People don’t “willy nilly select homes very far away” because they necessarily want to. More often than not they select homes farther away from work because they get (a) more house for the money, (b) better schools, (c) lower taxes, (d) less crime, etc.
It’s expensive to live in the heart of places like NYC, LA, SF, Chicago, DC, Miami, Boston, Houston, Dallas, Atlanta, Philly, etc.
Sorry, but I know of plenty of cases. And yes there is the issue of “more house for the money” – which I tried to explain to my young niece was misleading. I tried to impress on her that if there’s a good house close to work that costs more or is a smaller (but you can still afford it and it’s a nice & adequate home), pick that one.
Instead they found a McMansion on the other side of a huge city and it takes both of them 2 hours to get to work in separate cars – a 5 BR+office, 4 ba spacious home in a new housing development…for two people. Now they are extremely stressed out with all the driving, and perhaps some of their health problems could be attributed to the pollution from all that driving (for privacy reasons I don’t want to get into it, but their problems have been linked to local auto pollution in the literature). Perhaps they could have found a 4 BR, 3 ba (or 3 BR, 2 ba) home not-as-spacious but less costly to heat/cool home close to work in an older neighborhood for the same price; it would have kept its value (in fact it may have gone up faster, since the area near their work was pretty much built, and their far distant house area is a bunch of farmland). Then later as they saved (incl less car expenses) they could have plowed that into some mansion close to work and lived happily ever after.
I’ve seen that pattern many times, and I feel heart-broken when people do that. Yes, it’s often “more home for the money,” but at what real cost? They probably just don’t think about life on planet earth or the impact they are having, even harming themselves and their family life; they just follow what others are doing and focus mainly on keeping up with the Joneses.
Over the past few decades if people had only invested in things that would reduce their harmful impact on the lives of people and others of God creatures (which would have saved them $$$ and lowered their living costs) – caulked their windows, insulated, water-heater-jacket, low-flow showerhead, efficient appliances/cars, reused, reduced the buying of junk, selecting whatever feasible from the 100s of eco-things to do – instead of speculating in real estate (buying McMansions they couldn’t quite afford on balloon mortgages – then having to heat and cool some 500-2000 extra sq.ft they have absolutely no use for AND fill it with furniture and do-dads) our economy would not have tanked so badly in 2008. Greed, avarice, pride, arrogance. Lack of concern for life on planet earth.
Then there’s another problem with new homes - the formaldehyde outgassing, which can cause a host of health problems. We’ve always made sure we buy a home at least 10 years old, after our experience in the mid-70s of building a new home and my husband’s health being adversely affected by it.