I understand the difference. You are missing the point. I am saying this typical heterosexual biological girl who likes dating boys was pushed by her mother to be a trans boy who was attracted to dating girls.
My point is …neither gender identity nor gender attraction can be determined in a child. They are pre-sexual before puberty. We do not need this damaging agenda of normalizing a wide spectrum of sexual identities and attractions. For the rare child who grows up to identity as other than their biological gender and heterosexual attraction, the matter can be addressed after puberty. Shoving this nonsense on every child, however, is like giving every child insulin because one or two in 100 may develop diabetes.