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My beloved mother-in-law has later-stage dementia, and it is very hard.Calling someone ‘dementia joe’ is extremely uncharitable and has absolutely no consideration or care for anyone with dementia or with loved ones with dementia.
Since when was it ok to belittle people with medical conditions or use that medical condition to belittle a person.
But neither I nor my husband (her son) have any objection to joking around about dementia.
Truly, at least for us, humor helps to lighten up a dark place, and a little humor helps us to remember all the good times we had with her before she was stricken, and even while she has been advancing in her condition. She has even joked about her condition–somewhere, my mother-in-law is still in there!
I had my knee replaced five weeks ago, and it’s wonderful! But for the last 20 years, I have limped around, and I often called myself, “Ol’ Gimpy!” And if my husband or anyone else called me that, I was fine with it–after all, it was true!
Remember all the joking around about Pres. Bush’s stumbles in language (“strategery”)? And the jokes about Pres. Ford’s clumsiness?
Just lighten up. We all stumble over our words and forget stuff, and hearing/seeing VP Biden do it just makes us all feel a little better about ourselves. If VP Biden is elected, he will (hopefully) prove that just because he stumbles over words when he has probably been on the campaign trail for many hours doesn’t mean that he has any mental deficiences (other than continuing to state that abortion is a part of " women’s reproductive care"–now that is demented).