Lack of Questioning Leads to Atheism?

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There are many pathways that can lead to many belief positions. That someone questioned or didn’t question doesn’t tell what transition is any that she is making. The motivations, factors, and reasons for one’s position are something to be known from that person’s background. Broad statements and assumptions about how someone got to a position could lead to conclusions that are not true about some of the people to which the statements are applied.
 
I’ve heard that the ages of 18-20 are when most people give up the faith. Obviously the reason is not an in-depth search for truth, but rather wanting to fit in with the crowd. This is the age when young people are out on their own for the first time, with no parental guidance, so they often fly the coop and explore immorality. I know this was true in my case.
 
Second, this is an interesting point. Would it be a lack of trust? Or putting trust in something that is built on sand?
I don’t think there’s a “one size fits all” argument, but I think it’s fair to assert that Christians place their trust (and find it reasonable to do so) in certain sources of information, whereas atheists neither trust nor find it reasonable to trust in these sources.

So, there might be a whole range of reasons why some folks would say that they’re willing to trust in them, and a whole 'nother range why others would say they’re unwilling to do so, but in the end, if we want a sweeping generalization, ‘trust’ seems a good place to start…
 
It’s hard to group atheists together as either all having done or failed to do something. Just as there are different types of Christians (in the sense of how they arrived to their conclusions) so too are there different types of atheists.

***I know poor catechism has been blamed for some people becoming atheists, but I don’t really buy that. *** When someone says if a person doesn’t believe in X he or she must not have studied or understood X, it implies that not only is X true but is evident and comprehensible. Obviously we are going to greatly disagree on it, but from what I’ve studied it doesn’t seem true, evident, or comprehensible. Now I realize that I could be very wrong, as could anyone – and not just on religion but practically anything.

Though I do find that when a person’s non-belief is quickly attributed to lack of study or questioning it greatly undercuts the sometimes great effort such a person may have made, and it neglects the questions that person may have asked repeatedly but not gotten what they believe are answers that add up.
Perhaps poor catechism is not the sole cause but the total rejection of the faith by some many youth is often explained by ascribing traits or beliefs to the church that are absolutely false. Even though I’m still waiting for science to prove there’s no God–and frankly the more things go along the better the case for God (without endorsement of the particular Judaeo-Christian God) seems to be based on what I read–science seems to be another popular reason given…and it shouldn’t be.
 
Perhaps poor catechism is not the sole cause but the total rejection of the faith by some many youth is often explained by ascribing traits or beliefs to the church that are absolutely false.
So true! Many an atheist has said, “I don’t believe in a magical guy in the sky who grants wishes,” and my response to that is, “Neither do I.”

There is often a real misunderstanding of the whole concept of God, and what many atheists think we believe in is so far off the mark as to be funny, if it weren’t sad.
Even though I’m still waiting for science to prove there’s no God–and frankly the more things go along the better the case for God (without endorsement of the particular Judaeo-Christian God) seems to be based on what I read–science seems to be another popular reason given…and it shouldn’t be.
I would have no foundation to believe the claims of science, if I didn’t believe in God.
 
There is often a real misunderstanding of the whole concept of God, and what many atheists think we believe in is so far off the mark as to be funny, if it weren’t sad.
There are many groups that identify as Christian that also have differences on their concept of God (and of Jesus). The attributes that one might name about the God concept that they state is not their own might give some insight to the dominant Christian variation in the person’s life from either their community or their family.
 
There are many groups that identify as Christian that also have differences on their concept of God (and of Jesus). The attributes that one might name about the God concept that they state is not their own might give some insight to the dominant Christian variation in the person’s life from either their community or their family.
I don’t know of anybody who would identify as a Christian who doesn’t hold three fundamental beliefs:
  1. There is one true God;
  2. Christ is the son of the one true God;
  3. Christ died for our sins on the cross and rose again.
Anybody who identifies as a Christian and doesn’t believe those three things cannot possibly be credibly considered a Christian by anybody with a historical knowledge of Christianity.

That said, would you care to elaborate on variances in the concept of God and Jesus among Christians?
 
There are many groups that identify as Christian that also have differences on their concept of God (and of Jesus).
Good point.

But, in discussion with atheists, the answer that often comes back is “I don’t believe in X” (where X is one variant of belief). It’s not a terribly well-thought-out argument. After all, if I asked a vegetarian why they don’t eat meat, and they responded, “because I don’t like beef”, I’d be left scratching my head. After all, that just begs for the response, “ok, but what about chicken? pork? duck?”

