Peace.
Both the Jews and pagan Romans judged, tortured and applied 10 deaths of crucifixion to Jesus and from the cross in his dieing breath prayed for them, “Father forgive them, for they know not what they do”.
And the Prophet Muhammad s.a. prevented the angel from punishing the people of Ta’if who had nearly stoned him to death, and desired not just their forgiveness, but also their right guidance. But both prophets were themselves in a helpless and powerless position at the time. The perfection of forgiveness is when one has the actual power to punish and yet pardons. And this perfection is exemplified in the actions of the Prophet Muhammad s.a., but absent from those of Jesus a.s.
Jesus never came to pass judgement or punish anyone. Jesus came to save all of humanity and creation from returning to the dust eternally.
You could only really claim this IF he had the power to judge and punish, and still refrained from using it. Otherwise, it remains just a claim.
Your problem is when Muhammad threatened war or was threatened by resistance, acted by blood shed. Like you said; Actions speak louder than words.
War was imposed on Muslims. The people of Mecca had already declared war in writing to the pagans and jews of Medina. When did the Prophet Muhammad s.a. ever threaten war that was not initiated by others?
If the Quran teaches love of enemy, then why did Muhammad possess the power to punish his enemies, and did spill blood.
The enemies were hell-bent at the time on depriving Muslims their right of freedom of belief, and hell-bent on murdering Muslims. At that time Muslims did not have the power to overcome them, so Muslims were forced to fight back to protect themselves, as the following verses state:
*[22:39] Permission to fight is given to those against whom war is made, because they have been
wronged — and Allah indeed has power to help them — [22:40] Those who have been
driven out from their homes unjustly only because they said, ‘Our Lord is Allah’ — And if Allah did not repel some men by means of others, there would surely have been pulled down cloisters and churches and synagogues and mosques, wherein the name of Allah is oft commemorated. And Allah will surely help one who helps Him. Allah is indeed Powerful, Mighty
[2:190] And fight in the cause of Allah against those who fight against you, but do not transgress. Surely, Allah loves not the transgressors.
[2:193] And fight them until there is no persecution and religion is (freely professed) for (the sake of) Allah. But if they desist, then remember that no hostility is allowed except against the aggressors.*
The last verse makes the point that religion being a relationship between God and people, no one has the right to compel others to believe or otherwise. Hence, Muslims were told to fight until religion was purely professed for the sake of God without coercion.
But even after others have initiated fighting, Muslims should cease fighting if they accept Islam or the authority of Muslims, or even if they incline towards peace themselves, as the following verse states:
*[8:61] “When they incline towards peace, do you incline towards it also.” *
Hence, the Prophet s.a. willingly agreed to the peace treaty of hudaibiyyah even though the terms were not favourable for Muslims, and so Muslims felt humiliated by the terms and conditions of the treaty. The Prophet s.a. did not want war; he wanted peace.
The witness by both first century Jews and Gentiles who were present prove you wrong. Jesus had the power to call down angels from heaven to destroy all who threatened his life,
And so did Prophet Muhammad s.a., as illustrated after the people of Taif nearly murdered him in cold blood.
including keepping his disciple Peter to put down his sword when they arrested Jesus.
It was foolishness on the part of Peter to challenge the authorities who had more power anyway, and Jesus was quite wise and practical to forbid him.
Oh, Yes Jesus perfected his divine teaching of loving his enemies. We know this because many many Christian saints went to their deaths proclaiming the forgiveness for their enemies, Beginning with St.Stephen recorded in the book of Acts when the Jews stoned him to death, St.Stephen prayed for God to forgive them, just as his Master Jesus taught him.
And Muslim saints and scholars have also forgiven their enemies.
Jesus never conflicted secular politics with his divine teachings.
So he had no teaching for those in authority, no wisdom for them to benefit from, hence Christians in authority had to enact laws borrowing ideas from other than Jesus. This is not something to boast about my friend.
Peace.