Yesterday, during an interview with CNN’s
Dana Bash, Kasich was confused about why his comments last week were problematic:
There are about two dozen different reasons that Kasich’s “advice” is undiluted garbage, but perhaps the most obvious is this:
Telling women how to avoid rape, instead of telling men not to rape, is straight-up rape culture garbage.
Be careful, Kasich says. As if “carelessness” is why women get raped.
Here’s the thing about rapists:
They rape people. They rape people who are strong and people who are weak, people who are knowledgeable and people who are ignorant, people who fight back and people who submit just to get it over with, people who are virgins and people who are not, who rich and people who are poor, people who are tall and people who are short, people who are fat and people who are thin, people who are conscious and people who are incapacitated, people of every race and shape and size and ability and circumstance.
The only thing that the victim of every rapist shares in common is the bad luck of being in the presence of a rapist.
Rapists are determined to rape. And if this woman doesn’t go to a party “where there’s a lot of alcohol” and (more importantly) a rapist, another woman would. It doesn’t make that woman any more responsible for being raped. And if no women at all went to that party, that rapist would find another way to obtain his victims.
Victim-blaming is based on the damnably notion that people (and women in particular) allow themselves to be victimized by virtue of carelessness or stupidity, and we need to be warned and educated and lectured and hectored and cajoled and shamed into never being victims.
No.
Our culture creates rapists—and they create victims. No one has ever been a victim of rape, until they had the horrendous luck of being in the presence of a rapist.
Enough victim blaming. Enough.
That Kasich doesn’t agree we’ve had quite enough of this reprehensible rhetoric already is just another one of many reasons that no one should cast another vote for him ever again.