Overcoming ethnicity in Eastern Catholic parishes

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I don’t necessarily feel out of place in Ukrainian churches even though I don’t speak a word of Ukrainian and there isn’t a word of English in the Liturgy, but I feel some days like I’m deceiving people by pretending to be Ukrainian.
You may think it’s deceiving but I find that very commendable. No one was born knowing Ukranian (or whatever liturgical language) and unless you get the necessary exposure, you’re never going to speak or understand it. At the very least make the responses.
 
In most of the Ruthenian parishes I’ve been to it was the converts and transfers who were trying the hardest to preserve “ethnic” Eastern customs like Slavonic and even modern Ukrainian during the Liturgy. The Ruthenians have a very strong missionary spirit; they understand that people become Byzantine for religious reasons rather than simply viewing themselves as ethnic parishes.

In the Ukrainian parishes I’ve seen, people assumed that if you went there you either must be Ukrainian or a curious Latin. Nobody seems to understand that I legitimately view myself as a Greek Catholic and have requested a canonical transfer to have the bishops recognize this as well. I don’t necessarily feel out of place in Ukrainian churches even though I don’t speak a word of Ukrainian and there isn’t a word of English in the Liturgy, but I feel some days like I’m deceiving people by pretending to be Ukrainian.

I feel the most out of place in Latin churches, and the worst ones are not the parishes that know they’re ethnic (Hispanic, Filipino, and Vietnamese parishes) but the ones that think they aren’t. It’s the ordinary white Caucasian “American” parishes where the reigning assumption is that if you’re Catholic then you’re either German or Irish, and you’re supposed to have warm fuzzy feelings during Oktoberfest and St. Paddy’s Day. I’m Swedish-Minnesotan, grew up Swedish Lutheran (Augustana Synod - and please don’t mention the fact that the American monstrosity that calls itself the ELCA swallowed it up!), and I’m really not ethnically Catholic (except for the Sicilian on my mother’s side - but I wasn’t raised as such). I chose the Byzantine rite for religious reasons - and since no matter which rite I take, I’m immersing myself into a foreign ethnicity, I’m more than happy to be “adopted” into the Slavic culture.
Thanks for sharing! I think one of the challenges I have is that I grew up in a country thats predominantly Roman Catholic. Oftentimes you cannot tell where our cultural practice ends and our religious practice begins. And its the same way with a lot of Eastern Churches where the ethnicity is tied to the religious aspect and tradition. So now I have many cultural traditions which are religiously rooted, but completely different from the cultural traditions that are also religiously rooted with the Ukrainians. I guess thats how it is different for me given that there is something Filipino for me to do when its Christmas or Lent, and this is what I am trying to overcome. Do I completely let go of my cultural religious heritage and embrace a new one? Or find something in between?
 
You may think it’s deceiving but I find that very commendable. No one was born knowing Ukranian (or whatever liturgical language) and unless you get the necessary exposure, you’re never going to speak or understand it. At the very least make the responses.
The responses aren’t that tough - “Gospodi pomilui” and “Slava Isusu Christu” pretty easy to learn! - but even then the choir takes care of that for us.
 
The responses aren’t that tough - “Gospodi pomilui” and “Slava Isusu Christu” pretty easy to learn! - but even then the choir takes care of that for us.
Gospodi? Isn’t it Hospodi?

Or is Gospodi Slavonic?
 
Gospodi? Isn’t it Hospodi?

Or is Gospodi Slavonic?
In Slavonic it’s either Hospodi or Gospodi depending on whether it’s spoken by a Ukrainian/Ruthenian or Russian, respectively. At my Ukrainian church they pronounce it closer to the Russian way - East Ukrainians, I guess.
 
Personally, I don’t see it that way at all. Never have. I have to agree with the following on that point:
My point isn’t that the eastern churches are unwelcoming of outsiders. In fact I think the eastern churches (especially the Maronites) are far more hospitable and warm than the western churches. They like to see visitors. The problem is a cultural barrier. Americans who were born here in America and have always lived in the American culture will very rarely join a church that follows an Arabic or other culture, especially if their ancestors aren’t from that culture.
 
The responses aren’t that tough - “Gospodi pomilui” and “Slava Isusu Christu” pretty easy to learn!
Agreed. 🙂
I think we have one Ukrainian (90 years young), one Ruthenian, and the rest are a mix of modern day San Francisco. So we are not ethnically Russian but we are Russian by our parish heritage and we very much hold to that. We just had a two part series during agape about our history in Russia, and the path out of Russia and our earliest years in SF.

