Xavier:
I was going to let this post pass without comment untill i read the last sentence.
Joseph Mary and Jesus were Jews. In their culture it was considered good to have many children. Virginity was not honored in marraige only before it.
To assume Mary made a perpetual vow and then would bethrowed to joseph makes no sense.
A prophet is not without honor except in his own home.
This is true today, in Jesus’ time and before Jesus. No matter what was done people would talk about Him.
I was talking about the immorality in the wordly culture you were talking about the morality in the culture in Nazereth.
Lk 1:
28 And the angel came in unto her, and said, Hail, thou that art highly favoured, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women.
29 And when she saw him, she was troubled at his saying, and cast in her mind what manner of salutation this should be.
30 And the angel said unto her, Fear not, Mary: for thou hast found favour with God.
31 And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name JESUS.
32 He shall be great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest: and the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of his father David:
33 And he shall reign over the house of Jacob for ever; and of his kingdom there shall be no end.
Now the angel hasn’t yet told her that the child will be conceived by the Holy Spirit. Logically Mary would have thought that since she and Joseph were “betrothed”, after they came together she would conceive and bear a son as the angel had said. As a previous poster said the logical thing for her to say is “So we’re going to have a boy”.
If she were planning on having a normal sexual life with her husband there would have been no question as to how this would occur. The only possible explanation for the following question she asks if she had no intention of having sex with Joseph, if she had been under a vow of celibacy or virginity. And yes this did occur, that’s what the references to Numbers are about. If she were under such a vow she would naturally ask:
34 Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?
This question of hers makes no sense if she planned to eventually have sex with Joseph. It only makes sense if she did not plan on having sex with anyone.
35 And the angel answered and said unto her, The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee: therefore also that holy thing which shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God.
36 And, behold, thy cousin Elisabeth, she hath also conceived a son in her old age: and this is the sixth month with her, who was called barren.
37 For with God nothing shall be impossible.
38 And Mary said, Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word. And the angel departed from her.
May the peace and love of our Lord, Jesus the Christ, be with you.