OF Supporters Please Stand Up!

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Well its clear, I’m a horrible horrible person. I think I’m better then all of you, and I’m a monster with an abusive personality for throwing some mud at Ethelz. I also fail to capitalize “Mass”, how irreverent of me! I also use the word “c-r-a-p” on occasion, when I’m upset, sorry, I’m told I should be thinking of Protestant fundamentalists.

Anything else that needs to be pointed out?

After all, I hope to become a priest, therefore I should be open and accepting of such criticisms.

Where else do I have a sliver in my eye?

Come on now, don’t hold back your stones… I won’t defend myself anymore, that would be unChristian of me.
 
Well its clear, I’m a horrible horrible person. I think I’m better then all of you, and I’m a monster for throwing some mud at Ethelz. I also fail to capitalize “Mass”, how irreverent of me!

Anything else that needs to be pointed out?

After all, I hope to become a priest, therefore I should be open and accepting of such criticisms.

Where else do I have a sliver in my eye?
** Since you asked … I’m not certain these are “slivers” but:

You do not seem willing to accept criticism.
You seem very willing to justify your behavior in every case.

Now, only guessing - but your use of sarcasm leads me there.
You seem to have a clear problem with anger management.**

also re this from you:
“I won’t defend myself anymore, that would be unChristian of me.”

Good. That’s progress.
 
** Since you asked … I’m not certain these are “slivers” but:

You do not seem willing to accept criticism.
You seem very willing to justify your behavior in every case.

Now, only guessing - but your use of sarcasm leads me there.
You seem to have a clear problem with anger management.**
Ah okay, so I should also check into anger management class and refrain from sarcasm. I should no longer justify myself, just lay down?

And I don’t accept criticism, after all, being told I’m spiritually prideful over an internet forum is just some light criticism.

So, what else?
 
i’ve exchanged some jest with Ethelz and now i’m an extremist?

I only mention organic development because that is the only issue which could be considered for a suppoused extremism.

Attacking anyone anytime? My goodness people!! I’ve exchanged jest with Ethelz so now I’m some kind of aggressive monster?

Now this is getting really silly. Extremism refers to one’s position, not posting style. Even if you are looking at my posting style, it is unfounded.
You are right, this is silly. Let’s back up here.

Let’s go back to the source of the misunderstanding, post #21:
Nope, they’ve been done for several weeks. I’ve turned my back on forums in general, in order to study and focus on my vocation.

If I am to be used in the service of Holy Mother Church, I must train and study in order to become the best servant I can be. I cannot do so while wasting my time here.

You’ll be seeing less of me, which is great, because I’ll be seeing less of you. 👍

In any case, rest peacefully knowing that it is men like me who will be filling up the seminaries 👍
In choosing to say “wasting my time here” and "…is great, because I’ll be seing less of you 👍 " we thought you were implying “I am better than you and will be pleased to be rid of you.”

In choosing to say “rest peacefully knowing that it is men like me who will be filling up the seminaries 👍” we thought you were implying “After all, I am real priest material, so the idea that your future priests will be like me must of course be a comfort to you.”

You say you meant no such thing. I believe you. Many of us probably could find a more profitable way to spend our time than posting here. Many of us are very pleased that men who are both zealous and traditional are answering the call to the priesthood. I also don’t find it a stretch to believe that you would be someone we will be very pleased to see in the priesthood some day.

I am sorry I so rashly drew such uncharitable conclusions. I hope you will be able to see how a person could make such a mistake, although I will not ask you to excuse the mistake for that reason. I only ask you to forgive it. I can tell by your stung replies that you feel very hurt by our criticisms. I will re-iterate that none of us meant to hurt or insult you any more than you originally meant to insult or hurt any of us. I am very sorry to have hurt you, and to have disturbed your peace.

Now you’ll understand the saying, “Parish life would be great, if it weren’t for the parishioners.” You have already experienced some of the cross that will be yours in the priesthood, then! It is incidents like this that make absolute reliance on the Holy Spirit a necessity for priests. You have heard that; now you have proof of it!! 😃

You might be my pastor some day, you know. Better we make up sooner, rather than later, don’t you think? 😉

Pax?
 
