I am willing to just get what I want out of life, or what God intended for me? I bet he has a better plan than I do.
Life begins at conception, and marriage is the place God meant for it to happen. Simple. He did not give anyone any reason to think otherwise. As far as chemical methods to prevent conception, one can see it has side effects. If one is catholic, they see another dimension to it. I am going to try to get through Theology of the Body to get a handle on it, but I think its going to be in that document from just googling around and searching here.
I guess its a trust matter. I let myself decide what was best nearly my entire life. I need a vacation, and I will let God take over now.