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John 3:5 refers specifically to water baptism. Read what early Christians say about John 3:5 -
Justin Martyr
As many as are persuaded and believe that what we [Christians] teach and say is true, and undertake to be able to live accordingly, and instructed to pray and to entreat God with fasting, for the remission of their sins that are past, we pray and fast with them. Then they are brought by us where there is water and are regenerated in the same manner in which we were ourselves regenerated.
For, in the name of God the Father . . . and of our Savior Jesus Christ and of the Holy Spirit [Matt. 28:19], they then receive the washing with water. For Christ also said, "Unless you are born again, you shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven" (*First Apology *61 [A.D. **151]).
Irenaeus
“And [Naaman] dipped himself . . . seven times in the Jordan” [2 Kgs. 5:14]. It was not for nothing that Naaman of old, when suffering from leprosy,
was purified upon his being baptized, but [this served] as an indication to us. For as we are lepers in sin, we are made clean, by means of the sacred water and the invocation of the Lord, from our old transgressions, being spiritually regenerated as newborn babes,
even as the Lord has declared: “Except a man be born again through water and the Spirit, he shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven” (
Fragment 34 [A.D. **190]).
Tertullian
No one can attain salvation without baptism, especially in view of the declaration of the Lord, who says, “Unless a man shall be born of water, he shall not have life” (
Baptism 12:1 [A.D. 203]).
Hippolytus
The Father of immortality sent the immortal Son and Word into the world, who came to man in order
to wash him with water and the Spirit; and he, begetting us again to incorruption of soul and body, breathed into us the Spirit of life, and endued us with an incorruptible panoply. If, therefore, man has become immortal, he will also be God. And if
he is made God by water and the Holy Spirit after the regeneration of the laver he is found to be also joint-heir with Christ after the resurrection from the dead (*Discourse on the Holy Theophany *8 [A.D. **217]).
The Recognitions of Clement
But you will perhaps say,
“What does the baptism of water contribute toward the worship of God?” In the first place, because that which has pleased God is fulfilled. In the second place,** because when you are regenerated and born again of water and of God**, the frailty of your former birth, which you have through men, is cut off, and so . . . you shall be able to attain salvation; but otherwise it is impossible. For thus has the true prophet [Jesus] testified to us with an oath: “Verily, I say to you, that unless a man is born again of water . . . he shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven” (*The Recognitions of Clement *6:9 [A.D. 221]).
Cyprian
[When] they receive also
the baptism of the Church . . . then finally can they be fully sanctified and be the sons of God . . . since it is written, **“Except a man be born again of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God” **(*Letters *71[72]:1 [A.D. 253]).
Much more here:
catholic.com/thisrock/2002/0210frs.asp
Now, show me some early Christian quotes which say that John 3:5 refers to your Protestant understanding of “born again”.
(Hint: You can’t)