Ah okay, so I should also check into anger management class and refrain from sarcasm. I should no longer justify myself, just lay down? And I don’t accept criticism, after all, being told I’m spiritually prideful over an internet forum is just some light criticism. So, what else?
Please calm down. In fact, please take this discussion elsewhere. This is not the topic of this thread.
 
Ah okay, so I should also check into anger management class and refrain from sarcasm. I should no longer justify myself, just lay down?

And I don’t accept criticism, after all, being told I’m spiritually prideful over an internet forum is just some light criticism.

So, what else?
Again, sarcasm. Go ahead and find some real-life foes for your argumentation.

I’ve said nothing re organic development.
I’ve said nothing re spiritually prideful.

You seem to have a need to engage in argumentation.
Join a debate club. Join a book club.
Don’t attempt to put words in my mouth because you are angry.

I’ll pray for your peace.
 
In choosing to say “wasting my time here” and "…is great, because I’ll be seing less of you 👍 " we thought you were implying “I am better than you and will be pleased to be rid of you.”
Ok, I can see why you would think that. What your missing is that Ethelz and I have a history. He’s told us young traditionalists to start living our faith, and put down the books - whatever that means. So in this post I decided to make the point that I plan on doing much with my life, and it will be for the betterment of traditional Catholicism, if I decide I should not be a diocesan priest, something which would surely upset him given his harsh tone to traditionalists.
In choosing to say “rest peacefully knowing that it is men like me who will be filling up the seminaries 👍” we thought you were implying “After all, I am real priest material, so the idea that your future priests will be like me must of course be a comfort to you.”
Again I can see why that is, but that’s hardly the case with myself. No one deserves to be a priest, it’s actually somewhat of a burden but also a great blessing at the same time. By becoming a priest, one opens themselves up to all sorts of temptations and pitfalls because of the position that a priest has. It is a very serious position, and I hope I have the grace to always treat it as such. I certainly did not in treat my vocation with the respect it deserves in the previous post, but instead allowed a post to get the better of myself, which is no excuse.
You say you meant no such thing. I believe you. Many of us probably could find a more profitable way to spend our time than posting here. Many of us are very pleased that men who are both zealous and traditional are answering the call to the priesthood. I also don’t find it a stretch to believe that you would be someone we will be very pleased to see in the priesthood some day.
Thank you :).
I am sorry I so rashly drew such uncharitable conclusions. I hope you will be able to see how a person could make such a mistake, although I will not ask you to excuse the mistake for that reason. I only ask you to forgive it. I can tell by your stung replies that you feel very hurt by our criticisms. I will re-iterate that none of us meant to hurt or insult you any more than you originally meant to insult or hurt any of us. I am very sorry to have hurt you, and to have disturbed your peace.
Water under the bridge :).
Now you’ll understand the saying, “Parish life would be great, if it weren’t for the parishioners.” You have already experienced some of the cross that will be yours in the priesthood, then! It is incidents like this that make absolute reliance on the Holy Spirit a necessity for priests. You have heard that; now you have proof of it!! 😃
Indeed! I was thinking this near the end, actually. For most of my discernment I have thought that I was being called to traditionalist orders, such as the FSSP and ICRSS. With the introduction of the MP, I now wonder if I should join a diocese instead, where I can hope to perform both a very reverent NO while introducing the EF to my area. It is both the reverent EF/NO that has brought me to my faith, and I feel other young men could be inspired just like I was, that is, by means of liturgy.
You might be my pastor some day, you know. Better we make up sooner, rather than later, don’t you think? 😉
Pax, frater. 🙂
 
SJP, I’m currently reading a book called Mere Catholicism by Ian Ker. (Emmaus Road)

I’ve just finished the chapter on Infallibility. According to Dr. Ker, yes, popes and bishops can make incorrect decisions, but NOT when it comes to faith and morals. They are guaranteed infallibility by the Holy Spirit when it comes to transmitting the Deposit of Faith to the Church.

But when it comes to practice, of course they can makes errors in judgement.

My question is, why does it matter? These are not issues of faith and morals.

Jesus has NOT guaranteed a perfect “liturgy” because it is not an issue of faith and morals, is it? It can’t be, because the liturgy has changed through the ages.

