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benedictus2
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I’d be the last person to say that is just obession. I have read many stories where it actually comes good in the end. As a matter of fact I know this man was in love with someone but ended marrrying someone else. Then his wife passed away and after 20 years caught up again with his old love on the other side of the world and it turned out that she never married. So now they are happily married. Maybe they have passed the the so called first flush of love but they are very happy.Yes.
Short thread that.
When I was in 6th grade I fell in love with a girl at school. Except many people wouldn’t even call it love. I never spoke to her, I never spent time with her, I know very little about her. it is no exaggeration to say that I know benedictus2 better than I knew her. maybe I won’t see her in heaven either. Her picture has sat on my desk 25 years. ( I copied it out of the yearbook. She didn’t give me her picture ) 9 out of 10 people think that is wierd, if not downright deviant. The sum of their objections seem to be, " …and the point ( i.e. the purpose ) of this prolonged obsession is…? "
To hope for a happiness on this earth is not unreasonable.
But some people assert that they love God because they really know deep in their gut that they are loved.The funny thing is that many of these people who look askance at this apparent pointless , motive-less, directionless, love,
are the SAME people who assert that to love God just because he is God is the highest virtue, the alpha and omega, the beginning and end, existence entire.
There is another member of this forum who wrote about his conversion. He was born Catholic then became atheist. Then one night he was woken by a feeling and a sound and this voice said to him “I love you” and he said that he felt the most immense love then. He came back to the Church after that.
That is why what I pray for most is that people will realize that God truly loves them. That realization is life changing.
I am not one to sneer at that at all becuase I happen to be in the same boat. I have even prayed that I will stop loving this man who takes no notice of me but nope it is still there. I have often wondered why that happens and have no answer. But this is one poverty I have to accept. The poverty of answers.You bet it confuses me. You bet their thinking and motives confuse me.
They exalt altruism. well fudge, this girl I’m talking about isn’t even a God, a celebrity, a loved one, a friend, an acquaintance. So I guess my altruism must trump theirs huh?![]()
What get’s me through is the thought that I am probably in love with him because I do not know him all that well.


Nope. Not only with God. The only difference is that with God, we do not love iin vain because God loved us first.Nope, it only counts if its a God.![]()
That’s all cool. I get too emotional over stuff myself. But that is all part and parcel of being human. Over emotional is preferable to being an ice-man.Whatever.
I cannot treat this question with emotional neutrality, and I have not been charitable. So I bow out. We must agree to disagree.
Good day. :tiphat:
