You seem to have completely forgotten Matthew 25, where the carrot and the stick abound. Christ does not ask us to pretend to be compassionate, but TO BE COMPASSIONATE. Pascal, using the carrot and the stick, does not ask us to pretend to believe, but TO BELIEVE.
I have mentioned in the past that I think atheists should not be bunched under one label. We can keep ‘atheist’ but we need to distinguish the class and degree, e.g. Born Atheist, Infant Atheist (those that for infantile reasoning are atheists), Too busy to learn about God Atheists (distinguished professionals that dedicated themselves to their professions and never really took the time to learn about God), Herd Mentality Atheists (joined because that is what is a la mode), Turned Atheist (those who were raised in a faith but this stopped and their knowledge of the faith is infantile and as adults with their infantile knowledge decide the faith is not worth it) etc… I am just typing the list without much thought, but, we would serve atheist better if we can distinguish them. Maybe, someday, a thread can be started and a good workable list can be developed or some theologian will come up with a nice list that makes a good workable distinction.
So, this whole idea of thinking that an atheist can just ‘choose to believe’ is unreasonable to me. Except in the rare cases where someone just decided not to believe due to the inconvenience or struggle uncertainty once posed. But, there are people who were raised with an atheistic worldview and additionally some of them reason in such a way that it is almost beyond them to come to recognize the existence of God. Now, I just cannot sit in front of an atheist as if waving a crystal and try to hypnotize them into just freezing their thinking process and ‘just believe’.
I think fear has its place (
kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-Fear-of-the-Lord/ ) but, I would not use fear obligate/terrorize someone into forcing themselves to ‘just believe’ - if that is even possible. I think we need to respect the person. As a matter of fact, God Himself could do something to terrorize everyone and make them believe, but, He doesn’t, He wants people to work out their own salvation. Don’t forget - Satan is not an atheist. Perhaps in an advanced stage of the journey, some atheists can take the leap of faith. Fear that death may catch me unprepared pushes me to make sure I receive the sacraments as death may come as a thief in the night. Fear pushes me to abide by the commandments and do the will of God. There is good fear but, due to fear to do acrobatics in my mind against myself is not something I would do nor demand that others do. I respect myself and others.
I have corresponded with an atheist who is one of the tops in his field and has left his footprints already in history. And what have I discussed with him? Nothing more and nothing less than his atheism. I just remembered there is a book I been meaning to send to him by Galot. Well, Charlemagne III, this atheist presents himself as a homeless person on a cold winter Christmas night outside looking in a home where family and friends are sitting in the dining room enjoying a nice meal etc… He has Catholic and Jewish friends and he admires their faith and how rich it makes their lives. If God exists - he wants to know; but, he can’t, he has tried and has struggled but, he says that I just cannot come to intellectually understand that a God exists never mind that he is personal. I would describe him as a Reluctant Atheist.

This, of course, brings to mind the movie; The Reluctant Saints (I recommend for those of you who have never seen it:
youtube.com/watch?v=eXxOLNRBdXw ). Now, I would be hard pressed to tell him: okay, just close your eyes and from the moment you open them again you will just be a believer - just believe - one, two , three.

It just doesn’t work that way. You say there is nothing funny here, but, how am I suppose to do that with a serious face? I mean, really?
About Matthew, well, I can already detect we have different understandings about who can be saved, so I will leave that for now. Suffice to say, that I believe anyone and everyone can be saved - and yes, even atheists and this thru the blood of Jesus and thru the Catholic Church. As far as I am concerned, Atheists are the Poorest of the Poor Spiritually - to borrow a little from Saint Theresa of Calcutta. And, according to Matthew 25 the Lord may someday say, after I gave you so many graces and spiritual gifts, how could you not help the atheists? I don’t know you!
I know many will disagree with me and that’s fine; but, I do not think that all the atheists who do not come to recognize the existence of God before they die are going straight to hell. We do not know their individual struggles nor if as may be the case for some negligent irresponsible abandonment, but, it is God who will judge them. Again, there are atheists and then there are atheists. The atheist I mentioned above, the last thing he would want to do is to be affiliated with the atheist ‘religion’ or club or fad whatever; he truly is struggling and has been and will continue to until he dies - to try to understand if there is God. Some people just draw a blank kind of thing. I am not here to judge, I am here to help.