ConfusedLucy:
I just feel sad for say the girls who like trucks and prefer not to wear skirts or make up, this ideology is effectively telling them that they aren’t good enough to be female and must therefore be male. When you look into it it’s a more rigid view of gender than in fundamentalist Christianity.
This.
My 14-year-okd “tomboy” just wants to be herself. She’s a girl and she knows it, though she’s not particularly happy about it. She defies gender stereotypes in so many ways and that’s okay. She is about individual, not defined or constricted by her gender. The problem is that people keep asking her if she’s trans,pushing the idea that if you think how a boy is “supposed” to think and act like a boy is “supposed” to act, then you must really be a boy inside. We can’t just let people be who they are. In the process of trying to normalize this incredibly complex and extremely rare condition, a lot more confusion is occurring.