My understanding is that for the most part Jews did not nor do they today pray for the dead,especially for their specific “alleviation”. That they commemorate a recently deceased with praises to God(Kaddish),never mentioning death, is a stretch that they “pray FOR the dead”. Josephus apparently never said it either, though some have tried to say that he did.You do not find it in the Hebrew bible.
I told you of my two early Jewish sources, now I’ll give them to you:
2 Maccabees 12:39-46
“39 Next day, with Judas at their head, they went back to recover the bodies of the slain, for burial among their own folk in their fathers’ graves; 40 and what found they? Each of the fallen was wearing, under his shirt, some token carried away from the false gods of Jamnia. Here was defiance of the Jewish law, and none doubted it was the cause of their undoing; 41 none but praised the Lord for his just retribution, that had brought hidden things to light; 42 and so they fell to prayer, pleading that the sin might go unremembered. Judas himself, their gallant commander, gave public warning to his men, of fault they should evermore keep clear, with the fate of these transgressors under their eyes. 43 Then he would have contribution made; a sum of twelve thousand silver pieces he levied, and sent it to Jerusalem, to have sacrifice made there for the guilt of their dead companions. Was not this well done and piously? Here was a man kept the resurrection ever in mind; 44 he had done fondly and foolishly indeed, to pray for the dead, if these might rise no more, that once were fallen! 45 And these had made a godly end; could he doubt, a rich recompense awaited them? 46 A holy and wholesome thought it is to pray for the dead, for their guilt’s undoing.”
Source:
newadvent.org/bible/2ma012.htm#vrs43
Here is Josephus from my copy of “The Jewish War”, Williamson, G.A. Smallwood, E. Mary, Penguin Books, New York, NY: 1981. Pgs. 46-47 , (emphasis mine)
“While the Romans were suffering severely Pompey was amazed at the unshakeable endurance of the Jews, especially their maintenance of all the religious ceremonies in the midst of a storm of missiles.
Just as if deep peace enfolded the City [Jerusalem] the daily sacrifices, offerings for the dead, and every other act of worship were meticulously carried out to the glory of God.”
I was a bit off in my date, Josephus is was writing of Pompey, this was just before the 1st century A.D. (
1st century B.C..)
Regarding more current Jewish custom, from the
Jewish Encyclopedia:
“…The view of purgatory is still more clearly expressed in rabbinical passages, as in the teaching of the Shammaites: “In the last judgment day there shall be three classes of souls: the righteous shall at once be written down for the life everlasting; the wicked, for Gehenna; but those whose virtues and sins counterbalance one another shall go down to Gehenna and float up and down until they rise purified; for of them it is said: ‘I will bring the third part into the fire and refine them as silver is refined, and try them as gold is tried’ [Zech. xiii. 9.]; also, ‘He [the Lord] bringeth down to Sheol and bringeth up again’” (I Sam. ii. 6). …”
Source:
jewishencyclopedia.com/articles/12446-purgatory
Please check out the rest of that article in the Jewish Encyclopedia too. Yes, the Mourner’s Kiddish is also evidence for a post-mortem purification
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