Open Thread on Zimmerman Verdict

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You’re right - it must be my notorious fashion sense! 😉
It could well have been concern about a 5 year old. It’s not healthy to always go to race. I hope you aren’t teaching your son that. It will short-circuit what Obama said about future generations, if your son is growing up suspicious of white people.
 
His dad lived in the development. He was apparently walking on a path that ran between the homes rather than the main sidewalk and according to Zimmerman’s call was “looking around” not seeming to have anywhere specific to go. That unfortunate action which I suspect was a teenager on a cell phone not a would be burglar, set in motion a most tragic set of events.

Lisa
Thanks Lisa. This is an observation. In my day you took a beating and when home, we didn’t try to kill each other, I know I took a few beatings and learned that I wasn’t a tuff guy. I guess I’d be dead now days.
 
Yeah, Trayvon caused his own death by not being respectful enough to a stranger following him in the dark, because we KNOW that Zimmerman was telling the truth about who threw the first punch. Just so he knows, there is no double jeopardy with God, so he better be telling the truth - at least to himself.
I’m just going with the evidence. I’m not clear how you KNOW anything different.
 
You are correct. However, being a young black male has little to do with the occasional (“some point in their lives”) profiling experience. It’s more about having to prove to people constantly/repeatedly that you are not all the negative things that they expect.
I don’t believe that for a second. Young black males walk through my neighborhood all the time. They don’t attract any more attention than young white males.
 
So, do you think that Trayvon Martin was justified in his fear of the “creepy *** cracka” that led to his actions of confronting/attacking him?
I do not condone Trayvon’s language, but if I have to believe the young woman, I also have to believe that Martin confronted Travyon first (at least verbally). You can’t have it both ways. So it means you have to believe that Martin didn’t simply jump out of non-existent bushes and start throwing punches while talking to his friend on the phone.

Now why weren’t Zimmerman’s first words: “I’m with the neighborhood watch?”. The basics of communicating with a stranger - introduce yourself before demanding information. Not even on the phone will I given info without the person first identifying themselves, but this kid was supposed to “respect” a total stranger’s demand for info, why again? Because he’s a young black male…so said the jury.
 
I don’t believe that for a second. Young black males walk through my neighborhood all the time. They don’t attract any more attention than young white males.
It does happen. I’m pretty certain that my son was given special attention while driving home in his own neighborhood (different incident than previously mentioned), and the only car salesman at the dealership I worked at who was pulled over for not having a dealer plate in his back window was African American…and he has been pulled over three times. DWB.
 
I do not condone Trayvon’s language, but if I have to believe the young woman, I also have to believe that Martin confronted Travyon first (at least verbally). You can’t have it both ways.

Now why weren’t his first words: “I’m with the neighborhood watch?”. The basics of communicating with a stranger - introduce yourself before demanding information. Not even on the phone will I given info without the person first identifying themselves, but this kid was supposed to “respect” a total stranger’s demand for info, why again? Because he’s a young black male…so said the jury.
So, punching/attacking the total stranger who is demanding info is the right thing to do? That’s not what I teach my kids. That is why my son ran and is alive today. I guess I should have raised him to have a chip on his shoulder and confront “creepy *** crackas.”
 
You are correct. However, being a young black male has little to do with the occasional (“some point in their lives”) profiling experience. It’s more about having to prove to people constantly/repeatedly that you are not all the negative things that they expect.
That is true. If one is Black (never mind young male), even today one has to go above and beyond the norms of social and professional acceptance by mainstream White society. It is difficult for many White people to understand this since they believe that once you’re accepted you don’t need to constantly prove yourself.

As a White person, I don’t believe I was ever profiled although I was sometimes self-conscious of being almost the only Jew living in a small town in PA, especially once when I went to the barber and was asked if I had a happy Easter. Such a question would rarely be asked in the same situation in multicultural New York.
 
Rig94086 wrote:

It does happen. I’m pretty certain that my son was given special attention while driving home in his own neighborhood (different incident than previously mentioned), and the only car salesman at the dealership I worked at who was pulled over for not having a dealer plate in his back window was African American…and he has been pulled over three times. DWB.

Nimzovik Responds:

Unfortunate. Yes it* does* happen. I had a friend that was very dark skinned. He also had the most stunning, bluest eyes I had ever seen. He went to register with the Selective Service System. The lady that interviewed him refused to put his eye color as blue on the Military form.:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: Astounding:cool: :shrug:This was in 1970.
 
That is true. If one is Black (never mind young male), even today one has to go above and beyond the norms of social and professional acceptance by mainstream White society. It is difficult for many White people to understand this since they believe that once you’re accepted you don’t need to constantly prove yourself.

As a White person, I don’t believe I was ever profiled although I was sometimes self-conscious of being almost the only Jew living in a small town in PA, especially once when I went to the barber and was asked if I had a happy Easter. Such a question would rarely be asked in the same situation in multicultural New York.
He asked if you had a happy Easter? :eek: That is awful!!! How did you survive this? 😉
 
I’m just going with the evidence. I’m not clear how you KNOW anything different.
There was some evidence to show who threw the first punch? :confused: Commonsense says it was not the guy chatting on the phone…but I’m remiss, the lawyer told the jury to forget commonsense. “Young black male” walking is the real issue after all…
 
It does happen. I’m pretty certain that my son was given special attention while driving home in his own neighborhood (different incident than previously mentioned), and the only car salesman at the dealership I worked at who was pulled over for not having a dealer plate in his back window was African American…and he has been pulled over three times. DWB.
I’m sure it does happen. My problem with the post I quoted is that I don’t think it happens constantly without question. It’s easy to be constantly and repeatedly profiled if you think you are constantly and repeatedly being profiled.
 