Dr. Ker also discusses the fact that the Catholic Church is not outside of history, but is part of history and therefore changes its practices with history. He gives the example of a person who does not change their style of dress over the years. Of course, we don’t need to follow the indecent whims of fashion, but it is commendable to try to stay current in dress. A person who walks around wearing the fashions of fifty years ago is considered eccentric.

In the same way, the Catholic Church has changed its practices through the centuries to be appropriate for the times. But this is not the same as changing dogma.

As I have pointed out earlier (on topic, BTW), the various Catholic documents can be used to prove that pretty much anything goes in a Mass as long as the competent territorial authority (bishop) approves.

This, in my opinion, is why there is so much conflict here–people who are not called by the Lord to do so use “the books” to prove their points. They are doing the same thing that we used to do as evangelical Protestants–use the Bible to prove our points–and as we all know, the Protestant church is divided into many hundreds of factions called denominations, and even with denominations, there are factions and more factions.

And this is NOT the way it should be. This is not what the Lord Jesus prayed for His Church in John 17. We should be one.

The Lord has appointed leaders of the Church, and it is THEIR job to keep our Mass what it should be according to God. If they mess up and start propagating an error in the liturgy, the Holy Spirit working in them and others (perhaps us) will eventually bring things back to the way they should be.

We should not fret and debate and cause factions and divisions. We should pray that our bishops will be led by the Spirit.

Certainly we can help out by bringing to the attention of the priests something that we think, according to our limited understanding of the liturgical documents, is consistently incorrect in our local liturgy. And then we need to step back and trust that the priest, the man called by God to the vocation, will correct it. If he does not, then that is between God and him. We should not fret over it. We have done what we can. We should pray instead that we will have perfect reverence for the Lord in our own hearts and that nothing will distract us from Him.

And I think we need to be very careful not to call difference in practice which are acceptable to the Church “errors.” E.g., Marty Haugen music is not an “error” in the liturgy. E.g., using a guitar in Mass is not an “error.” (I demonstrated that from the Vat II documents above.)

It is one thing to bring to the attention of Father a true “error” in the Liturgy (either OF or EF). From what people have posted in various threads on this Board, that seems appropriate for Catholic lay people.

But it is another thing to bring to Father’s attention our personal preferences. For us to say, “Please eliminate the music of the St. Louis Jesuits” from our Mass" is NOT bringing an error to Father’s attention. It is whining about not getting our own way. It is insulting to Father as he and the bishop have made the decision that the music of the St. Louis Jesuits is appropriate for Mass. We as laity have no right to run the Mass. That is Father’s calling.

And I think that THIS is what many of us who are wrongfully labelled “Modernists” are concerned about.

Also, we are concerned about “complaining” in a public forum. Yes, by all means, quietly bring to Father’s attention a possible “error” that has been introduced into the Liturgy.

But bringing these issues to a public forum and going on for many pages about it–how does this glorify God and our Church? It only serves to emphasize that priests are flawed, that our Church is not perfect, and for many people who read these Forums, these things cast doubts into their minds as to whether the Catholic Church is truly the Church of Christ.

We should not give people a reason to turn away from the Catholic Church and keep searching for the True Church.

I think that if we have a question about whether a thing is an error or not, we should privately and discreetly ask others in our immediate circle of Catholic friends and acquaintances who we know to be steadfast and reliable and faithful Catholics. THAT is what the Bible says to do when there is conflict. Together with these people, we should prayerfully consult “the books” and THEN, only after we are convinced that there is an error in the Liturgy, we should go together to Father and ask humbly and respectfully for the error that we perceive is happening to be corrected. And we should be prepared for Father, who is more knowledgeable in these matters than us, to correct us and show us that there is no error at all.

I hope that the words above are wise, not foolish. I am a recent convert and know little.
Excellent post. 'Tis enough to make your fellow convert proud. 😃
 
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I think that the standing is a safety issue as much as anything. Little ones move fast and you often only have a few seconds to react.
I don’t think people had “safety” issues back before VII.
People knelt outside on the ground when the mass was celebrated outside durring the war.
 
I’ve said nothing re organic development.
I’ve said nothing re spiritually prideful.
Others have, these are the same people who’s criticism I should accept. I never implied that you were bringing up these specific points.
You seem to have a need to engage in argumentation.
Join a debate club. Join a book club.
or perhaps an internet forum?
Don’t attempt to put words in my mouth because you are angry.
I didn’t try to do any such thing.
I’ll pray for your peace.
I’m not angry, just upset and annoyed, my temperment is actually quite cool. I’m actually just chilling out with my cat right now, I couldn’t be calmer.
 
