I believe we are here to learn. Being stubborn and unwilling to try again maybe the lesson that needs to be learned. That we are supposed to be willing to learn.
I believe we were just given more opportunities to continue learning and get it right. As many as it takes.
OK… I think I’m
starting to see what you’re saying…
But, if learning is not something we can choose – that is, if it’s involuntary, like breathing – then how do we explain its value? I mean, I am breathing… but I’m not actually
doing it, as something that I will to do. It just
happens. So, the experience of it is vastly different than the experience of something that I actually
do engage my will to do, right?
And then, if it
is involuntary, then how do I explain the fact that, in seemingly identical situations, individuals learn differently? If I breathe, then I breathe in oxygen. You do, too. But, how can I wrap my head around an ‘involuntary learning process’ that works fundamentally differently for every individual?
My problem with the concept of sin, is that the church teaches it is an offense against God. I don’t believe that.
Does evil action harm the community? In other words, aren’t negative actions replete with negative consequences that affect more than the actor? If so… isn’t repentance due to those who have been harmed?
The concept of sin is that you either have to apologize to some great God, or suffer consequences for it. I don’t believe either of those things.
OK, but still, you claim that we learn. That we actually gain something from the experience. Doesn’t the girl in your example learn from stealing by expressing her remorse to her mom?
I believe learning is like breathing. You wouldn’t say it is an objective truth that not breathing is wrong, as in sinful.
We don’t really have a choice in the matter.
No, I wouldn’t say “not breathing is wrong”, although I’d agree that it’s contrary to our human nature. And if we’re saying that learning is just like that… aren’t we saying that we don’t will it happen? That we don’t share in the benefits of it, from the perspective of being a rational human being?
For example, someone stealing to feed a starving child because they have no other choice isn’t doing anything wrong. It is regrettable, but not wrong.
The Catholic Church agrees with you here: the circumstances of the act determine the extent to which the act is sinful. So, although it’s regrettable that a parent steal a loaf of bread in order to keep his family from starving, there is no mortal sin in it.
It may have negative consequences, but the action itself isn’t necessarily wrong.
I think I would say that it’s wrong, but understandable. That doesn’t mean that the act is good, just that it has negligible consequences.