shw: That is why I am glad that I am able to bid on a job, that gives me the time off to worship my God with my church family! Actually, I worship Him everyday, but Sunday, is the day that I meet in assembly with my brothers and sisters in Christ, to learn and grow in His Word:thumbsup:It is also the day, that we have our nursing home ministry, where we worship with those who are not able to make it to a church; so we bring church to them. It is pretty awesome to be able to fellowship, with all different types of people, from all different religious persuasions, just coming together to praise God!
You are doing your best for God as you understand it. God is pleased.
I understand most of the binding and loosing things, but the issue of divorce, and how some may use it too loosely for their own agenda, still confuses me at times! I know how much God hates divorce(not divorced people), but in Matthew 19:9, Jesus says,“I tell you this; that any man who divorces his wife,except marital unfaithfulness, commits adultery.” That part about unfaithfulness, does this mean that when my ex-wife, cheated on me, and had a child with her lover, that it was okay to divorce, on those grounds? I suggested counseling, and trying to let God restore the marriage, but she would not hear of it!
I am sorry that your wife was unfaithful and caused you pain. Unfortunately, there is a lot of that type of behavior these days.
Yes, you can divorce if your spouse commits adultery,
but you still are not free to remarry unless she dies. (Matthew 5:31-32, Matthew 19:8-10, Luke 16:18) You and your wife have a
covenant/vow to be
one flesh until
death parts you. (Matthew 19:6) God actually joined you together.
They were simply amazed at this hard teaching of “no remarriage after divorce” so they ask Jesus again about it just to be sure that they were not mistaken in their understanding:
Mark 10:2-12
Then He arose from there and came to the region of Judea by the other side of the Jordan. And multitudes gathered to Him again, and as He was accustomed, He taught them again. 2 The Pharisees came and asked Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” testing Him. 3 And He answered and said to them, “What did Moses command you?”
4 They said, “Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce, and to dismiss her.”
5 And Jesus answered and said to them, “Because of the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. 6 But from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female.’ 7 ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, 8 and the two shall become one flesh’; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”
10 In the house His disciples also asked Him again about the same matter. 11 So He said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. 12 And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”
The Church/Scriptures never allow remarriage after divorce unless one of the spouses dies. This is why "The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is not expedient to marry.” Matthew 19:9-10 They are saying that they think it would better to never marry at all than to not be able to remarry after divorce if their marriages did not work out. Jesus’ teaching about “no remarriage after divorce” was not what they wanted to hear.
What about my co-worker, who, BTW, is a catholic; married for 28 years, is now living with another woman, and has sired two children with her
He is still married to his first wife.
He is hell-bound and will end up there unless he confesses, repents, and makes a firm resolution to not do this sin again, before he dies.
I would bet that not all annulments (decrees stating that a legitimate marriage never took place) that are granted by the Catholic Church are pleasing to God either. This is my personal opinion. But, God honors them because He gave His Church the authority to bind and loose just as He gave Moses the authority to make rules about divorce for the Israelites.