You are right, this is silly. Let’s back up here.

Let’s go back to the source of the misunderstanding, post #21:

In choosing to say “wasting my time here” and "…is great, because I’ll be seing less of you 👍 " we thought you were implying “I am better than you and will be pleased to be rid of you.”

In choosing to say “rest peacefully knowing that it is men like me who will be filling up the seminaries 👍” we thought you were implying “After all, I am real priest material, so the idea that your future priests will be like me must of course be a comfort to you.”

You say you meant no such thing. I believe you. Many of us probably could find a more profitable way to spend our time than posting here. Many of us are very pleased that men who are both zealous and traditional are answering the call to the priesthood. I also don’t find it a stretch to believe that you would be someone we will be very pleased to see in the priesthood some day.
Actually, perhaps we should go back to post 20 “Finals must be over” which was what 21 was in response to. Yes, Freshman88 could have phrased his post most better to convey what he says he was trying to, but IMHO post 20 could have also given a politer answer.
 
I don’t think people had “safety” issues back before VII.
People knelt outside on the ground when the mass was celebrated outside durring the war.
Perhaps the difference is, kneeling lessens your profile and thus is probably safer in war anyway; and the ground is usually softer than a gym floor.

As the father of a young child, I have to say it would be extremely difficult for me to kneel on a gym floor while hoding him. It’s already difficult enough to hold him while kneeling on a keeler, with the support of the pew back in front of me! He’s a squirmer sometimes 😃

It sounds to me as if the Bishop in question made a pastoral decision for the good faithful parents in his flock, as is in his authority. If I were in his diocese, I would thank him.

After all, you also have to think about cause and effect here. What’s more irreverent, standing during the consecration or having small children who managed to get free from their kneeling parents running around? 😃
 
Actually, perhaps we should go back to post 20 “Finals must be over” which was what 21 was in response to. Yes, Freshman88 could have phrased his post most better to convey what he says he was trying to, but IMHO post 20 could have also given a politer answer.
Where it started, who can say? What is important is that it be over! 👍
 
Perhaps the difference is, kneeling lessens your profile and thus is probably safer in war anyway; and the ground is usually softer than a gym floor.
I dont think that was the reason. People always knelt to show reverence for the eucharist. I do not know why priests and/or bishops decided that kneeling wasnt needed durring family/teen masses. I would think you would want to reverence at any type of mass and to encourage/teach children to do this as well. If anything it must be confusing for young people to suddenly have to kneel at mass when they were used to standing.

To me kneeling shows the greatest reverence and humility. Standing shows that you are equal to our Lord when we are not.
 
Freshman, God bless you in your vocation. It is young people such as you who give promise and hope for the future of the church if it is to come out of the crisis. I also read “Good bye-Good men” and my mouth hit the floor as well. It seems to me the nay-sayers always avoid reading this book when I tell them to do so.

Again…God Bless.

and

Dominus Vobiscum!
Others have, these are the same people who’s criticism I should accept. I never implied that you were bringing up these specific points.

or perhaps an internet forum?

I didn’t try to do any such thing.

I’m not angry, just upset and annoyed, my temperment is actually quite cool. I’m actually just chilling out with my cat right now, I couldn’t be calmer.
 
**The Mass is ALWAYS the Mass, not ‘the mass.’

The Eucharist is ALWAYS the Eucharist, not ‘the eucharist.’**

It doesn’t take much thought to understand why this is important.
It is the secular press that drops the capitals. We’re not of the secular press.
 
It is the secular press that drops the capitals. We’re not of the secular press.
You’d be surprised how few words which should be capitalized are capitalized in the 1985 English translation of the Roman Missal. Especially when you see that, in the official Latin text, those words are capitalized. 😦
 
You’d be surprised how few words which should be capitalized are capitalized in the 1985 English translation of the Roman Missal. Especially when you see that, in the official Latin text, those words are capitalized. 😦
I believe such errors will be corrected over time.
Meanwhile, I’m on a personal mission re this kind of thing.
There are less worthy causes!
 
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