Sparkle, I don’t know what outfit your Prot friend is with, but the Protestants -I- know, including myself, were deeply gratified to be called separated brethren. And of course, it was in the shield-wall - the pro-life picket lines, when we got to understand that there were these Catholics, and like, they believe the same Gospel we do, and like, how is that possible? But isn’t it great!
On the definition of “heretic” I have always understood that as applying to a holder to beliefs which being held, deny salvation - in otherwords, a different Gospel. Donald Bloesch, a neo-orthodox theologian in Dubuque, then chooses to use the word ‘heterodox’ in a technical manner, to refer to beliefs which are wrong, but do not deny salvation. If one chooses to use that definition, would that not be how Protestants and Catholics would now understand each other?
And, it isn’t “picking and choosing”. That would be horrifically sinful.
The saints, being with the Lord, would presumably know the truth. And, I trust, know that we are fellow brothers and sisters in Christ.
St. Stevarino, Your talking about the Protestants (the orthodox evangelicals, not the Deists) having unity in their organizational chaos, and Catholics having organizational unity but doctrinal chaos has seemed to be true to me for a long time. If Catholics had the Protestant tendency to expel and split, they would have doctrinal unity

But then you say that we all think that Catholics are evil. uhuh, no way, not true. Some do, more and more of us don’t. We just don’t agree with every jot and title that somehow got included as dogma that must be believed. My response is much more “where did you get that?” and “ok, what is the historiography of that teaching, or legend or whatever” Inotherwords, as they say in Missouri: “show me!”
Pax, actually the wish that Protestants not come closer to the Catholic Church, and even on in, for one who believes that you have to be all the way in to be saved (the Feenyite heresy) is in fact hateful. Damnably so, and in the theological sense of the term.
That is a awe-some sermon. I think we can add that if one does know the Shepherd, and yet believes onesself to be in a valid paddock, and that there are more paddocks than one, yet all part of the One Flock. . .