An assertion for atheism means, loosely, “I don’t believe in any god”, not just “I don’t believe in your God.” (Granted, most believers don’t care why you don’t believe in the other things that they don’t believe in, either.) But, it makes the atheist seem intellectually lazy if they answer the question “why don’t you believe in my concept of God?”, when they’ve really been asked “why don’t you believe in any concept of God?”… 🤷
 
So true! Many an atheist has said, “I don’t believe in a magical guy in the sky who grants wishes,” and my response to that is, “Neither do I.”
In that case the next question is: “do you ever ask for something in the form of an intercessory or supplicatory prayer”? Mind you, I am not asking about “meditative prayer”, there is nothing problematic about that. I am questioning if you ever ask for some specific result - even if you add the almost mandatory “if it be thy will” to it. You can see many examples in the “Prayer Intentions” sub-forum.

Because if you do, then you believe in the “magical guy in the sky who grants wishes”, which is underscored the Bible as “ask and you will be answered” and “knock and the door will be opened”. It does not matter what do you ask for, a new, better paying job, a miraculous recovery for someone you love… or to get home when your fuel indicator is too low.

All these people believe in the “magical guy above the clouds”.
There is often a real misunderstanding of the whole concept of God, and what many atheists think we believe in is so far off the mark as to be funny, if it weren’t sad.
Since there is no universally accepted concept of God, it is hardly the fault of skeptics that they seem to be “confused”. As a matter of fact, there are at least two very different and mutually contradictory “Christian Gods”… one is the “God of the Bible” and the other one is the “God of the philosophers”. They have nothing to do with each other. 🙂

And, of course, you can just read the posts in this small thread, and you will find examples of “you don’t really want answers”, “you just want to dictate and insult”, which are the most insulting types of utterances.
 
In that case the next question is: “do you ever ask for something in the form of an intercessory or supplicatory prayer”? Mind you, I am not asking about “meditative prayer”, there is nothing problematic about that. I am questioning if you ever ask for some specific result - even if you add the almost mandatory “if it be thy will” to it. You can see many examples in the “Prayer Intentions” sub-forum.

Because if you do, then you believe in the “magical guy in the sky who grants wishes”, which is underscored the Bible as “ask and you will be answered” and “knock and the door will be opened”. It does not matter what do you ask for, a new, better paying job, a miraculous recovery for someone you love… or to get home when your fuel indicator is too low.

All these people believe in the “magical guy above the clouds”.

Since there is no universally accepted concept of God, it is hardly the fault of skeptics that they seem to be “confused”. As a matter of fact, there are at least two very different and mutually contradictory “Christian Gods”… one is the “God of the Bible” and the other one is the “God of the philosophers”. They have nothing to do with each other. 🙂

And, of course, you can just read the posts in this small thread, and you will find examples of “you don’t really want answers”, “you just want to dictate and insult”, which are the most insulting types of utterances.
I do ask God for favours - but I don’t think He lives in the sky (Heaven is a state of being; not a location), and I don’t think He’s a person like me except with superpowers, or a magical being that grants wishes, or not, according to some kind of whim.

God is the Creator, and God has given us the rules by which we can become happy, but that doesn’t mean that He will grant every wish we have, nor even that He can do so. Some things are impossible for God because of His nature, and some things are impossible because of our nature - thus, not every wish can be granted.
 
But, in discussion with atheists, the answer that often comes back is “I don’t believe in X” (where X is one variant of belief). It’s not a terribly well-thought-out argument. After all, if I asked a vegetarian why they don’t eat meat, and they responded, “because I don’t like beef”, I’d be left scratching my head. After all, that just begs for the response, “ok, but what about chicken? pork? duck?”
I cannot answer for the vegetarians, since I am not one of them. But I can answer the question: “why don’t you believe in god, or gods, or God?” where the capitalized “God” refers to the god of Christianity (which is a special subset of all the “gods”).

My first problem is that the word “god” is usually undefined or underdefined. What does the word “god” refer to; what is its referent? It is my understanding that “god” is a “being”, or an “entity” which is metaphysically “supernatural”, and epistemologically “transcendent”. Supernatural is something that is beyond the physical reality; while transcendent is something that is beyond comprehension, which is “unknowable”. Since the word “universe” describes “everything that exists”, the existence beyond the universe is a logically nonsensical proposition. Existence, causation are only defined within the universe - so any of the so-called “proofs” of God (Aquinas et al.) are nonsensical.

Now I can lend you a hand, if you so desire. You are most welcome to say that the universe consists of “two” parts: the physical universe and the “non-physical” one. You are welcome to argue that the “non-physical” is primary, and it created the secondary… the physical part. Go ahead. Give us some evidence that there is an active (physically active!) but otherwise non-physical realm of existence - and we can go on from that.

