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Continued,
Mary said to the angel “How could she have a grown up son when no man had touched her?” And also that “She was not any of the bad type ladies”. That was the time she was still in the temple, and probably years before she left the temple.
The angel replied that it would be like that (The way angel had said before). Angel said “Like that (it will be)” meaning that she will surely have the son. That it was easy for God and that God will make him a sign for the men and (an object) of mercy from God (for men) and that the matter was fully decided by God. It was a matter ordained. ( V. 19:21)
Some time later Mary was handed over to Jospeh the Carpentar as a wife and he took her away to his home. he was the husband of Mary. Then the bible says that Jospeh was informed Mary was pregnant with the holy ghost and that he should not discard her…
Then the birth of Jesus is described in Quran, in some far away land , perhaps during travel, in difficult circumstances. (19:23). She suffered much pain at the birth of Jesus. But she was helped and strengthened by the angels of God at the time of birth and afterwards.
Mary (Maryam) was told to live happily, eat and enjoy and be happy and not to discuss anything with any person. That meant she should not deliver any religious sermon or discuss anything serious with any man. She could talk but not make any speech. (19:27)
Many years passed. Jesus became more than 25 years of age. During that time, according to bible, Jesus had lived for about 12 years in Egypt because there was a danger to his life from the King Herod. God had informed Joseph ( care of an angel in a dream) to take Jesus into Egypt.
Jesus became of age and started his ministry. He went into Jerusalem riding ( a donkey) in company with his mother (19:27). When Jesus started his preaching the Jewish clergy was very much upset and they were trapped and had no way to escape because of their fraudulent practicies. They were highly upset. In such a condition, the senior leaders of the Jews came to Mary to take some help from her against their difficult position in which they were trapped by the teachings of Jesus.
In such a situation, the senior Jews spoke to Mary " O Mary, you have indeed brought a very strange thing (Jesus) to us. (19:27) " O sister of Aaron, Your father was not a bad man and your mother was also not a spoiled woman." (19:28)
Please remember here the mother of Mary who had wished to give up her child in the service of God ( verse 3:35). She was hoping that a son will be born and he will perform good service in the way of God. But it so happened that a daughter was born and she named her Mary. So it proved that the mother of Mary was also a very high class pious person who loved God so much that she offered her offspring in the way of God. God was pleased with her and God produced Jesus out of Mary. So the wish of the mothe rof mary was thus fulfilled.
When the bad behaving senior members of the Jews were in great difficulty due to the preachings of Jesus, they approached Mary the mother to help them. They addressed her in a good and respectable way and said "O sister of Aaron… " In other words they praised her as an important person, a sister of Aaron, a servant of the temple. They said, O Mary, sister of Aaron, you were such a good lady. Your father and mother were also very pious Jews. But look at your son (Jesus). What has caused this problem for all of us. We are in so much trouble due to his preaching…
This has nothing to do with any Aaron being there at the time who was the real brother of Mary. No such thing. Also a great truth on the part of the Quran that it described her very well and pointed her (attached her name) to a very great important person Aaron, a prophet of God.
At that time, Mary did not reply to them or discussed anything with them. She simply referred the seniors to Jesus. That was in accordance with the earlier advice (order) given to Mary after the birth of Jesus not to indulge in any serious talks. (V. 19:26)
They said “How could they discuss things with some one who had been a child in the cradle !!” V. 19:29.**