Tis_Bearself:
The Eucharist is a grace that I think of as “through” Mary because she bore Christ.
The graces I was mentioning are the ones I specifically ask Mary to give me. I pray to Our Lady of Grace frequently. My mother had a plastic statue of her that was about the first Mary I remember at all. I have it myself now.
I ask Our Lady to distribute me the graces I need and I feel confident she gives them to me.
All this other stuff just seems to me to be a lot of overthinking. I’m a pretty simple bear though and I love Mary whatever anybody says. She’s my adopted mom.
Yes, you can think of it that way; that is one of the meanings attached to the title “Mediatrix.”
For as long as this theology is understood (as Vatican II states it) in terms of her intercessory and cooperative role, there are no issues. Other imagery such as “distribute” even if ensconced in a papal encyclical do not conjure up accurate images, at least for me. Where you say “distribute” I would rather use the more precise term “obtain.”
As for overthinking, I would rather understand the best I can. One can love only as far as one knows. So I seek to know and understand more so that I can love more.