I know I am coming in late on the discussion, but I would like to get back to the Blessed Virgin. I am Catholic, but I do come from a fundamentalist background that brought Mary out at Christmas, and put her back in a box for the rest of the year. This is not near the respect Our Blessed Mother deserves. Forgive me if I repeat other responses, but I have limited time this afternoon, and I did not read every post.
-To suggest that Jesus showed Mary anything less than the utmost respect is ludicrous. To say otherwise would make Jesus guilty of the fourth commandment “Honor your father and mother”
-To suggest that Mary’s need of the Saviour runs counter to the dogma of the Immaculate conception is a misunderstanding of the dogma. Mary did need a Saviour, and she was saved, albeit preemptively. She was saved from sin in the womb. This was necessary because in order for Mary, the Ark of the New Covenant, to bring Jesus into the world, she must be made pure. This was done via the Immaculate Conception. She was conceived without sin. God can do that if He wishes, can he not? Mary was not the only one brought into the world without sin. I can think of two others, other than Jesus. Adam and Eve were not created with the stain of original sin. Mary is the New Eve. The New Testament fulfillment is always greater than the Old Testament type. Eve’s “No” to God was undone by Mary’s “Yes”. Does salvation come through Mary? No, but she cooperated in salvation history.
-With a literal sibling meaning of “brother” and “sister” we run into a serious problem. If “brother” must mean sibling, then Mary not only was not ever-virgin, she must have been ever-pregnant. Let me explain. In Acts chapter one we read (RSV-CE, emphasis mine):
*12: Then they returned to Jerusalem from the mount called Olivet, which is near Jerusalem, a sabbath day’s journey away;
13: and when they had entered, they went up to the upper room, where they were staying, Peter and John and James and Andrew, Philip and Thomas, Bartholomew and Matthew, James the son of Alphaeus and Simon the Zealot and Judas the son of James.
14: All these with one accord devoted themselves to prayer, together with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brothers.
15: In those days Peter stood up among the brethren (the company of persons was in all about a hundred and twenty), and said,
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Lets think about this. There were 120 people there. We can eliminate eleven as brothers of Jesus, for the Apostles. Mary and the women weren’t brothers either so how many was that 10? I think thats fair. Maybe a little more. I’ll be generous and go with 20. So that accounts for 31 of 120. That leaves in the neighborhood of 90(!) that were “brothers” of Jesus! So I posit that “brother” did not necessarily mean blood siblings, but could jave also meant others from his family, or simply followers and brothers in spirit.
I do have more to write but alas, I must get back to work.*