I don’t think that the restraining order was dropped. It was granted to his fiancée who alleged domestic violence. Why would a judge stigmatise a man with a charge of domestic violence unless there was something to it? And does anyone have to undergo rehabilitation? they never asked me to do such. Why would a judge request a totally innocent person to undergo rehab treatment unless there were some reason for it? Since he had to undergo rehab treatment and his fiancée was granted a restraining order against him on the charge of domestic violence, it seems naïve to think that there was nothing to it and that he was totally innocent of all the charges against him.
You’re not serious, right? You do realize this happens all the time in court? Its extremely common for women to allege domestic violence? It gives them the advantege in custody, amount they’ll be awarded? If the woman is vindictive, and believe me many are, it can screw up a mans job (it can affect their securty/bond rating), mess up their reputation with friends and neighbors? Does it surprise you that some women would lie? In the emotional situations of divorce you think that never happens-- buddy it happens a lot.
Naive. Its naive to think that our judicial system, particularly at the lower levels is completely fair and just. You’re questioning a high level case with incredible national scrutiny, yet now contend lower level CHARGES, much less convictions are flawless.
Why would a judge issue them? In most jurisdictions they’ll issue a temporary restraining order simply on an allegation. Why? Well, it doesn’t cost anything, its the prudent thing to do, if the person who has the restraining order against them objects, they can contest it at the hearing to determine if it will be longer.
In the case where both parties file? Easy for the judge— hey you are both asking for the same thing, to stay away from each other. GRANTED!!! Bailiff, lets’ get some lunch.
Would it surprise you that some folks look at the cost of defending against a charge which will cost 1,000s of dollars and may take years, and you still may lose, against a rehab program that supposedly will do the same thing, only cost a couple hundred and be over with in perhaps a few months with a guarantee of no felony conviction? Do the math, what’s the smart call? How much money do you have? How much faith do you have in all juries?
Hear about the high school football player who was accused of rape, yet completely innocent? He took a plea deal because of his risk assessment. A he said she said case. Yet, if the jury ruled against him he would have gone to jail for decades. So he chose to plea and ‘only’ do a couple of years. Yet the woman had lied just so she could sue the school. She won too.ETA: actually, the district paid her off, I don’t think they went to court on it…