Tafan -
While not a wholly invalid concern, I think you need to remember a couple of things:
- In the West (where the problem of supporting the Priest would be most apparent), its entirely likely that their spouse will have a secular profession. If Priests are being paid enough to get by, its entirely likely that their spouse could add substantially.
- If the faithful understand that the Priest also has a family to support, in part, I find it quite likely donations would increase.
As to your first point, you seem to be saying that it would be fine for the wife to be the primary bread winner of a priestās family. Since priestsā salaries are not even close enough. I find this problematic. If we are to have married priests, then we must determine to support their families, regardless of a particular wifeās occupation.
On your second point, I am very skeptical. I have been involved in parish finances a long time, and I know people tend to get in a rut (so to speak) as to what they give the parish. The amount becomes rather habitual and doesnāt change that often for individuals. So I am skeptical that individuals would look at a newly arrived priestās family situation and compare it with the previous, and decide to give more. Certainly now, there is no change in support based on an additional priest being assigned to a parish (which would seem very analogous). Furthermore, a priest would be loathe to get in front of the congregation and say, to the effect,: " my predecessor was single, I have a family of 6, you need to give more now."
My point is that without addressing this issue in advance, the church opens itself up to some obvious problems (ie public criticisms of families living in poverty, potential need for priests to moonlight, simony and other fraud, etc). It is a bad idea to have the guy who is in complete control of the parish find himself in dire financial straights, especially with regards to the support of a wife and children.
Well, this is complete thread drift, and as I said earlier not the main consideration as to the rule of celibacy. But since financial corruption was one of the reasons absolute celibacy was insisted upon by Gregory VII, perhaps we should learn from history.