Thank you. I do try to be polite.
I have noticed that about you, both here and in other threads and I sincerely appreciate it.

It is a lot easier to have a rational discussion when the brains involved are not swimming in angry adrenaline.
BTW, I just noticed we live in 2 different countries: you live in the very red red state of Texas. And I live in the palest powdery blue blue state of Seattle (the rest of Washington is actually a red state in case you care). I didn’t take note of our locations when I wrote my post, but now that I do it explains our different perceptions on this issue…
I did not say it was the basis for all anti-immigration or even most
in post # 281 you said:
I might agree with you, though, that ethnocentrism drives much of the anti-immigration movement.
So I see you are right about that. I guess I should have read more carefully because I jumped to the conclusion that I was reading more of what I hear so much in Seattle: that racism is the reason for everything (so why look for any other reasons).
I will keep to my opinion until I go a month without hearing the word “wetback.”
Again, if I didn’t live in Seattle I’d probably experience much more of that.
As further evidence that many are truly ethnocentristic and not just racist (there is a difference), I experience quite often people who complain about immigrant speaking Spanish in their presence. It is hard for me to believe that such an attitude has no bearing on these people’s opinion about immigrants, both legal and illegal.
My experience here has been different.
Even at church, I have had people come up to me and ask me a question in Spanish (i have darkish skin and often am mistaken for Latino), and when I didn’t understand (i speak Spanish but I’m not fluent) and they realize I’m anglo, they simply walked away without another word or even a look. Very rude. Likewise at work, people in the beginning would talk about me right in front of me like I wasn’t even there until they realized that I did understand at least some of what they were saying so fast in Spanish. And some of the Latinas I’ve gotten to know as work-friends have told me that we are going to have to learn Spanish because so many Latinos are coming to the US now. They were serious.
I want to be welcoming, but when people come here and act like they own the place, and some (see above pictures) have actually convinced themselves that they are entitled to the place whether they own it or not, I do not like it. Because it’s not quite right.
“Ethnocentrism” is defined in my dictionary as:
- Belief in the superiority of one’s own ethnic group.
- Overriding concern with race.
My expectation that Latinos that come here should make some effort to learn English and abide by American customs is not ethnocentrism. It’s not ethnocentric to find it rude to be excluded by a language barrier in your own country - something that happens frequently to my Anglo co-workers who know a lot less Spanish than I do. Ethnocentrism is the wrong word for that. It’s more along the lines of not laying down and being a doormat. StandingUpForOneselfinOnesOwnCountry-ism?