Yes, you are wrong. Post #58 starts to address why.
Post #58 only confirms my point, Stephen. No Catholic HAS to take communion, and no Catholic HAS to go to confession, right? However, if a Catholic wants heaven and loves Christ, he will do what he believes Christ wants him to do. that means the confessional and communion; repentance and the recieving of grace. No Catholic HAS to do this, of course, but if he or she prefers to remain sinful and unrepentant, heaven is generally not considered to be the ultimate destination.
The statement from Christ, His words, are “If ye love me, keep my commandments.” John 14:15 (KJV) The Douay-Rheims modernizes 'ye" to ‘you,’ but changes nothing else. Young’s Literal Translation puts it “If ye love me, my commands keep.”
A little later in the same chapter, He says “He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.” (v.21)
…and who 'makes it" to heaven, do you think? You can’t expect that those who hate Him would be welcome there–nor would they feel that comfortable in the presence of their enemy. So those who refuse to keep His commandments out of hate, dislike or disdain aren’t going there. We know, also, God’s opinion is of those who are indifferent…who don’t obey because they hate, but simply because they have better things to do, or will ‘get to it later,’ or…??? Well, Revelation 3:15 covers that one. “So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.”
That’s pretty strong language, aimed at someone who says he believes, but who (for instance) will, given the choice between the Superbowl and Mass, watch the Superbowl–or someone who figures that he doesn’t have the time today to wait for a turn in the confessional…but will ‘make up for it’ next week–or who, having been given a penance to perform, stops half way through because of boredom or an interuption, promising that he will get 'right back to it…" and never does. This isn’t so bad, is it? You don’t, after all, HAVE to.
Well, true. You don’t have to. YOu don’t have to go to heaven, either. When you begin college, you don’t HAVE to take the core classes and then specialty classes…but if you want that diploma, you WILL.
You don’t HAVE to tithe (be charitable to the church and your fellow man) go to confession, take communion or obey God’s commandments as you believe them to be…but if you want what He has promised you, you WILL–because you love Christ, and that’s what you believe He wants. You want to do these things.
And Mormons do not HAVE to pay tithing, obey the Word of Wisdom and go to the Temple, but if we want what we believe God has promised us, we WILL do these things, because we love Christ, and that’s what we believe He wants. We want to do these things.
For both Catholic and Mormon the concept of free will is rather important. Neither belief system buys into the ‘puppet master’ theory of human behavior; there is no ‘have to’ the way you want to claim, for either of us–and we both have the same understanding of act/consequences, motive/results. If we love Christ, we keep His commandments. Not because we HAVE to, but because we WANT to.
Your dislike of what WE believe God asks of us doesn’t change things. You don’t HAVE to, and we don’t HAVE to. No constraints. No grand Puppeteer pulling strings. But if we love God, and we want the blessings He has promised us, then we will do as He asks.