Epistemological “transcendence” is simply an admission that we cannot say anything about “god”, not even that it exists. So, to wrap it up, the whole “god”-thingy is incoherent, there is nothing to discuss. Now, this all refers to the “God of the philosophers”, which is a totally different concept from the “God of the Bible”. As for the “God of the Bible”, there is absolutely no proof, not even evidence that it exists. As such I cannot entertain the idea that there is a “god” or “gods” or “God”.
 
Now I can lend you a hand, if you so desire. You are most welcome to say that the universe consists of “two” parts: the physical universe and the “non-physical” one. You are welcome to argue that the “non-physical” is primary, and it created the secondary… the physical part. Go ahead. Give us some evidence that there is an active (physically active!) but otherwise non-physical realm of existence - and we can go on from that.
Do you believe that there is such a thing as love? I’m not talking about the hormonal reaction or physical response to romantic feelings, but rather, the idea that someone can choose to do something that is good for the other person merely because it is good for the other person, without any expectation of personal gain.

Love, so understood, doesn’t exist in the physical realm, and nor does it have any scientific or logical advantage. So, if it exists, then perhaps there are other things that exist at the non-physical level, that affect people in real time.

(For example, a mother who changes her child’s diaper in order to make the child more comfortable - not because the child’s discomfort is inconvenient to the mother, but simply because the mother wants the child to feel comfortable - that is, because she loves her child.)
 
I know one person who gave up his faith because a 16 year old Sunday School teacher couldn’t explain the Trinity to him. Instead of asking someone more knowledgeable, he just decided that Christianity makes no sense. 🤷
I remember asking our young curate about it when I was a young lad. He implied that he didn’t really understand it himself. But either he worked it out at some point or it didn’t do him any harm not knowing – he went on to became the Bishop of San Diego.
So true! Many an atheist has said, “I don’t believe in a magical guy in the sky who grants wishes,” and my response to that is, “Neither do I.”
Then let’s say ‘a supernatural being who grants wishes’. I fail to see the difference. Nobody really thinks God is a Morgan Freeman look-alike sitting in a cloud, but most people believe he will look kindly on any prayers. Why else are there 15 (and counting) people who have taken some of their valuable time to post in this forum and pray for a dog who belongs to a friend of someone they don’t know.

I’m not sure how I could explain how I feel about that without being immediately banned. At what point does one start to think – hey, are you really bothering the Creator Of Everything with that? If I asked people to pray that the traffic is not so bad on the way home tonight, would that be OK? I remember years ago getting apoplectic at one guy (in another forum) who asked us all to pray so that he could find a lost CD. Which he actually did – and then gave thanks for it. Well, let’s face it, God could handle a massacre in Rwanda (but didn’t) yet find a CD behind the sofa. Really?
An assertion for atheism means, loosely, “I don’t believe in any god”, not just “I don’t believe in your God.” (Granted, most believers don’t care why you don’t believe in the other things that they don’t believe in, either.) But, it makes the atheist seem intellectually lazy if they answer the question “why don’t you believe in my concept of God?”, when they’ve really been asked “why don’t you believe in any concept of God?”… 🤷
The increasing lack of a belief in the Christian God (for any number of reasons) generally leads to further questions about the existence of the supernatural in general. And then a realisation that one needs to include a whole pantheon of gods in the box marked ‘I don’t believe’. Including the ones that cure distemper and find computer discs.
 
Do you believe that there is such a thing as love?
So that gives you an insight into an ephemeral existence beyond the physical world?

Hey, I’m hungry. That’s like love - not physical. Gee, there must be something transcendental beyond our understanding. I need to look into this before I have lunch and the feeling wears off.
 
But, in discussion with atheists, the answer that often comes back is “I don’t believe in X” (where X is one variant of belief). It’s not a terribly well-thought-out argument.
It sounds like you may be describing something like the following.

P1: Did you pray about Josh?
P2: No, I don’t believe in God.
P1: Why not?
P2: I don’t think intercessory prayer makes a difference.

There are significant portions of communication that are contextual. Back to this in a second.

That last line itself is not an argument against the possibility of the existence of a God. I think it’s more telling of the descriptions that the person’s present or prior communities may have made about God. In some communities there’s an emphasis on God taking an intercessory role (ex: let’s take prosperity gospel). Some churches (remember that not everyone is coming from a Catholic background) say that you can change undesirable circumstances by praying to God and asking him to change them.

