We as a church have a violent history. We’ve killed, raped and tortured children, women and men in the name of our God. We can’t spin that truth away. We need to own it, accept that and try to move forward. The sex abuse, the torture of Catholic children at the hands of our leaders, is something that still requires/demands our humility and our attention. Too many Catholic sitting in pews today were complicit in this atrocity because they did not speak up, they did not investigate when they were suspicious and they did not reach out to the victims. We tend to only blame the church leadership, but we all know the blame is far more reaching than that.
As to your comment about everyone’s abusing their kids at the same rate… well you know, that is absolutely no excuse. We condemn the assault and killing of innocents during the Crusades, during the Inquisition, with abortions, with executions, with euthanasia, with war and now with Islamic extremists because every life is a sacred gift from God. People tend to dismiss these things for whatever reason. I guess trying to minimize them let’s us sleep at night. But every death should haunt us. To say that the death and abuse tolls of our Church’s past and present are any less significant than what’s going on with ISIS is a sad commentary indeed.
I heard the argument that the Catholic faith, it’s teaching and it’s ability to guide the lives of its members, is ineffective. There is nothing in its moral teachings that would offer a protective shield against sex abuse when compared to the general population of non-religious people or the religious people of other faiths. I’ve also heard the argument that Catholic education 30-40-50-60 years ago was so bad that it could not effectively alter the moral compasses of its members any more effectively than those who did not have faith training or those attending other churches or faiths. That Catholic RE today is supposedly structured in such as way that it is more effective in preventing abuse. I’m not a sociologist and I can not speak to the assertions that abuse is common everywhere and that Catholic moral teachings are no more effective than no teaching at all. As a RE teacher, I just take great pains to ensure those in my faith care grow safely and securely in both body and soul.