I think everyone knows these OCS responses and most know several more which others have mentioned as typical to hear in the language of the Church in the homeland. Of course we all know Kýrie, eléison but I have also learned a number of other “Greek” responses since the local Greek Orthodox protocathedral does their feast day liturgies (to a nearly empty house) all in Greek. I haven’t a clue what exactly is being said at most moments but I know the liturgy so I’m a happy camper just being there. (BTW it doesn’t seem to worry them that the place is nearly empty at those services… maybe they should change to English and hold the service at night to accommodate their Americanized faithful…no way! :))

There’s never any telling when the curtain is pulled aside whether Father will boldly begin in OCS, or English, and the occasional Arabic from his Melkite days. Personally, I’m always happiest when it’s OCS. I only know what he is saying at that point because I know the DL. We never get a lot of OCS but we do get sections of it and any major feast will begin in OCS and have plenty of it. Many of the parish (remember we’re really tiny) know festal greetings in OCS and Arabic, since Father uses all three languages for those greetings. At Pascha we have greetings in many other languages of course. 🙂 Our oldest choir member (a Christian Brother) who has been in the parish since its inception 50+ years ago will chant the hours in OCS. The rest of us are mostly limited there to the "Gospodi pomilui"s.

On Feast Days like the recent Nativity Holy Supper, our agape meal together is then guaranteed to have pirogi, mushroom soup, beets, etc. Truth be told there isn’t a middle easterner among us but we also have a heavy portion of middle eastern food. S’prazdnikom! 👍
 
Agreed. 🙂
I think we have one Ukrainian (90 years young), one Ruthenian, and the rest are a mix of modern day San Francisco. So we are not ethnically Russian but we are Russian by our parish heritage and we very much hold to that. We just had a two part series during agape about our history in Russia, and the path out of Russia and our earliest years in SF.

I think everyone knows these OCS responses and most know several more which others have mentioned as typical to hear in the language of the Church in the homeland. Of course we all know Kýrie, eléison but I have also learned a number of other “Greek” responses since the local Greek Orthodox protocathedral does their feast day liturgies (to a nearly empty house) all in Greek. I haven’t a clue what exactly is being said at most moments but I know the liturgy so I’m a happy camper just being there. (BTW it doesn’t seem to worry them that the place is nearly empty at those services… maybe they should change to English and hold the service at night to accommodate their Americanized faithful…no way! :))

There’s never any telling when the curtain is pulled aside whether Father will boldly begin in OCS, or English, and the occasional Arabic from his Melkite days. Personally, I’m always happiest when it’s OCS. I only know what he is saying at that point because I know the DL. We never get a lot of OCS but we do get sections of it and any major feast will begin in OCS and have plenty of it. Many of the parish (remember we’re really tiny) know festal greetings in OCS and Arabic, since Father uses all three languages for those greetings. At Pascha we have greetings in many other languages of course. 🙂 Our oldest choir member (a Christian Brother) who has been in the parish since its inception 50+ years ago will chant the hours in OCS. The rest of us are mostly limited there to the "Gospodi pomilui"s.

On Feast Days like the recent Nativity Holy Supper, our agape meal together is then guaranteed to have pirogi, mushroom soup, beets, etc. Truth be told there isn’t a middle easterner among us but we also have a heavy portion of middle eastern food. S’prazdnikom! 👍
Our Lady of Fatima is the name of your church, or is there another one in California? If I am ever lucky enough to get out there I want to come visit.
 
Our Lady of Fatima is the name of your church, or is there another one in California? If I am ever lucky enough to get out there I want to come visit.
We’re a very lovely little village. We get a surprising number of visitors. PM me if you have a date for coming. We are the only Russian EC in CA, in a sea of Russian Orthodox, a quite lovely sea it is. 🙂
 
I disagree. What’s that little bit about separation of church and state, inter alia?
Originally Posted by GraceSofia
Since Chicago is still part of the USA, I don’t think it is legitimate at all to “frown on any English spoken.”
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Grace, you should remember the United States has no official language. English is obviously de facto that language but it has no official status as such. There are Catholic Churches nearby to me here in the UK which offer the mass or divine liturgy in Spanish, Polish, Ukrainian, Arabic etc. etc. I wouldn’t say they’d from on you for speaking English in some but it wouldn’t be the norm and that I find to be no big deal as the Church is universal but universal does not need to mean homogenous.
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It’s not a matter of laws and the state. It is a matter of the country being an English-speaking country. If English is “frowned upon” anywhere in the country that is wrong IMO, for political and social reasons, but that is not the topic of this thread.

To address the topic of this thread, the Catholic Church is the universal church, it is not a bunch of ethnic social clubs. (Nothing wrong with an ethnic parish having purely social functions, but that is different). Nobody, no language, should be frowned upon. Everybody should be welcomed, and the business of helping each other get to heaven should take priority.
 
If your parish is “Russian”, what Latin Diocese are you under, since the Uniate Russian Churches have no Exarchate or Eparchy here in America?