There was some evidence to show who threw the first punch? :confused: Commonsense says it was not the guy chatting on the phone…but I’m remiss, the lawyer told the jury to forget commonsense. “Young black male” walking is the real issue after all…
Whatever your personal bias wishes to go with. 🤷 The man has already been tried by a jury of his peers, and I see no need to retry the case with you on a forum.
 
I’m sure it does happen. My problem with the post I quoted is that I don’t think it happens constantly without question. It’s easy to be constantly and repeatedly profiled if you assume you are constantly and repeatedly being profiled.
That is true. It appears some people are raising their children to have that same assumption, so I guess Obama’s prediction that racism will diminish will be delayed due to their efforts.
 
I know, Lisa, based on several of your comments, that you “judge” more on appearance with regard to clothing, hairstyle, tattoos, etc. than race, and I think many people do. However, for many middle-aged Whites, the gangsta image of a young Black male seems more frightening to them than the same gangsta image of a young White male. That may, in part, be based on the lack of familiarity with Black male youth on the part of some Whites and, in part, on exaggerated media hype. (I’ve learned that when in doubt, it’s usually a safe bet to blame the media for everything.) There is also the reality that young Black males disproportionately commit more crimes, particularly in urban centers. I think one of the issues is not realizing that the “scary” appearance of some young Black males is often not a very good indicator regarding their behavior. If one lives in a city like New York and has more daily contact with people of many races, not just Black and White, one begins to learn that clothes don’t make the man (or woman). As a college teacher, I work with quite an assortment of students of every conceivable race and physical appearance, and I’ve learned that appearances can be very deceiving.
It’s not all down to a “scary appearance”, facts are facts. This does not excuse Zimmerman if he did indeed, profile someone but it’s still a part of this situation:
Perhaps because black males between 16 and 36, though only 2 to 3 percent of the population, are responsible for a third of all our crimes.
In some cities, 40 percent of all black males are in jail or prison, on probation or parole, or have criminal records. This is not a product of white racism but of prosecutions and convictions of criminal acts.
It’s not hard at all to find some heinous crime a black youth has been involved in, a convenience store being knocked over and the list goes on and on. Don’t you think this is a contributory factor??
 
Rig94086 wrote:

It does happen. I’m pretty certain that my son was given special attention while driving home in his own neighborhood (different incident than previously mentioned), and the only car salesman at the dealership I worked at who was pulled over for not having a dealer plate in his back window was African American…and he has been pulled over three times. DWB.

Nimzovik Responds:

Unfortunate. Yes it* does* happen. I had a friend that was very dark skinned. He also had the most stunning, bluest eyes I had ever seen. He went to register with the Selective Service System. The lady that interviewed him refused to put his eye color as blue on the Military form.:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: Astounding:cool: :shrug:This was in 1970.
A friend of mine had a friend who was Black and whose last name was Goldstein. He was, I believe, an Ethiopian Jew. He ran into all sorts of problems with his driver’s license and credit cards.
 
Some people snap at kids in general, using an example of a granny, elderly woman pulling her purse away from a child does not necessarily mean it was about skin color.
 
As to your specific quote, I take issue with Mr West suggesting that those who are profiled are lacking in respect. That is disrespectful to those of us who are indeed aware of the experience of being profiled. My 5 yr old once sat down at a restaurant and a granny immediately moved her bag to the side of the seat opposite him despite the presence of a barrier that could prevent any childish inquisitiveness. He was well-dressed, well-groomed and had not yet spoken a word or done anything by which his character (as much as a 5 yr old can have :)) might be judged, yet she took one look at him (I was otherwise occupied and had not yet approached the table) and moved her bag.
You know, for some reason I have read a huge number of complaints over the years about children in reataurants and on airplanes (which I inadvertently stumbled across many of when I was going to cross the country on a plane with a 7yo, and 5yo, and a 2yo given to screaming by myself!). I myself have seen a number of children behaving badly, and even worse, parents ignoring their badly behaved children (one of which *stepped on my baby *in a crying room at Mass one day).

None of these has ever referenced race. All of the children I can think of I have seen behaving badly were white.

It may well be that this grandmother moved her bag not because your son is black, but because your son was 5 and she had encountered those badly bahaved children with parents who ignore them and just automatically moved her bag without thinking about it.

I was once walkihg with my then 1yo daughter and she walked right into the middle of a group of black women who were chatting together. I apologized and guided her out of the group, but then I thought, maybe they thought I was taking her because they were black and I didn’t want her near them? Or if I hadn’t taken her out, they might have thought I let her bother them because they were black and it didn’t matter? I felt like it was a situation in which anything I did could have been taken badly (it was the time of the OJ trial and people were tense).

I think this happens a lot.
 
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