What you are saying S B is an extremist right wing view, that God is infinite only up to a point, that point being the depth of human logic. That is really bizarre. Is that really what the Church is saying?
I will go away and check with a theologian friend, to see if that is the case.
To suggest that an aborted baby is at an advantage over a ‘born one’ is silly and not worth replying to.
Jesus said 'nothing defiled [by sin] can enter heaven. Now before you say ‘ah, but an unbaptized baby is guilty of original sin’, the baby has not consented to sin. In that sense, the baby is in a state of purity. Jesus said ‘blessed are the pure for they shall see God’. Jesus also said He came ‘that they should have life and have it to the full’. What you are saying is ‘ah yes, life to the full but, even Jesus’ sacrifice was incomplete in that He cancelled the debt of most sin but not all. He did not die for those who are guilty of sin through no fault of their own, He only died for those who consented to sin. That is preposterous. But like I said, I will go away and check mine [and your] argument with a theologian.
Pax Christi
Sixtus, not even a theologian as great as St. Thomas Aquinas can help you escape this logical argument: if heaven is better than hell, and if being aborted infallibly puts an infant into heaven, while being born involves the risk of eventually going to hell, then those who say that all aborted babies go to heaven are forced to agree that
it’s better to be aborted than to be born.
Brother, what is silly is to attempt to escape the logic of the above argument. There is no escape from it, apart from denying the existence of hell, or abandoning the Faith altogether. Please don’t deny a Catholic dogma, or abandon the Faith altogether!
Pope Pius XII would be amused to be called an extremist, right-wing Catholic.

So would St. Thomas Aquinas. They both would disagree with you for saying that all unbaptized infants go to heaven, and St. Thomas explicitly supported the Catholic theological deduction known as limbo, which means the wonderful gift of unmerited, everlasting natural happiness for those who die with original sin only.
Please don’t listen to me. Listen to Pope Pius XII and St. Thomas Aquinas:
ewtn.com/library/PAPALDOC/P511029.HTM
newadvent.org/summa/600101.htm
newadvent.org/summa/600102.htm
It’s perfectly correct to say that there’s no human being for whom Christ did not die. The Church says this in the new catechism (
CCC 605). Even though unbaptized children, like all other human persons except the Blessed Mother, are conceived in original sin (
CCC 403-404, 491, and 1250), Christ’s redemptive death benefits them, too, for these children are truly saved from the pains of hell–from God’s wrath, to use St. Paul’s expression (
Rom 5:9). To describe their destiny in a positive manner, their souls will eventually be joined again to their bodies in the resurrection, after which both their bodies and souls will be forever happy in a state of natural bliss called limbo. This rescue from hell, and this eternal happiness, both result from the Redemption.
Keep and spread the Faith.