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There being no current hierarch for us, our Russian Greek (Byzantine) Catholic parish in San Francisco is under the Latin Archbishop George of San Francisco.
However, the Russian Greek-Catholic parish in El Segundo, CA, is formally committed to the spiritual omophorion of the Melkite Eparchy of Newton by mutual agreement of the hierarchs involved. **Also by mutual agreement of the hierarchs involved, the Russian parish in San Francisco is informally committed to the spiritual omophorion of the Melkite Eparchy **and that in Denver, also informally, to the spiritual omophorion of the Romanian Eparchy of St George in Canton. The Russian parish in NYC is currently served by Melkite clergy, but has no formal or informal relationship with the Melkite Eparchy.
We commemorate in our Liturgy our Latin Archbishop, two Auxiliary Bishops and one retired Bishop as well as Patriarch Gregorios. The Melkite bishops have ordained our EC clergy. (Others of our clergy are bi-ritual, ordained in the Latin Church with faculties to serve us.)

(As has been mentioned here in the EC Section in the last day or so, “Uniate” is a term which is frequently used with negative connotations and is one of a number of such words which are banned from use on the Forum. Jan 1, '08, 8:01 am #5 Catherine Grant, Moderator )
 
The problem with an ethnic parish is that it creates a ghetto that seperates the people from the surrounding culture. The parish maintains a culture of a foreign country that is vastly different than that of its own country. It will never gain any new parishioners - unless they are more immigrants - because the people in the area are made to feel out of place in a parish that is completely foreign to them.
Sorry Jimmy, but not always.

Many ethnic parishes are warm and welcoming. Some are not, but those are also the ones that typically are remembered the most clearly.

Likewise, if one goes into any Ethnic parish long term, and disavows any interest in the cultural practices of the parish, one cuts oneself off AND offends the locals.

My grandfather’s parish (OLMC, Wyandotte, MI) is moderately ethnic. I mangled the polish during the Mass, and got a pronunciation lesson after from the babas nearby. But, by showing an interest in said pronunciation, they also decided to herd me to the food… and encourage me to join the choir. Show an interest in the language and culture, and most ethnic parishes will open up to including you.

In a village I was working for, just being willing to go to DL was enough to convince the village I wasn’t “just another white man…” and that village is one of the ones where usually whites get ignored profoundly. (Helping with the whale that afternoon also helped… and I’ll say that Muktuk is best when just carved from the whale. It’s not something most white men have gotten to try eating, nor even been invited to help in harvesting it. And unless I’m helping in harvesting a whale, I’ll pass on the muktuk next time; if you’re helping harvest, the babas will feed it to you as you work.)

There are ethnic ghetto parishes that seclude themselves, but they are not the majority. They’re just a very visible and very memorable minority.
 
There are ethnic ghetto parishes that seclude themselves, but they are not the majority. They’re just a very visible and very memorable minority.
And they don’t need to be too visible. Early Christianity spread by those who worshipped in catacombs. Interesting psychology at play there.
 
The problem is a cultural barrier. Americans who were born here in America and have always lived in the American culture will very rarely join a church that follows an Arabic or other culture, especially if their ancestors aren’t from that culture.
Unless I misread [post=740970]ciero’s post[/post], that is just what I see as a strength rather than a problem. The ethno-cultural identity can exist in varying degrees, but if it is stripped away (or, worse, negated), to entice “converts” to join, IMO we will not survive.
 
My point isn’t that the eastern churches are unwelcoming of outsiders. In fact I think the eastern churches (especially the Maronites) are far more hospitable and warm than the western churches. They like to see visitors. The problem is a cultural barrier. Americans who were born here in America and have always lived in the American culture will very rarely join a church that follows an Arabic or other culture, especially if their ancestors aren’t from that culture.
I don’t find them unwelcoming, at least my parish. The issue I’m presenting is that while most are warm and friendly, you still are an outsider, a visitor. An analogy, growing up I hang out at my friends’ house. The parents know me and like me, the siblings know me, the family is warm and welcoming. You can come by and hang out any time, you can sleep over, crash for lunch or dinner, everything is okay. But at the end of the day, you’re still just a visitor.
 
The ethno-cultural identity can exist in varying degrees, but if it is stripped away (or, worse, negated), to entice “converts” to join, IMO we will not survive.
I think this is right. There is a balance to be struck that maintains a strong sense of identity while avoiding insularity. It should feel like home to all - recognizable to old the and inviting to the new.
 
We’re a very lovely little village. We get a surprising number of visitors. PM me if you have a date for coming. We are the only Russian EC in CA, in a sea of Russian Orthodox, a quite lovely sea it is. 🙂
Don’t forget St. Andrews in El Segundo! The Russian Catholic capital of Southern California! 🙂
 
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