The faith isn’t made for any one person, but we should be able to respect and love the individuals among us and where they are in their faith development. I happen to think that the responsible thing to do as a catholic is to be willing to question the Church and encourage dialogue, rather than focusing on being in lock-step. If you don’t get something, question and get an answer. It’s intellectually irresponsible to disagree without being willing to entertain the possibility of the Church being justified, but the Church should see the working of the Holy Spirit in earnest and faithful dissent.
I’ve been Catholic since the day of my Baptism, when I was 2 wks. old & this may surprise you, but I agree with the highlighted section above. I attended parochial school for 12 years & it was the Sacred Heart nuns who taught me, in high school, to question until I got a complete answer, the background about our teachings…to question until I could understand the where & why of the Church teachings, doctrine & dogma.
The only one that I can say really troubled me is our belief about Artificial Contraception. I can’t say that I agreed with it UNTIL a pastor in a little country church made a copy of Humana Vitae for me. One thing…he didn’t just walk out of Mass & hand me the encyclical…I had to ask. It’s a long read, but I’d suggest that every Catholic read this prophetic document. I think that a lot of people just don’t take the time & make the effort to FIND the reasons. Following is a part of Humana Vitae that was instrumental re my agreement on this teaching:
[SIGN]Responsible men can become more deeply convinced of the truth of the doctrine laid down by the Church on this issue** if they reflect on the consequences of methods and plans for artificial birth control. **Let them first consider how easily this course of action could open wide the way for **marital infidelity **and a
general lowering of moral standards. Not much experience is needed to be fully aware of human weakness and to understand that human beings—
and especially the young, who are so exposed to temptation—need incentives to keep the moral law, and it is an evil thing to make it easy for them to break that law. Another effect that gives cause for alarm is that **a man who grows accustomed to the use of contraceptive methods may forget the reverence due to a woman, and, disregarding her physical and emotional equilibrium, reduce her to being a mere instrument for the satisfaction of his own desires, no longer considering her as his partner whom he should surround with care and affection. **
Finally, careful consideration should be given to the danger of this power passing into the hands of those public authorities who care little for the precepts of the moral law.** Who will blame a government which in its attempt to resolve the problems affecting an entire country resorts to the same measures as are regarded as lawful by married people in the solution of a particular family difficulty? Who will prevent public authorities from favoring those contraceptive methods which they consider more effective? Should they regard this as necessary, they may even impose their use on everyone**. [think China & they didn’t stop at ABC., they’ve included forced abortion in their laws [/COLOR]It could well happen, therefore, that when people, either individually or in family or social life, experience the inherent difficulties of the divine law and are determined to avoid them, they may give into the hands of public authorities the power to intervene in the most personal and intimate responsibility of husband and wife. [/SIGN]
vatican.va/holy_father/paul_vi/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae_en.html
It is so easy today to access the documents & explanations given for our teachings. Here’s a good site to begin with. It claims to be written for Catholic youth, but it’s great for any age:
youngcatholicadults.co.uk/catechesis.htm