A person that is part of such a community in which this was a much promoted attribute of God (as one that will intervene to those that are faithful, obedient, and ask) this response might give another person some insight on why the other person isn’t convinced of the God-concept of this community To a person from outside this community a thought about the last line might be “Well that’s not what pray is about, and it doesn’t tell me why you are not convinced of God.” The God-concept that each person believes the other person is invoking is part of the context of the conversation. If they are not using a shared context then there’s plenty of room for misunderstanding and miscommunication.
After all, if I asked a vegetarian why they don’t eat meat, and they responded, “because I don’t like beef”, I’d be left scratching my head. After all, that just begs for the response, “ok, but what about chicken? pork? duck?”
I’ve got a coworker that when asked about his dietary restrictions will answer that he is a vegetarian to most people. To some people he will say he is a Lacto-Ovo vegetarian. He’s a pescatarian (they avoid poultry and red meat). But he rarely uses that label when people ask about his diet because often times they don’t know what it means. He uses Vegetarian as an approximate description that people understand. While not a perfect understanding of his actual position no one would ever take him to a restaurant that has food he can’t eat from the description. I’m sure if he took the time he could explain his diet to someone. But many people gravitate to brevity in communication with the trade off of fidelity. A person in a community where beef is the strongly preferred meat might be sufficiently expressing themselves to others in their community by stopping at “I don’t like beef.”

A non-religious person might give different replies to different people on why they are not convinced there is a God based on the background of the person being spoken to. Or the person may give the same answer to everyone assuming that they have enough shared experiences for their reply to have it;s intended meaning. In either case the answer given is likely to be a summary and not a full expression of their pathway through life that lead to them having their current position.
An assertion for atheism means, loosely, “I don’t believe in any god”, not just “I don’t believe in your God.” (Granted, most believers don’t care why you don’t believe in the other things that they don’t believe in, either.) But, it makes the atheist seem intellectually lazy if they answer the question “why don’t you believe in my concept of God?”, when they’ve really been asked “why don’t you believe in any concept of God?”… 🤷
Discussions in conversations tend to be more on summaries than on details. If a person were asked why he/she is not convinced of the existence of God if the person did have such a belief before then I would expect her to focus on why she went through that transition. If the person never was a part of any religion then she might talk about why she wasn’t convinced by the major religious groups of her environment. As you mentioned the there may be God-concepts about which the audience is thought not to care leaving little to no motivation to bring them up. A person that grew up in a city that was primarily Christian might not talk about why she also was not convinced by what she has read about Buddhism or Islam. A person that grew up in a Southern Baptist reason might not talk about why she also was not convinced by what she has learned about Catholicism. You’ll end up with another answer that is a summary and brief and leaves out details.

I don’t think it’s necessarily lazy; that assessment might require more discussion with the person to see what the limitations are on what the person has considered and how the person thinks. If both people are not going to converse long enough or in multiple conversation sessions then a full answer might not be communicated.
 
So that gives you an insight into an ephemeral existence beyond the physical world?
It raises the possibility that our responses to the events around us could be more than just instinctive or self-serving - that our use of intellect isn’t simply an illusion based on blind physical responses.
Hey, I’m hungry. That’s like love - not physical. Gee, there must be something transcendental beyond our understanding. I need to look into this before I have lunch and the feeling wears off.
Hunger is definitely a physical instinctive response. I’m not sure how it relates to what I was saying.
 
I’ve heard that the ages of 18-20 are when most people give up the faith. Obviously the reason is not an in-depth search for truth, but rather wanting to fit in with the crowd. This is the age when young people are out on their own for the first time, with no parental guidance, so they often fly the coop and explore immorality. I know this was true in my case.
I’m actually the opposite: I encountered the Catholic faith when I was eighteen/nineteen, and became converted. I was reading this Englishman named Chesterton, and took a philosophy class, and read about this man named Thomas Aquinas. My religious apathy was no match for such a deep perspective 😉

Christi pax.
 
I’m actually the opposite: I encountered the Catholic faith when I was eighteen/nineteen, and became converted. I was reading this Englishman named Chesterton, and took a philosophy class, and read about this man named Thomas Aquinas. My religious apathy was no match for such a deep perspective 😉

Christi pax.
Well you are different! Good for you!🙂
 
It raises the possibility that our responses to the events around us could be more than just instinctive or self-serving - that our use of intellect isn’t simply an illusion based on blind physical responses.

Hunger is definitely a physical instinctive response. I’m not sure how it relates to what I was saying.
That’s because it doesn’t. It’s a physical sensation.
 
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